what do you do when you wake up and realize you love another
Question Posted Thursday June 3 2004, 8:26 am
16-f
what do you do when you wake up oen morning and you suddenly realize...that you really dont love the person you thoguht you did, but you love another guy. and you dont know what to do about it? anyone got any ideas???
sweetgirlbrown answered Thursday June 3 2004, 5:07 pm: first of all you have a lot to think about.. i've been in your shoes before, and once some time went by (i never told my bf of 3 years about this, he's now my ex!) haha... i realized that i wasn't really in love with this other kid that i was just looking for something that was missing with my boyfriend at the time... humans have this idea that once their happy they still feel like something is missing (well i do) so maybe it might be a fling thing to see what more is out there, and if your truly happy with your boyfriend... hope i was some help just mostly THINK about things...
Henricoplyby69 answered Thursday June 3 2004, 2:41 pm: Definetly been there! I love a guy named david! He loves me! One day I thought I had fallen for a guy named Pat, Well I thought about it and was like he doesn't love me I don't think and I just love the person I am with, It turned out that pat is just a crush, he looks good and that was all it was! [ Henricoplyby69's advice column | Ask Henricoplyby69 A Question ]
Nevaeh answered Thursday June 3 2004, 12:18 pm: As far as what to do, only you can answer that. and as far as having any ideas, I think I might can offer some insight into your problem. So here goes,.... This is your life and you deserve to be happy, not make others happy before your own happiness. This guy that your already with sounds like the flame has burnt out. But to make certain, You need time away from him so you can see where your heart truly lies. and maybe that is with this other guy. Have you and this other guy even talked or anything? I wish i knew more about you and this other guy to be able to answer this question better. feel free to write to my advice column, would love to try to help you with this. [ Nevaeh's advice column | Ask Nevaeh A Question ]
dianerolle answered Thursday June 3 2004, 10:57 am: well first of all you cant spell. you are so stupid stop actin like you like some one you probably ugly next time dont come with a story that will make me fall asleep. [ dianerolle's advice column | Ask dianerolle A Question ]
LiLAmBo01 answered Thursday June 3 2004, 10:04 am: Yes yes, I have been through this. It's not something you just... wake up to... you have had to been thinking about it and the more you think about it... the closer you are to making that decision. I thought I was "in love" and then I met this amazing guy. Unfortunatly, I was still with the other guy, and didn't know what to do about that. I ended up going with my gut and heart and going for the newer guy, of course after 4 months of getting to know each other. We have now been together for a year and a half and he's the most amazing person in my life. I hope this helps... just follow your heart. [ LiLAmBo01's advice column | Ask LiLAmBo01 A Question ]
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