16/f..i have a boyfriend..we've been together for almost 3 months..and he says I'm the "only one" yet..he flirts with girls in my face..acting like nothing is wrong when he talks to me after! he changed his myspace status to "single" but he still treats me the same..(like his gf) idk what's going on. whenever i walk by with him..holding his hand..if he sees a girl that he knows..she'll obnoxiously walk over to him..(as if not noticing I'm there) and go..Jimmy(not his name lol)!!!! HEY BOO! And she'll give him a greeting kiss..I won't respond to it..I'll pretend it never happened..though I'm a bit hurt inside. He talks about how hot girls are sometimes...though limiting that subject of conversation when I'm around. Whenever we talk..he doesn't sincerely admit how he feels about me..It's all physical. He talks about watching porn. Something you wouldn't do when you're around your girlfriend. It's as if he has NO regard towards my feelings..as if I'm SUPPOSED to hear that from him and stand it. This is my first boyfriend..so I'm not entirely sure. I'm not one of those people to speak when something is bothering them, so I'll keep it in. I didn't confront him about the comments he sends to girls on myspace..or his status. Or any of that. His ex-girlfriends also give me weird stares..and glances. I just want to know..In your opinion..do you think I'm just a make-out buddy for him? 3 months seems long enough to grow up..And he's my age, so he should at least TRY to act normally. I know I'll never be able to confront him..I'm too scared. He gets mad when I do that..and he might break up with me, lowering my already lowered confidence...
What can I do?
You've Met a Pimp.
And I know this because, well, I do the same thing. But The girs I mess with are all kinda like cool with being hook-ups, Idk i just dont date. My best advice, Break it off. Because he just wants to prob. have sex with you. Im sorry you had to stand all this, and I hope I help. Need anymore advice just ask :)
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this boy, he lives so far away, i only see him 3 times a year. winter break, a week in the summer, and spring break. well, this sunday im gnna see him for spring break. his family and my family are both going, and, were gonna be swimmin all day, and then its like fancy dinners at nights. and, i like him so much. how do i make him see this? without saying anything that has the word "like" or love in it. like i cant say "i like sombody" because i dont want to be that direct, i just want to hint it to him because he might have a girlfriend, and i dont want to look like an idiot. also, how can i flirt without being to direct? usually, i just smile a lot, and the boy will get it, but this boy isnt so much of a flirt. also, hes 14, almost 15, and im 13, almost 14, and so hes older, and thinks of me like younger. how can i show him that im a big girl? it helps that im taller then him, but just by a little. and he said "woah, are you wearing makeup?!" when i was. is this good that he noticed? because im such a girly girl, i wear makeup everywhere and im not going to stop for him, i just want to know if its a good thing or not. okay, thank you to anybody who took the time to read this, i know its obnoxiously long.
xoxo,
MMEE!!!
No, You dont liek him you ont know him, im sorry but liking someone you see only three times a year means you cant find anyone where you live and you should start trying to find some1 this is not healthy, but if you do not want to go by what i say at all simply go up and kiss him, Sorry if this sounds mean but its the truth
-thanks
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i am in the 8th grade and i really like this guy who is in my class. we have been going to school together scince kindergarten. He got out of a really bad relationship like a year ago and hasn't liked a girls scince. he always gives me mixed signals its driving me nuts. I am really bad at telling some1 i like them cause it hasn't worked out before and i am scared i will lose a friendship. please help what should i do?
This has to be the worst thing i've ben faced with as of late, You just have to "eat" your fear and approach him and just talk, and if you dont want to do that pass him a note, tell him, ____ i know you are going to think im silly, but i really like you, i mean everytime our eys meet a get a tingley feeling, and i feel so specail, Im not sure if you like me but i def. like you, and hope we can be together?
-thanks for askin me this :) hope you two get together Byez
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Ok so everything was going well with me and my boyfriend. But then out of the blue he said it was over. I was so sad. He didn't even want to give me a reason. I am so depressed. We were together for 10 months. I really don't know what went wrong. Well anyway I need help to make him feel bad. I don't go to his same school. So that's a problem. I want him to feel bad the way he made me feel bad. I also want to find out if he still likes me or if he ever did. But I can't ask him that. Any ideas?. Please help. Aslo if it helps I'm 14 f. Thankyou so much!
well this is gonna be hard to hear this, but i think he has used you and cheated you, and revenge is immature , i think you need to befriend some1 from his school that will find stuff out for you... just move on and find some1 else... hope i helped thanks
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Alright, i wanted to do something special on New Years for my boyfriend. Since new years is our 11 month anniversary too. I cant think of any ideas. I was already going to wear a skirt for him since i have never worn somethin like that before (excluding one time for wedding)haha. I need ideas on what to do for him. Anything, sexual absolutely anything. I have no clue on what to do. Thanks.
well as a guy i think what Xenolan said is a pretty good idea, but if your ready for sex, well in the limo would be perfect... and what to wear, well a skirt is liek the sexiest thing ever and i personally think that like those stockings that girls wear that liek come almost up to thier vagina is so hott... (not pantyhose BTW) well thats about all i can think of, any more questins and ill be glad to help.. thanks
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Ever since I knew you
My heart sings a new tune:
One of love.
Every time you come around,
I bubble with joy;
As happy as a _______.
You give me pleasure unknown before,
Each day I beg for more;
Without you, my heart is empty;
ever day seems dull.
I can't pay you for the joy you give;
But I know you
You are the reason to live.
please help! it has to be rhyme with joy
thanks a lot =]]
Ever since I knew you
My heart sings a new tune:
One of love.
Every time you come around,
I bubble with joy;
As happy as i hope you are my baby boy.
You give me pleasure unknown before,
Each day I beg for more;
Without you, my heart is empty;
ever day seems dull.
I can't pay you for the joy you give;
But I know you
You are the reason to live.
-- thats liek the only thing i cant think of hope i helped thanks
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I met this guy a few months ago and straight away we knew we were going to be really close mates. A month or two later he told me he loved me and that he knew he had a girlfriend and he loved her but he couldn't help loving me as well. Things happened anyway and a while later him and his girlfriend hit a rough patch and mutually split up (her idea) Anyway, he asked me out and we had an amazing few weeks, but after a long talk i realised he still loved her and told him i wanted him to be happy even if that meant losing him to her again. He is back with her now and we are still very close mates. .. But he is the only guy for me...I really think i am actually in love with him, but i want him to be happy! thats all i care about!
Please help me!
Lovesick Rock-chick
-xXx-
sandi74 is completely right he is using you as a doormat, and if he loved you so much why did he go right for his ex again? This guy is using you, everytime him and his girlfriend break up or fight he is gona come to you, and prob say* oh baby i missed you i really love you come here* and he will prob kiss you and all that... he is using you, and you are to good for that... hoepp i helped
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Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]]
haha this happens to me alot, e finds you super attractive and when he says your *making him hard* he is very horny and prob. wants to do *things* with you but doesnt want to say it because well thats just wrong to say it... it is good anyway around because he finds you very attractive and its good because if you want to have sex with him you can anytime(USE PROTECTION IF SO) hope i helped thanks
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Everytime my boyfriend comes over we just watch movies and makeout. Its getting kind of old, is there anything else we can do? (Not anything sexual I mean) Were both 15 so we can't drive yet either. Thanks.
well as a boy myself i can say i love cuddling, and try to get him to sing for you or dance even, talk long walks with him, and if you get tired yins can go to eithers house and maybe fall asleep together, many think guys and a girl and bed= sex its not true, it feel really good when you wake up with a girl next to you knowing yins didnt have sex, play him in video games and its awsome to get into conversations about like nothing...
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i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere
this is kinda what Im goin through but Im a guy... It ended up for me i told this girl I liked exactly how I feel but shes cool with it... she give me so many mixed signals its unbarable... but you have to tell him.. maybe you will be luckier than me? who knows? if you tell him and he still sends you mixed signals you just need to wait...but since your the girl you can give him a deadline... like say I'll tell you what I like you so much and IDK if you like me but I wont be here forever... if you say that im sure yins will get together.. thanx and keep the fires burning!
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k so i'm 14 and i fell for a 16 yr old. He said he liked me and i told him how i felt. We decided that we'd wait a month before we decided anyhting b/c we had met really recently.
Now he says that he doesn't think he'll be ready to date anyone for a while, but he still only likes me. But i dont want to wait. Should i just give up and move on or wait for him?
I think...You can wait for him if you want but someone else will come along and that is when you need to worry about what to do... right now just wait for him and if someone else comes along and he says he's really you need to follow your heart... thanx for listening...and keep the fires burning...
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I like this guy and he knows it. We dont know eachother that well. My situation with him is really uncomfrotable because once he found out from my friend he told all his friends and now they stare at me. One of his friends(I swear to god this boy is gay and wants my crush) is ruining every chance that i even had with him. He shouts out "there she is!" "or go say hi" or "Oooohhh" or something equally stupid.Well at first it was cute b/c he would just stand up and smile at me and he was always blushing now its pretty lame cause his friend even got tampons then threw it at my crush and yelled "its from your girlfriend". Now its harder to talk to him he still looks at me but so do all of his friends and it makes me nervous he is never ever alone. If i even come near his one really annoying friend will definately embarass me. What should i do? Also I have no idea what to say to him so if you could give me some tips in case i ever do get him alone.
You will probably never get him alone to start... so what u have to do is just walk right up to him and all of his friends the more that are there the better... If his friends start to make fun of you just tell them off... and in a sweet voice tell him exactly how u feel...Thanx and Keep the Fires burning
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ok so my exboyfriend whent on a trip this weekend and he got drunk and went skinny dipping w/ his friend and her sister and ended up having sex w/ both of them cuz he liked both the girls. he told me because he has some feelings left for me but i cant trust him i know i cant ive been trying to get him to stop drinking for ever and its reasons like this that make me try to get him to stop so he doesnt do anything stupid which he already did. he feels bad about it but he already did it! what can he change now? and i had a really strong feeling the night that it happened that he had done something he would regret. lately ive been missing him and considering taking him back but what do i do now? i odviously cant trust him. please help!!
I think he is dead to you... dont take him back because he already hurt you real bad... Even if he sobbers up i think you should still stay away from him...Find a new boy and good luck...
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15/F
So i made a mistake..i have this problem where i can't keep a secret. People (my friends) don't usually realize it until they find that out through experience. I have this really weird cyber-like relationship with my friend who is 3 grades older than me, and now we don't cyber anymore but that's another story. He also has a girlfriend. He told me he was going to break up with her awhile ago and now i don't think he's going to anymore, but my friend stephanie told me she thought they were going to break up so i told her that he told me he was going to break up with his girlfriend. i don't remember exactly what i said, but the other day in passing i guess i told my friend bailey, too. i was kind of nonchalant about it, i mean, most people think they're going to break up anyway. Well, today it kind of backfired on me...when i saw him in school he was being kind of weird, and when i got home i went online and tried to be normal talking to him, but he said he didn't want to talk and never wanted to talk to me ever again. so i'm like oh man..what on earth did i do? (we go through so much crap and things get spread and it's just, not a great cycle..)He said my friends stephanie, bailey, jackie, and harry had ALL told him i told them that he said he was going to break up with his girlfriend. Now, stephanie and harry i don't understand because they are two of my best friends so i think they turned on me. great. jackie and bailey was totally an accident and i dont even remember what i said, jackie said bailey told her and i told bailey..i know this is a ton of "who told who" and i'm sorry. my best friends not answering her cell and i have no one else to talk to at this point. Bascially, the issue is what do i do? he's just angry with me and theres so much behind it but i don't know how to handle what's going on, what with him being so mad at me and my friends apparently casuing it? any advice? thanks!
You need to appologise to him... I am a kid that can keep secrets real good...like steal box tight... I dont think the natzis back in the day could get me to tell... and if you want to know how just dont pay attention and act like what they are saying is not true but keep it in your mind... Dont worry about your friends just keep things to yourself... yeah just apologise and make it up tto him every thing will be okay
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I really like this one guy, but he doesn't know me at all, he just hangs around the same people I do. Alot of girls like him at my school, but he doesn't really go out with many of them because even though they are really pretty their not really smart and all they do is flirt with him whenever they can and I can tell he doesn't like them. I want to get to know him better but I don't want him to think I'm like all the girls who never stop trying to be his girlfriend; because even though I'm really pretty and popular I'm not like them at all, I actually care about my grades and things other than shopping. What should I do?
I think that you should first become his friend and dont flirt with him act like well hard to get... he will get so ticked off that you dont like him like every other girl does and try to get closer to you... I have had girls do that to me and I am a dude that is like in the middle at school and as far as i know not to many girls like me... so I find girls that are not in my school... anyway playing hard to get should work and I will be mystified if it doesnt... Peace and keep the fires burning!!!
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so my other problem is theres only 3 days of school left and then summer.. should i just try to get him to hang out with me over the summer ? or call and talk to him ? or..?
O well I think you should try to call him first and if that does work you should get one of your friends that is his friend aswell and let them know whats up then tell that friend to get him someplace at a certain time and all of a sudden "accidentally run into him" get what im sayin... That is all I can think of... Unless both of your parents are friends are they??? if they are you can tell you mom whats goin on and have their family all over for dinner or something and go staight to the subject with him no small talk tell him whats on your mind...Peace and Keep the fires burning
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15/f...i went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everything was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and after he wouldnt even look at me and the past week ive been just trying to make small talk and he'll talk to me and he gives me that look like " make it better please" but he doesnt act like that you know?..i want him back so bad i miss him soo much but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before and ..
This one is really a good question... well one of my old girlfiends did the same thing to me and it was not fun i tell you what she did... One day I was sitting there loook ing at her laughing and hugin her you know making her feel good... and well the next day she broke up for no reason... NOT FUN... but I eventaully got over it she first started talking small talk and I told her to get away from me and I went out with another girl just to make her jealous I felt bad and told this new girlfriend what was going on... and she told me straight up to get the hell over it... so she eventually gained my trust and I talk to her just about everyday now and Im about to ask her out...So dont be worried hell get over it... aight peace and keep the fires burning!!!
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14/f
Okay well I have this guy friend and...Ok so he’s not just a friend were A LOT closer than that but the prob. is he’s moving away...really far and I know I’m going to be sad and all but also he’s older than I am…not sure if I want to say or not how much so this way people cant be all on my case about it but its not like a bad age diff just something some people wouldn’t like is all. But yea I guess my question is if we should try and keep our "friendship" or just tone it down and be friends…because do long dist things work really? So yea thanks for your help! =)
k sry but first off I am 14 and already know having friends with benifits is not good, and Im a boy... Hey screw what other people say... remember if the say stuff the care about your business even im the hate you... people still care... and who cares what other people say it is about you and him... you definately tone it down and call him when he moves and just talk.. k peace and kepp the fires burning...
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k 14/f hereee
okayyy.. so theres this guy, justin i met at the beginning over the school year, and he had a thing for eachother ever since.. like basically we're in love.. we've been talking for like 9 months.. and i pretty convinced i love him, and i can tell he loves me also.
and well we wanna date and stuff but our school=drama.. i mean when me and justin started talking, so much crap went around. it was crazy.. and if youre wondering why, im 14 and hes 17. but in my case i dont care bout age. but everyone bascially knows we're in love. so everything is cool with people at school.
but my mom, doesnt like him.. although shes never met him, she just thinks he wants sex, but hey i havent slept with him and hes still here, after 9 months. and i told him that i wasnt gonna have sex with him, cuz basically i think im too young, and he totally understands.
But anyway, i had to beg my mom for me to even talk to him.. and she just doesnt understand.
and well me andhim really want to date.
any advice?
thanks, i rate all 5's
but if you say im too young to be in love;
no rating.
I say hey... Date him...the people in school are just well dont listen.. school makes me mad...
Even though I am a boy I been in this Situation.. your just have to find some way to make them two meet... If they get to know each other every thing will be fine... Tell your mom to chill... Hey props to this dude and to you cuz he really likes you if you toldd him no sex and hes still around...Yeah but date him and screw school...Im 14 and no ur not to Young... aight peace and Keep the fires burning!!!
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