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HELP! HELP! HELP!
I really like this one guy, but he doesn't know me at all, he just hangs around the same people I do. Alot of girls like him at my school, but he doesn't really go out with many of them because even though they are really pretty their not really smart and all they do is flirt with him whenever they can and I can tell he doesn't like them. I want to get to know him better but I don't want him to think I'm like all the girls who never stop trying to be his girlfriend; because even though I'm really pretty and popular I'm not like them at all, I actually care about my grades and things other than shopping. What should I do?
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just talk to him as you would talk to a friend... don't make it obvious... and just hang out with him as friends... don't flirt.. and then in time you 2 will get to know each other and he might end up liking you ... just be patient... don't be obsessive and don't get your hopes up.
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Talk to him but dont flirt, make yourself look gorgeous but casual and chat to everyone. Dont talk to him for longer time than anyone else.
When you're talking to him dont talk about shoppping or clothes or anything, talk about something that makes you sound clever, and when your hanging out with him and your mates, talk to everyone else about that typa stuff too.
You'll look hot and seem clever and interesting, so he'll probably fancy you. Yet because you wont flirt with him like everyone else he'll go after you instead
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listen to mrdave. deffinitally become friends with him and play hard to get. it sounds like all girls fall for him, so just pretend not too. hes not gonna be happy and maybe even flirt with you more. maybe thats a good time to bring up you two hanging out. maybe just you two. go for a walk. or out to lunch or something. do soemthing fun that friends can do, but also boyfriend/girlfriends can do. you know? or even have him over. get him talking on school and make him know that your grades and such are important to you. and most important - BE YOURSELF :]
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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I think that you should first become his friend and dont flirt with him act like well hard to get... he will get so ticked off that you dont like him like every other girl does and try to get closer to you... I have had girls do that to me and I am a dude that is like in the middle at school and as far as i know not to many girls like me... so I find girls that are not in my school... anyway playing hard to get should work and I will be mystified if it doesnt... Peace and keep the fires burning!!!
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