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my daugher
my daughter is involved with a man that is 18 yrs older than her. i dont have a problem with that as i have known him quite awhile, she is old enough to make that decision. my question is what do i do to hide the fact that i too have feelings for him? i would not hurt my daughter but im not sure i can suppress my feelings much longer. i know it is purely lust feelings i have for him, and i know he does not feel the same way what should i do?
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if you know for sure that he doesnt feel the same way you should just keep it inside of you unless you love him there is no point in ruinin your daughters relationship!
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Dear my daughter,
Just tell your daughter and the guy how you feel.You will feel alot better.(even if they get mad at you)
-Dionne
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Control yourself. I wouldn't say anything to either your daughter or her boyfriend. I would hope you could suppress your feelings, because if you don't, absolutely no good will come of it.
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NOTHING, dont do ANYTHING! This is your daughters bf not yours, dont hope she'll brak up with him, DONT hurt her, and you can tell her how you feel if you want, but if not then stay out of HER relationship!
Dont Mean To Be Rude But Truly Take MY Advice
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If you've admitted that its primarily lust you have for him - just try and control things.
You really can't act on this in any way at all because you'll only end up hurting one person - your daughter. If she cares about this guy a lot then you shouldnt test the feelings they have for eachother by putting yourself between them.
And what would happen if you made an advance on him and he resisted and then told your daughter? She may never forgive you.
Let this go. It'll pass and then you can one day look back and laugh at how crazy you are :)
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Leave it alone. Acting upon your desires could cause you to lose your daughter - froever - that's a line that you just don't cross.
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