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it all just stopped
i had a best friend. she was amazing and i loved her (as a friend). we were like family. i'd stay at her house even if she wasn't there and her grandparents would always hug me along with their actual grandchildren. i was at her house at least 4 nights a week for dinner and i'd stay over at least one night every weekend. i wasn't clingy we were just very close. we knew everything about each other. that was in 10th grade.during tenth a lot of drama happened that i was involved in and a lot of people started to hate me for a false rumor but my best friend defended me the whole time because she knows i'd never lie to her. then the summer happened. one day one of my guy friends asked why i wasn't at one of her parties and i said because i wasn't invited. i was shocked that she didn't call me. i let it slide. then it happened again. a week later was school. i figured that 11th grade would be a fresh start after whatever happened. we have three classes together and she won't even look me in the eyes. i asked her one day if she was mad at me and she said no. then i told her that i had felt abandoned and all she said was "oh" and walked away. after about a week and a half she turned to me during one of our class(i sit behind her) and she started talking about her classes. we never used to talk about classes. i talked to her like nothing had happened. that was a week ago and we haven't talked since. i don't know what happened. i really really want to get her back. she's still important to me and her new best friend is changing her for the worse. please help me
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Dear It All Just Stopped:
I really don't think that this best friend is worth your time, I know you guys seem to be the best of friends, but this friend seems so fake to me. You should casually invite her to do lunch with you and this might fix something. Maybe she started hangin with people you didn't get along with and she felt you wouldn't enjoy it. Slowly start to hang out more and more and I'm sure this will hope.
Good Luck,
Zoelebee
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hi,
I had a friend like that, i met her in first grade, we were best friend's untill someone else came along and changed it all. Now i'm 16, she's 15. And we don't no longer talk like mabe 2 times every 3 months or so.
I think you should try calling her and letting her know everything you wrote on here. Your probably confused, as so i. But she knows why she's acting like this and really the only way to find out is by asking her, if not by calling, then mabe writing her a note. People change, sometimes for the good and sometimes for the better, and you have to just deal with that somtimes, but if you really want her back then give it your best, i'm sure she'll come around :D
take care, &' best of luck to you.
kaylaaaa
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okay almost same exacttt situation with me sorta a few of my friends sorta of like aboaned mee, but thisss is what you gotta doo, you have to like meet her for lunch, go to her house something where it would be just youu and her and talk about everythingg. bc if your in school it wont workk bc tooo many ppl around and its easy for her to just walk away. and donttt calll her bc you need to talk about this face to face. calling wont solve muchh. so just go out with her and tell her EXACTLY how you feel about everyythingg, how she's treatign you how much she truly means to you. andd all that jazz. and if she ignores you and it doesnt change anything then shes nott a good friend and no matter how hard it might be you might need to let her go as a friend bc shes obvisouly not a very good one..
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You should definitely call her and offer to meet up somewhere like to lunch, or a shopping trip. If she says ok, talk to her about how you miss her and want to know why you aren't as close as you used to be on your get together. If she says no, talk to her about the above over the phone. Don't accept any short, dumb-act answers, even if you want to so you don't make her angry. In the meantime, make new friends so you don't seem too clingy. Ask her other friends and siblings if she has any if she's having a tough time with something. It could be less about you than you think. Good Luck!
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go call her and tell her how you feel and tell her how she is changeing
let her no she means alot to you,
and your always gonna be there for her
call her and ask her if she wants to go to a movie with you like best friends would do
tell her, her new friend can come with if she likes so she knows how much she means to you
JUST CALL HER AND TALK EVEN IF SHE DONT WANT TO!
trust me it could work
i really hope everything works out for the best
and i hope you become best friends again
please let me nkow what hahpends
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