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bEsT friend
okay, ive had my guy best friend for like a year now, and he recently just got a gf, theyve been goin out now for like 4 months, he loves her, she loves him, etcetc...he usta REALLII like me ALOT in the past..even when he was with his gf, we tell eachother EVERYTHING, he even told me how he felt about me...then i didnt wanna fuck nething up for them so i backed off so he would kinda stop having these feelings for me...now everything is back to normal i think...we just like gradually started talking again and we are like how we usta be...this was acouple months ago, but the thing is, i THINK that im starting to have tiny feelings for him starting to form..ahh i dunno whut to do cause i think im kinda jealous now?? i have no idea how im feeling..i dunno whut to do/think..id appreciate if u helped, thanks =]
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well.. he prolly styll likes you too.. and trust me.. if u tell him you like him.. even if he doesnt like you ritew now.. then u styll have a chance.. cuz there are sum people hoo ive liked.. and been shot down bai.. l0l.. and i move on.. but then i find out they styll like me.. and all mai feelings come up again.. soo.. i thynk.. u shuud tell him.. even if he dont like you rite now..
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Sorry, girly, but you blew it for now! Don't tell him, I say. You didn't jump on board while he was single, don't butt in now. He likes this girl, and if you interfere, you might make him very angry and resentful of you. What if he does like you back? You'd be putting him in a very tight situation. If your feelings for him are really tiny, like you say, then stuff them away for his sake and the sake of the poor girl he's dating. Imagine what kind of an enemy you'd make if you stole her man, or tried to, in her eyes. Just lie low. Sounds like you are all young, and young-age relationships never last very long. Wait until he's single again, then re-explore those feelings. It's better than risking a wonderful friendship.
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Ok u probably didn't realize how much u liked him until he was gone. This happens a lot and u need to just talk to him and let him know how u feel.
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I would tell him..just like he told you..maybe you can ask him out? well hope you two work out..and hope i helped! rate me =)
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mandah
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let me put a semi mature guys perspective on this... personally, if i were in a relationship, and truly in love, i probly wouldn't want to hear that someone i'm close friends with "likes" me or even has more than just a "like" for me... but hold on..... i'm not saying don't tell him..... you said you were really close and could tell eachother pretty much anything right? so you might be able to tell if he's really in love with the other..... now again don't jump on this.... you really have to separate your feelings for him from the situation if you don't want to lose the friendship. allow yourself some time to think about the way you feel about him. don't shut him out of your life, and don't try to jump into his business about his relationship. again, i'm not saying don't ask questions, just don't ask questions that are too personal, when the question hits your head you'll know if it's too personal. back to the situation.... first find out how he feels about her..... don't always take his first answer.......especially if they've had an arguement recently..... but really be a friend who is just curious..... and if he does love her truly, don't tell him and try to move on...... if you tell him even though he loves her.... he may become questionable about their relationship and may resent your actions because guys do stupid things when they question their own feelings..... but on the other hand if he openly says he's not sure how he truly feels about her, don't lead him into saying it, he has to say it on his own, then go ahead and tell him...... something beautiful might blossom....... but don't come crying if everthing turns to poo...... there are risks and the heart is a terrible thing to play with.... sorry if that didn't help.
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I would tell him how you feel. There's no point is trying to hide something that might affect your friendship. Trust me on this I had the same problem.
Hope I helped!
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If you think your starting to get feelings for him, tell him, he had the courtesy to tell you how you felt, perhaps you should return the favor, depending on how he feels he may back off like you did, but he may not, its a risk, but a risk worth taking. Im sure your feeling confused and your worried that telling him with stuff things up for him and his girlfriend, but he mustn't like her all that much if he had feelings for you while they were going out. My advice is to tell him. Good Luck :-)
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