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so i have a "more than just friends" thing goin on but.....
14/f
Okay well I have this guy friend and...Ok so he’s not just a friend were A LOT closer than that but the prob. is he’s moving away...really far and I know I’m going to be sad and all but also he’s older than I am…not sure if I want to say or not how much so this way people cant be all on my case about it but its not like a bad age diff just something some people wouldn’t like is all. But yea I guess my question is if we should try and keep our "friendship" or just tone it down and be friends…because do long dist things work really? So yea thanks for your help! =)
<3~Rosemarie
PS; ok well I know some people are going to say stuff because I’m still young and stuff but I don’t know...its diff wit this person...he’s like one of those people you can just be you and they don’t care because they like you that way…you know?? Well I don’t know maybe not...any way...thanks again...
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I think you should remain friends and nothing more. Friends with benefits isn't a good idea. Because one of you is bound to get emotionally attached or want something more from it.
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My advice to you is to tone it down and be friends. I have done the long distance thing many times, and let me tell you it is hard. Unless you think you can really make it work, i would stay friends not "friends". Long distance means you also have to trust him as well, do you think you could trust him to keep it real with you? And remember age is nothin but i number (since i was 13, im 18 now i was always talking to men who were 5-6 yrs. older then me... nothing wrong with it, just be careful and don't let yourself get hurt emotionally.)
Hope everything works out with y'all and hope this helps you!
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k sry but first off I am 14 and already know having friends with benifits is not good, and Im a boy... Hey screw what other people say... remember if the say stuff the care about your business even im the hate you... people still care... and who cares what other people say it is about you and him... you definately tone it down and call him when he moves and just talk.. k peace and kepp the fires burning...
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