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cutting him off. for good.
Hullo :] 15/f Well, about a year ago, I met a guy online. And I didn't have much friends at that time, so I would be obsessed with talking to him. To the point of staying up till 3 in the morning waiting for him to log in on MSN. He's meaner nnow.....and he changed. He messes with my feelings and hurts me. Okay and so...Now, as I started school. I found that I'm more distracted. And I could seriously not give a shit what he thinks of me anymore. He insults me and makes fun of me. I don't need him. I don't even catch myself thinking about him anymore. He's like an extra unneeded load on my shoulders. My question is...how do I cut him off for good? I don't want to talk to him anymore. How can I do it nicely? Or should I just delete him off MSN..cut him off? Thank you very much. Any advice would be appreciated :]
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First you need to realize that meeting someone online might not be the best way to go in meeting somone and you probably already know this. You should just delete him and not talk to him anymore. If he is being a jerk to you then it won't matter if you stop talking to him. Give me an update to see what happened. I hope this helps and good luck.
-Zoelebee
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Good start by realizing you need to let go.Either you can just stop talking to him completely and not tell him.Or just be straight up with him and figure out why he's acting the way he is and see if he is willing to change or not.If he doesn't and he's just doing it just because, tell him you don't need that.Do whatever you feel like doing.Alot of people have trouble letting go completely and stop talking to them anymore,But when you do..you'll be relieved.Hope I helped and good luck.
-Lacey
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First off you do not need a man (even online) who treats you like crap. Friends or no friends, he should not treat you like that especially if you are nothing but nice to him. Personally, I would just block him/delete him from your buddy list and just forget about him since it sounds like you are doing that anyways. However, if you want to be nice about it I guess next time you talk to him just mention that you will not be getting online anymore or tell him that your internet service my be cut off, if you don't want to lie just let him know how you feel, if he makes fun of you just delete him and forget about him. It might be easier just to delete him though because if you continue having a conversation with him you might start thinking about him again and you dont want that! Good-Luck, hope this helps and remember there are to many guys in this world to let one treat you like crap (especially online!!)
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Well if you don't want him to feel the need to want to keep on hurting you,avoid making another enemy then you cut him off nicely.But,if you delete him off msn not only will that show him you want him out of your life but you don't care about him any more.So I say the decision is in your hands.
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