Member Since: September 15, 2007
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Last Update: September 16, 2007
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Hullo :] 15/f Well, about a year ago, I met a guy online. And I didn't have much friends at that time, so I would be obsessed with talking to him. To the point of staying up till 3 in the morning waiting for him to log in on MSN. He's meaner nnow.....and he changed. He messes with my feelings and hurts me. Okay and so...Now, as I started school. I found that I'm more distracted. And I could seriously not give a shit what he thinks of me anymore. He insults me and makes fun of me. I don't need him. I don't even catch myself thinking about him anymore. He's like an extra unneeded load on my shoulders. My question is...how do I cut him off for good? I don't want to talk to him anymore. How can I do it nicely? Or should I just delete him off MSN..cut him off? Thank you very much. Any advice would be appreciated :] (link)
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First you need to realize that meeting someone online might not be the best way to go in meeting somone and you probably already know this. You should just delete him and not talk to him anymore. If he is being a jerk to you then it won't matter if you stop talking to him. Give me an update to see what happened. I hope this helps and good luck.
-Zoelebee
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so my hair is naturally straight. [i'm asian] & it doesn't really get a lot of volume. so what are some tips or products that i can get to give my hair long lasting volume. nothing to expensive but also nothing cheap that only keeps it volumized for a couple of hours. also my hair always has that split in the middle and i absolutely hate it! when i run my fingers through my hair, it still ends up splitting right in the middle.how can i keep it from splitting and just connecting together? thanks! (link)
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Ok this is what you need to do. First of all just go to target and buy one of those big cans of hairspray like Garnier Fructis with a continuous spray not just like you have to keep pushing the button. Lift up sections of your hair and spray underneath by the roots. Next buy a baby comb with very small teeth and take those sections and brush lightly down. This will give it some more volume. Try to lightly curl it and spray it with spray, this should help.
Hope this helps
-zoelebee
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ok so im white, and i HATE IT! but in the summer time i can tan so i dont mind it so its okay, but now that its almost winter time im getting really white again and its annoying as hell! and halloween is coming up and well all my friends and i are dressing slutty and it shows my legs and well my legs are really white and stuff and my my friends are all pretty tan so anyways my question is what is a good way to look semi tan with out going to like a tanning bed because like if i went to a tanning bed you could TOTTALY tell i went and that would be tottaly embarressing because one day i would be pale and then the next day i would be tan and i dont want indoor tanning stuff unless it like ACTUALLY WORKS! and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEE let it work because i had the worst experience with indoor tanning stuff, please help me i hate being white, it makes my self confidence go down so much! and i dont know what to do to make my self look tan! and there is so sun in the winter! (link)
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You should buy the spray Banana Boat, NOT LOTION. The lotion makes your skin look orange and is harder to put on. Also if you find a tanning place that you really like go have a spray tan but don't pick a random salon to get it done. Also try the tan in advance not right before the party, (if you don't like it you won't be able to fix it before the party).
Hope this Helps,
Zoelebee
PS I've used banana boat
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okay, so i had this friend, let's call her Em. and she was seriously my bestest friend. but then all this drama happened during sophomore year of high school and our friendship fell apart. now we're juniors and we're cool now. like we say hi and we're friendly to each other and stuff, but it's still pretty awkward between us. like we don't talk like we used to and we obviously dont do all those things best friends used to do anymore. i really miss her. but i don't think she misses me because she has another best friend at school. i want to gradually become close with her again, but i don't want to seem SUPER CLINGY to her because that was one of the reasons why our friendship fell apart. what can i do to get my best friend back? any advice is welcome. thanks so much in advance! (link)
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I think you should casually start to talk more and ask her if she wants to do lunch sometime with you. If you have lunch with her once then wait for her to call you to do something next. If she doesn't then you need to consider the drama that happened. I'm not sure the drama that happened so it might be something to do with that. If you want to tell me about the drama it might help the situation and give me a better idea of how things got so bad.
Hope you come to a conclusion,
Zoelebee
Thank you for sending me the drama that happened this might help. You might want to wait and see what happens. Casually talk to them in person more than online, if possible. Online usually leads to misconception of words. If they can't get along they will soon be coming back to be your friend and do you really want them to be your friend after all that happened. It might be time to move on, in a year or so you will be starting college so maybe its time to move on. I hope this helps and good luck.
- Zoelebee
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i had a best friend. she was amazing and i loved her (as a friend). we were like family. i'd stay at her house even if she wasn't there and her grandparents would always hug me along with their actual grandchildren. i was at her house at least 4 nights a week for dinner and i'd stay over at least one night every weekend. i wasn't clingy we were just very close. we knew everything about each other. that was in 10th grade.during tenth a lot of drama happened that i was involved in and a lot of people started to hate me for a false rumor but my best friend defended me the whole time because she knows i'd never lie to her. then the summer happened. one day one of my guy friends asked why i wasn't at one of her parties and i said because i wasn't invited. i was shocked that she didn't call me. i let it slide. then it happened again. a week later was school. i figured that 11th grade would be a fresh start after whatever happened. we have three classes together and she won't even look me in the eyes. i asked her one day if she was mad at me and she said no. then i told her that i had felt abandoned and all she said was "oh" and walked away. after about a week and a half she turned to me during one of our class(i sit behind her) and she started talking about her classes. we never used to talk about classes. i talked to her like nothing had happened. that was a week ago and we haven't talked since. i don't know what happened. i really really want to get her back. she's still important to me and her new best friend is changing her for the worse. please help me (link)
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Dear It All Just Stopped:
I really don't think that this best friend is worth your time, I know you guys seem to be the best of friends, but this friend seems so fake to me. You should casually invite her to do lunch with you and this might fix something. Maybe she started hangin with people you didn't get along with and she felt you wouldn't enjoy it. Slowly start to hang out more and more and I'm sure this will hope.
Good Luck,
Zoelebee
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So I am really not too happy here. There is this guy called mark who I guess everyone likes but not for the obvious reasons, but because he is really funny and easy to talk to. I have had the biggest crush on him for a while now, and for a while I thought he liked me too. But then, I found out my best friend claire who is best friends (like, really, BEST FRIENDS, top on myspace, talk to eachother for hours on the phone each night) with mark, and she has a HUGE crush on him. She told me (and only me) about it because she thought that I didn't like him while everyone else did. Now I still really like him, but telling him wouldn't do any good because girls tell him daly that they like him and he never cares, and it might ruin our friendship. Plus, my best friend is in love with him and has a much better chance of him actually liking her. What I'm asking is, is there someway I can get over this guy quickly for my friends sake? (link)
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I think you should just not tell anyone and try to get over him as much as possible. If everyone likes this guy it doesn't seem that hes that special guy to everyone. Try to get over him and try not to worry about him, HES NOT WORTH YOUR FRIENDSHIP!!
Hope this Helps
-Zoelebee
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Okay, sorry if this gets long.
I have this crush who is a grade ahead of me (8th grade). I've never talked to him before but last night at the football game, my friend, Ashley, who is two grades ahead of me (shes in 9th grade) told him to hug me. And he did, lol. And he kept smiling at me or looking at me is what my friends told me.
But then another 9th grade friend of mine, Dana, pulled me aside and told me that she liked him too and that she was going to ask him out. She knows that I like him, but I didn't really make a big deal out of it because I really don't want to get in a fight over a guy.
I still don't want her to ask him out though because I like him too and she knows it. She knows him more than I do and she's prettier than I am and whatever, but she already went out with him. Twice. And she broke up with him after like four days both times.
I mean usually Dana's so nice to me and everything. She doesn't know that I'm sort of upset over it, but she should know since SHE KNOWS THAT I LIKE HIM!
What should I do..?
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Dear I have a back-stabbing friend,
First of all, your are a very smart girl for not wanting to get in a fight over a guy with your friends. I think she is very immature for having to ask a guy out and not him asking her out. I think you should just wait it out and see what happens. If Dana and your crush cannot go out for more than four days don't worry about it. If he truly likes you, it will work out in the end. Things can change with Dana and he might just like her because she's his age.
Hope this Helps, Good Luck
-Zoelebee
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i really cannot remove my blackheads on my nose! i think they were there from a long time ago. do i need to do something else extreme like pop them out using a pin? (link)
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Please do not use a pin, it will ruin your skin and later in your life you will have scares. You need to go to walgreens and buy Biorse nose strips,they pull off the blackheads and don't leave scars. If you can't get rid of them you might need to see a dermatologist.
-Zoelebee
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