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weird guy...
hey =)
okay i like this guy ..uhh lets just call him D =) soo i used to stare at him a lot not because i liked him (cause at that time i didnt) just because he's hot , loud and you cant miss him. and maby that got him to like me cause then he stared at me a lot and so i also started to like him. so we used to talk and everything but once he got into a deep conversation and i was nervous and i've been a little weird (not really mean i just was like : yes , no , maby) yeah okay and than he told me he loved me and THEN i was mean i was like : whatever
and i know that was mean so about i dont know a month i finally got the courage to talk to him again and i called him and appologized. but he was weird cause then HE was like in a yes , no , maby kinda way =/ so yeah we ignored eachother again. and a couple of days ago we where on the bus he was walking right by be me singing =D (that was funny) and then steped back and gave me high five and also smiled. so i thought everything is okay again but now the next day everytime i looked at him he looked away and he flirts /talks about other girls really loud when i'm around. so what does that mean? whats going on in his head? and what should i do?
thx i'll rate and sorry this was long
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He's a boy , what excuse does he need to be weird or confusin?? :l bascally what i think he is trying to do is playing 'hard to get!'. one minuite when he is being chatty and flirty what he is basically saying is ... Come on make a move on me. when he is looking away, ignoring you and flirting with other girls he is wanting you to be jelous of him.
Basically he fancys you and wants you. You could try to play the same game, but be careful not to drive him away.
anyway let me know how it turns out.
Dannii x
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guys give us (females) such mixed signals don't they?? i just hate it! it is hard to say what exactly is going on inside his head and the only way you could ever find the truth out is by asking him. yeah that sounds dumb and i'm sure many people have already told you that but it's the only way to figure out what exactly he is thinking. my guess is that you might have turned him off/away from you when you were so called "mean" when he told you that he loved you and maybe because of that he is scared/shy to open up to you again because he doesn't want to be let down like he was last time. he might also be the flirtatious type (which many guys are) which means he just naturally is a big flirt (with other females as well as you.) if you are the shy type and don't want to ask him what is he thinkin my advice is to spend more time with him. maybe give him signals that you are into him, call him and ask him if he wants to meet up with you at the mall or a movie, or just ask if he wants to spend time with you during lunch (at school) that way you might be able to feel more about what he is thinking with out asking him. another thing you can do is tell him how you feel and open up to him, if you open up to him first he might follow your lead and be more willing to open up to you and tell you how he feels. good luck with this!!
Hope this helps!!
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I think he is just being mean back because you were mean to him... he is only trying to get your attention and get you jelous because most-likely he still loves you.... Don't be supprised if he makes a move on you. Maybe you should just sit him down and just talk to him. Maybe You'll start to like each other again.
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