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15/F
So i made a mistake..i have this problem where i can't keep a secret. People (my friends) don't usually realize it until they find that out through experience. I have this really weird cyber-like relationship with my friend who is 3 grades older than me, and now we don't cyber anymore but that's another story. He also has a girlfriend. He told me he was going to break up with her awhile ago and now i don't think he's going to anymore, but my friend stephanie told me she thought they were going to break up so i told her that he told me he was going to break up with his girlfriend. i don't remember exactly what i said, but the other day in passing i guess i told my friend bailey, too. i was kind of nonchalant about it, i mean, most people think they're going to break up anyway. Well, today it kind of backfired on me...when i saw him in school he was being kind of weird, and when i got home i went online and tried to be normal talking to him, but he said he didn't want to talk and never wanted to talk to me ever again. so i'm like oh man..what on earth did i do? (we go through so much crap and things get spread and it's just, not a great cycle..)He said my friends stephanie, bailey, jackie, and harry had ALL told him i told them that he said he was going to break up with his girlfriend. Now, stephanie and harry i don't understand because they are two of my best friends so i think they turned on me. great. jackie and bailey was totally an accident and i dont even remember what i said, jackie said bailey told her and i told bailey..i know this is a ton of "who told who" and i'm sorry. my best friends not answering her cell and i have no one else to talk to at this point. Bascially, the issue is what do i do? he's just angry with me and theres so much behind it but i don't know how to handle what's going on, what with him being so mad at me and my friends apparently casuing it? any advice? thanks!
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well, first of all {{as said b4}} you have a lot of apologizing to do. second of all, if you cant keep a secret [[ i know this is hard ]] but tell people that. say that you cant keep a secret and you would advise them not to give you one to keep. yea, thats a difficult thing to have to say to someone, but youre gonna end up hurting people more if you cant keep the secret they give you. and also, when apologizing, admit that you cant really keep a secret, that way the same thing wont happen all over again. and sometimes, it it easier for people to forgive you when you can admit a fault as difficult as having trouble not being able to keep a secret. i hope i helped a little bit.
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You need to appologise to him... I am a kid that can keep secrets real good...like steal box tight... I dont think the natzis back in the day could get me to tell... and if you want to know how just dont pay attention and act like what they are saying is not true but keep it in your mind... Dont worry about your friends just keep things to yourself... yeah just apologise and make it up tto him every thing will be okay
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