Wats good y'all? Mz. Carolina here. I stay in Texas but am from Minneapolis (MN) and Madison (WI.) I am also engaged to a wonderful soldier in serving in tha US Army (SUPPORT THA TROOPS!!) Enough about me, ask your question n please believe ur gurl will get bac 2 u asap! Take it eazy.. ~1
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I have never had many friends... actually, I've only had one or two tops. Well, I'm starting university this year and I'm worried my curse is going to continue. I used to be very shy, awkward, defensive and a bunch of other unnatractive traits but I've gotten a lot better. How do I make friends? I don't know how. Am I going to be alone for the rest of my life??
Thank you. (link)
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Starting a new school is always a great way to branch out from your regular scene and meet new people. Why dont you try getting involved in extra curricular activities at your new school? Find out what clubs or activities your school offers and try joining a few your interested in, thats always a good way to meet people that share some of your same interests. Arrive at class early and conversate with others in your class, you might even be able to find someone to study with. Just have a positive attitude, and don't be shy, put yourself out there and dont worry about what others think. Your starting out at a new school with many others that may not know anyone either, so dont worry I am sure you will make many new friends just get involved and don't stand down! Good luck and hope this helps!
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17/f
everyone always talks about what shape they are. like full figured or pear shaped and i never knew what my shape was. im 5'8" thin (115lbs) and muscular small b-cup small waist and im white but i'm half spanish so i've got the hips and a little bit of booty. basically im asking if theres any sites that have diagrams or pictures of body shapes. i think im pear shaped but i really dont know.
help? (link)
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Here are some pictures for you:
1. Heres a diagram but uses different names
http://www.brainyweightloss.com/images/BodyShapes.gif
2. Heres the apple/pear body shapes (not the best pic but a diagram)
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j186/momsquawk/album2/apple-pear-bodies.gif
3.Heres a description of a couple of different body shapes (for female shapes scroll down past the mens)
http://www.hotexercise.com/body-exercises/body-shape/
Hope this helps!
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is it required to use a condom during oral sex? (link)
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It is not required to use a condom during oral sex just like it isn't required to use a condom during intercourse. However, if you decide not to use a condom during oral sex you are still at risk for STDs/STIs (Sexually transmitted dieases/infections) just like you are if you have intercourse because diseases are transmitted by each partners fluids mixing. The chances of getting an STD during oral sex is slimmer, however, I advise you don't put yourself at any risk, so please use a condom unless you know 100% every person your partner has been with and if you trust your partner won't mess around on you and bring you a disease. Here is a website that may be helpful.
http://www.brown.edu/Student_Services/Health_Services/Health_Education/sexual_health/sti/oralsex.htm
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I have a real problem with my hair, i have to wash it EVERYDAY, even if i wash it and dry it before bed the next morning it'll look greasy and feel gross. Any tips so i dont have to wash it everyday because that means i ahve to wake up way earlier for school. THanks!! (link)
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Here are some tips that might be helpful:
~Do not wash your hair everyday. If your hair is clean your glands will secrete more oil. Use a cleaning shampoo to wash your hair and to scrub off the oil build up. Use a mild shampoo and scrub lightly.
~While applying conditioner, do not apply to the roots only apply in the middle or to the ends.
~Reduce the oil intake in your diet. Avoid oily food. Eat more fresh fruits and vegetables. ~Avoid drugs, alcohol and oils.
~You should consider changing your shampoo. Ask your stylist what you should use. Avoid using the two-in-one shampoos with conditioner.
~If you have to fix oily hair at short notice then just rub in some talcum powder to the hair roots. Make sure that you wash it off later on.
Hope this helps!
Good-Luck!
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Hullo :] 15/f Well, about a year ago, I met a guy online. And I didn't have much friends at that time, so I would be obsessed with talking to him. To the point of staying up till 3 in the morning waiting for him to log in on MSN. He's meaner nnow.....and he changed. He messes with my feelings and hurts me. Okay and so...Now, as I started school. I found that I'm more distracted. And I could seriously not give a shit what he thinks of me anymore. He insults me and makes fun of me. I don't need him. I don't even catch myself thinking about him anymore. He's like an extra unneeded load on my shoulders. My question is...how do I cut him off for good? I don't want to talk to him anymore. How can I do it nicely? Or should I just delete him off MSN..cut him off? Thank you very much. Any advice would be appreciated :] (link)
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First off you do not need a man (even online) who treats you like crap. Friends or no friends, he should not treat you like that especially if you are nothing but nice to him. Personally, I would just block him/delete him from your buddy list and just forget about him since it sounds like you are doing that anyways. However, if you want to be nice about it I guess next time you talk to him just mention that you will not be getting online anymore or tell him that your internet service my be cut off, if you don't want to lie just let him know how you feel, if he makes fun of you just delete him and forget about him. It might be easier just to delete him though because if you continue having a conversation with him you might start thinking about him again and you dont want that! Good-Luck, hope this helps and remember there are to many guys in this world to let one treat you like crap (especially online!!)
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hey ive been talking to this guy daniel, hes not my boyfriend or ne thing bu twe flirt alot, hes never had a girlfriend just friends w/benifets and hes always saying he's got a pretty average dick size but do guys dicks get bigger or smaller when they get hard cuz he said he's like 8 inch but when i felt him he was like only a four maybe but then again he wasnt hard...... so do guys dick's get smaller when there NOT HARD?! (link)
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Yes. When I guy is on hard their dick gets "bigger", when they are not on hard they are smaller. However, many guys lie about their size, (the bigger the better right?) so even when on hard it may not be as big as he said (FYI). I guess the only way to find out is to measure it yourself when he is on hard but that might be a little akward. Hope this helps~
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where do i get caltine bars (link)
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A while ago I was asking the same question. I never did find them. However, I am assuming that you would like those bars in order to gain weight (that's what everyone knows them for from mean girls). Try protein bars or drinks. There is something similar to what you may be thinking of as Caltine bars, they are called Creatine Bars. There are basically sports bars with protein that will help gain weight and muscle. Local Grocery stores or health stores should carry these bars or something similar (I know they do in Texas).
If you are posting this for weight gain here is a useful link with tips:
http://www.snac.ucla.edu/pages/Resources/Handouts/HOWtGain.pdf
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Today was my second day at my new high school. Everyone else has already been there two weeks. My homeroom teacher had a volunteer show me where my locker is. He was so cute and nice and geeky; like 5”, freckles, mousy brown hair (lets call him “Tom”).
Later during lunch, my buddy asked me if I was going to homecoming; I said I don’t know.... She exclaimed, “I’ll fix that!” And despite my protests she went off in search of a date for me. After lunch, this guy walked up to me and asked if I would go to homecoming with his friend. He pointed out the guy, and then I realized it was “Tom” and he was staring at his feet.
I said I’d get back to him tomorrow about that, I have no clue what I should say! HELP!
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Ok, so it sounds to me like you should say yes. If you think he is cute and nice why not? Talk to "Tom", not his friends (you can get mixed messages that way)If he really wants to go with you then what do you have to lose? If you feel uncomfortable go with some friends "group date".
Good luck. Hope you have fun!
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where can i find shoes like these: (not online)
http://www.stylephyle.com/images/kenneth%20cole%20goddess%20boots.jpg
http://www.honeybumble.com/images/products/full/gogo_300LG.jpg
http://www.sidestreetboutique.com/images/products/IMG_0395_LARGE_G.jpg
http://images2.nordstrom.com/ImageGallery/store/Product/Large/19/_5262759.jpg
http://dynamic.forzieri.com/is/image/Forzieri/va43316-005-1x?$354X454$ (link)
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First off I've got to say those shoes are pretty damn hot :) My advice is go online and look at department stores that are close to where you live and that have a website (of course). I would be able to tell you a store in my area but that won't help you unless you live near me (which I am assuming you don't). Here is a link to JCPenny's shoes (I picked JCPenney's because they are not to costly and they exist in almost every city) I found some boots that look similar to the ones you want. You might also want to try Boston Store, Nine West, Target (I have seen these shoes there before), Charlotte Russe, or anyother store in your area. Call them up and ask if they have them in stock! Good Luck!
Here is the link to JCPenneys:
http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/categoryall.aspx?CatTyp=LFS&DeptID=9452&Dep=shoes&CatID=32407&cmCatLevel=3&cmCatID=9452
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around how much do they cost?
how often do you need them?
what do they do when they "fill" your nails?
thank you =) (link)
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Acrylic Nail fills range in price depending on where you go. When I had nails I paid around 23.00-26.00 Make sure you dont pay too little, you should steer away from places that have full sets and fills for very little money, not just for health reasons but because you want good service. As for how often, it depends on how your nails grow, they usually suggest 1 1/2-2 weeks or until your real nail starts to show. When you have acrylic nails on, your real nail is growing out and it creates a gap between where the bottom of your real nail and the acrylic nail. You will be able to tell when they need a fill. I also suggest gettin UV-gel nails, they are similar to acrylic but they last a lot longer and don't break or fall off, there a little more costly but def. worth it! They also don't wreck your real nail as much as acrylics do.
Hope this helps, if you want to know anything else just ask me!
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im 13/f
i need to know where to find those sleeveless jackets and thse cropped jackets that are cute like this one
http://www.limitedtoo.com/detail/3741150/# &
http://www.limitedtoo.com/detail/3740800/
where can i find one thats cheap and in the stores not on the web (link)
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Try looking at department stores.. I've seen jackets like the first one at places like JCPennys, Kohls, Foleys, Sears. Those kinds of jackets are not to hard to find and department stores such as the ones listed above tend not to be that expensive. You can also try places like Burlington Coat Factory.. they have clothes like that there to (a lots of other cute stuff a low prices!)
good luck.. hope u find what your looking for!
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is a blunt and joint the same thing? and what are osme other names for them? (link)
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no a blunt and a joint are not the same thing.
a blunt is when u roll weed (marijuana) in a cigar... a joint is when u roll the weed in rolling papers or cigarette paper. a joint is also smaller and doesnt last as long as a blunt so you can put more weed in a blunt. a joint will also give you more flavor (of the weed) because the paper is thinner.
different terms for joints:
~roaches
~rolls
~splig
~papers
different terms for blunts:
~cigars
~sticks
~rello (as in a cigarello)
~sweet
~swisha
~philly
(many of these names come from the name of the cigar so the list continues with other brands)
Hope this helps.. if you need to know anything else let me kno!
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Ok. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 and a half weeks. We really really love each other but I still dont know if he wants to kiss me yet... Well my friend asked him and he said he wants to but I dont know how he would react if I did kiss him... In a situation if hes at my house, when do you think I should kiss him ? Or at the movies or somthing? when would be the right time?
13/f
-Kelly (link)
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my advice to you is to go for it, i mean what is the worst thing that would happen? and if he told your friend he wanted to kiss you than most likely he won't mind it. some guys are shy at first and he may just be afraid to make the first move (which means your gone have to make the first move or nothin will ever happen.) maybe kiss him when he arrives at your house, tell him your glad he could come over, give him a hug, look into his eyes and give him a kiss (you can always start by giving him a kiss on the cheeck if your to shy to kiss him on the lips.) if you don't want to kiss him when he first comes over and you can find the right time to kiss him while he is over you can always give him a kiss good-bye when he leaves (he'll prolly even leave wanting more!!!) :)
at the movies just cuddle with him and learn over and give him a kiss. here are some links to kissing tips that may help you:
http://www.articlebiz.com/article/7423-1-kissing-tips-make-a-kiss-more-passionate/
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing/
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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hey =)
okay i like this guy ..uhh lets just call him D =) soo i used to stare at him a lot not because i liked him (cause at that time i didnt) just because he's hot , loud and you cant miss him. and maby that got him to like me cause then he stared at me a lot and so i also started to like him. so we used to talk and everything but once he got into a deep conversation and i was nervous and i've been a little weird (not really mean i just was like : yes , no , maby) yeah okay and than he told me he loved me and THEN i was mean i was like : whatever
and i know that was mean so about i dont know a month i finally got the courage to talk to him again and i called him and appologized. but he was weird cause then HE was like in a yes , no , maby kinda way =/ so yeah we ignored eachother again. and a couple of days ago we where on the bus he was walking right by be me singing =D (that was funny) and then steped back and gave me high five and also smiled. so i thought everything is okay again but now the next day everytime i looked at him he looked away and he flirts /talks about other girls really loud when i'm around. so what does that mean? whats going on in his head? and what should i do?
thx i'll rate and sorry this was long
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guys give us (females) such mixed signals don't they?? i just hate it! it is hard to say what exactly is going on inside his head and the only way you could ever find the truth out is by asking him. yeah that sounds dumb and i'm sure many people have already told you that but it's the only way to figure out what exactly he is thinking. my guess is that you might have turned him off/away from you when you were so called "mean" when he told you that he loved you and maybe because of that he is scared/shy to open up to you again because he doesn't want to be let down like he was last time. he might also be the flirtatious type (which many guys are) which means he just naturally is a big flirt (with other females as well as you.) if you are the shy type and don't want to ask him what is he thinkin my advice is to spend more time with him. maybe give him signals that you are into him, call him and ask him if he wants to meet up with you at the mall or a movie, or just ask if he wants to spend time with you during lunch (at school) that way you might be able to feel more about what he is thinking with out asking him. another thing you can do is tell him how you feel and open up to him, if you open up to him first he might follow your lead and be more willing to open up to you and tell you how he feels. good luck with this!!
Hope this helps!!
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My eyebrows were thick until I attacked them. But they grow in very long pieces.. and they often get pushed down over my eyelid. I tried cutting those.. but it looks weird when I do that.
Should i get my eyebrows professionally done?
I want my eyebrows not to be so low near my eyes.. I want an arch..
Do I grow out my eyebrows first and go see them?
Or go to one and get it done and
then wait for it to grow out? (link)
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i get my eyebrows waxed every two weeks at a salon. if you want them to have a new arch i would suggest letting them grow out then go get them done. however, if you just want them to be cleaned up you can get them done at anytime (as long as they are long enough to be waxed.) make sure you talk to the person that is doing them for you before she starts and let her know exactly what you want done, they will also trim them for you if you want (i get mine trimmed as well.) good luck!
Hope this helps!
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13/f
1.hey! I'm having a surprized birthday party for my friend(lets call him bob-13/m). our birthday's are on the same day so i kinda feel left out but i REALLY want to do this for him does anyone know how to get over my jealousy?
2.what games should we play or what should we do?
3. My friend(lets call her ann) doesnt like my other friend Lynn. I want to invite both but i dont want drama! Ann is one of those ppl who freak out on ppl so im kinda scared to NOT invite her. and Lynn is a REALLY nice person but she has a knack for braging and thats why alot of people dont like her. but i do. does anyone know what i can do about this problem?
I SWEAR ILL RATE 5'S FOR EFFORT! (link)
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My advice to you to help you get over your jealousy is to think postively about what you are doing (that you are doing it for him and not for yourself.) You can always have a seperate party or get together to celebrate your birthday maybe earlier in the day or the following day, maybe invite some friends to go out to lunch or a movie or go get y'alls nails/hair done together before the party.. that way you are celebrating both yours and his at seperate times. I wish i could help you out more on games but im not to sure what people your age do these days and what y'all are into.. maybe play a movie, have music so y'all can dance..? (Wish i could help you out more on that question!!)
Here are some sites that may be helpful (they have different kinds of games for teenagers):
http://freespace.virgin.net/ken.tew/party/games4.html
http://parentingteens.about.com/od/birthdays/a/birthdayparty.htm
http://dmoz.org/Games/Party_Games/
Now the question about your 2 friends.. my advice on that is to talk to each of them before the party and let them know what you are thinkin and how you feel. Tell each of them (in a nice way) that your afraid something might happen (drama at the party) but that you want to invite both of them and if they could keep things cool for the night and save the arguin/braggin/fightin for another time. Let them know that you have invited both of them before the party so that there are no suprises (prepare them) and if they can't respect that maybe they shouldn't be there (even if they are good friends of yours.)
Hope this helps!!
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how do you get backstage passes to a concert? i really want to meet the band and stuff, but theres quite popular...i met them once at a signing, but we couldnt take pictures with them..
ill rate a 5 to everyone who attempts to answer (link)
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hook up with someone who knows the people or get to become friends with people at your local radio station (they always have the hook-up) other than that all i can say is good-luck!!
don't know if this helps but hope it does a lil!
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ok well i have a temper problem and i tend to get frustrated and moody and annoyed over the smallest things reeeeeeeeeeeeally easily.
how do i get over this and what do i take it out on????
also, my family is really nosy and always wants to talk to me and wont let anything go, but im getting reaaaaaaaly annoyed of them
i just cant stand them!!!!!ughhhh
what do i do to talk to them the least i can but not have them get mad or jus keep talkn to me more??
plzzzzz helppp!!!! (link)
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i have a very bad temper problem to.. mine got to be so bad that i had many charges put on me and have been arrested. i now know that i am bipolar... if your temper gets to be way out of hand and you cannot control it you should talk to a counselor/doctor/thearpist and they may be able to give you some advice and even put you on a medication for it.
take your anger out by yelling, removing yourself from the situation, or something you may have as a hobby (sports, dance, writting, art, etc.) just try not to get physical (with anyone or anything) because that will only end you in bigger problems.
As for your parents being nosey (what parents aren't??) let them know that it is bothering you and that you would wish they respect your privacy. Parents will always seem nosey no matter what they are doing, somethings you just have to deal with. However, talk to them if it really starts to bother you.
Hope this helps!!
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What is the thing that Ron Serling says at the begining of "The Twilight Zone"?
I know it is something to the effect of: "You are dazed, bewildered and trapped in a world without time..."
Help would be appreciated.
I will rate high if you can give me the whole thing.
Thanks!
*Turtle* (link)
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You're traveling through another dimension -- a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind. A journey into a wondrous land whose boundaries are that of imagination. That's a signpost up ahead: your next stop: the Twilight Zone!
You unlock this door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension: a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind. You're moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas. You've just crossed over into... the Twilight Zone.
There is a fifth dimension beyond that which is known to man. It is a dimension as vast as space and as timeless as infinity. It is the middle ground between light and shadow, between science and superstition, and it lies between the pit of man's fears and the summit of his knowledge. This is the dimension of imagination. It is an area which we call "The Twilight Zone"
*I've only see the show a few times so i'm not sure if there is anything left out but i think this may be all of it! Hope this helps...
Here is the link i got it from:
http://cis.csuohio.edu/~somos/twizone.html
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Does anyone have any good ways to get yourself to fall asleep at night? Particularly at slumber parties?
Thanks to anyone who answers :) (link)
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a lot of drinkks ;)
the best way to fall asleep is to be relaxed. calm yourself down a bit before you go to sleep otherwise you will be very restless. reading a book/magazine can also make some people sleepy. if your having a very hard time go to walgreens and get some pills that will make you sleepy (they are over the counter pills and not very expensive.) however, if you do get some follow the directions on the bottle, don't over use them. if you are sensitive to noise when you are sleeping try ear plugs, and if you are sensitive to light try those masks you put over your eyes.
Hope this helps!
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