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About 2 years ago, my boyfriend at the time of four years broke up with me because I dropped out of nursing school and saw me as 'unstable'. He basically did me wrong and our breakup never had that closure. All of my friends and family knew what he did to me and they all think he's an asshole. Fast forward present day we both moved on and have new relationships. But a couple days ago, my cousin texted me and said that she saw him at a bar with him and his current gf. Apparently he was drunk and thought he saw me. And he also approached my cousin and kept grabbing her face and pushing her, asking if she hated him (I'm assuming because he knows that everyone close to me know what he did to me). Ever since we've broken up I've always wanted him to one day realize how much of a douche he was and understand how bad he had hurt me. Why do you think he kept asking for validation if my cousin hated him? Do you think he finally grew up and had an enlightenment? (link)
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Dear Ms. Closure,
It seems that what we have here is a tale of regret, remorse and ignorance. Looks like he regrets and is remorseful for the decision he made those couple of years ago. His ignorance comes from the actions he did with your cousin. What you need to realize is that his ways will correct him. The fact that you have moved on says that you were never meant to be with someone who didn't appreciate or support your decisions. You won't have to worry about closure anymore because if you learned anything here is that staying with him would have robbed you of the happiness you were meant to find now.
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I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a crush on my BF and she is trying to impress him. Should I do something about it? It is bothering me a lot. I didn't ask my bf about the girl yet. Should I ask him? How can I ask him? or should I just ignore it?
BTW we don't share our couple picture online or post anything about our relationship online. As me and my BF both are very private person. Our close friends and family members know about our relationship. But we don't showoff online. (link)
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Dear Ms. Long Distance,
First give yourself credit that you were able to do a long distant relationship this amount of time. Especially if you don’t see each other that many times. Now with that being said the important thing is you have to communicate with your boyfriend on how you feel about this. Keeping this bottled up and not communicating will hurt your relationship more. The other thing you have to think about is where your relationship is going and where you want to be in the next 5 years. Do you want to see each other more or contemplate one of you moving so you can truly be together. These are the important discussions you have to start having. Honesty and being open in a relationship will only help it grow more. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. It’s important. Only then will you know how you have to proceed. Good luck and don’t be afraid to be who you are and be honest on what you are feeling.
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I have been talking to this guy for 4 months over quarantine and we met recently. I had a great time on our first date and we recently went on our second date, which was kayaking. I really like him and had a great time but something has been bothering me... He told me over text that he was the type of guy to always ask permission to kiss or touch a girl in anyway because of how respectful he is. He knows that I really liked that about him. When we went on our second date he had asked me how i felt about a guy slyly grabbing my hand. I said thats fine as long as you don't pull any sly moves with me...
The date goes on and we are waiting for our kayake. He knew I was scared because i've never been so he put his hand around my lower waistline. I was taken by surprise because he told me he was the type to ask... I wasn't uncomfortable with it, let it happen, and thought it was cute but just thrown off a bit. Then as he walked me to my door we both stood their and he went in to kiss me. I instantly stopped him and said "I thought you were going to ask me?" He said "I am sorry you're right and then asked me" I then let him kiss me 3 times (just pecks) and he touched my lower back as he kissed me. Again I thought it was cute but still a little thrown off... I was in an abusive relationship in the past and it has made me become very overly protective with my body. He knows I have been through a lot with guys but i haven't opened up to him about it yet. I explained to him how I felt about this and he was very understanding. He felt very bad and explained to me how it would never happen again if I gave him another chance. He also said how sorry he was and admitted it was a honest mistake and just loves to show affection. He explained how he forgot to ask to kiss me and swore he will prove to me that he is a true gentlemen. I really like him because he is very caring and hes fun to be with... Am i overreacting? should I give him another chance? Would this be considered assult? please help i can't stop thinking about it :/ (link)
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Dear Ms Thrown Off,
It seems that you have the intention on wanting a relationship but are not sure due to circumstances from your past. It's not the answer of if this is the right person for you, but more if is this the right time for this person to be around you. If your intentions are clear and he makes mistakes it's one thing but also are you at that point in your life that you are ready for that relationship? People question themselves and situations all the time but it's only the fact that if they are ready then we those steps can be taken. It's not overreacting if you know exactly what you want and if that person is not doing that, then you walk away. But also make sure you don't let the past dictate your present and hurt your future. Be protective but don't lose yourself because when they right person comes along, you don't want to miss it. You have to be comfortable with yourself first.
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I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about
Read more: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=666294#ixzz6HK8mB7m2 (link)
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Dear Ms. Tough Time,
First don’t beat yourself up here. Life is full of roads and obstacles where you are in a relationship or not. Even at age 32 you are young and have lots to live for. Just because people around you are getting married and having kids doesn’t mean that you are not meant for that if it’s what you want. The confidence you has to reach out and ask for help takes more courage than other people may ever do. You don’t have to have many friends to express your feelings, just one that will be willing to listen as you will do the same for them. Your regrets in life should be more like lessons you’ve learned and not use them as a crutch. Anxiety only comes from allowing those emotions to rule your life. Appreciate yourself and think about the things you have to offer someone so the right person and not cowards will want to be with you. Don’t let anyone ever tell you you’re not worth it because as long as you know that you are, no person can take that away from you.
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27/f he’s 28/m
Hey guys! I just need some advice on my current situation. I met this guy online about 2 years ago. We talked a lot at this time and I went to his house to hang out we didn’t do anything sexual.. New Year’s Eve of 2018 we were both drunk and I drove to his house after late at night and we had sex. The sex was amazing it was passionate. After that he kind of would ignore me and our relationship turned into only having sex on his terms. I got attached and I got feelings. The things he would say to me while we were in person I believed. That he’s not seeing anybody else, that he’s into me. But then once I get home doesn’t answer my text doesn’t talk to me. He’s had sex with me while he has had a girlfriend also so I almost feel like he always comes back to me and that there will always be hope. The most recent situation was back in June we had sex I ended up wearing one of his t shirts home and I forgot my shirt at his apartment. I joked being like yeah just give me a shirt that you don’t care about because I know you won’t talk to me after this.. he reassured me I worked hard for that shirt blah blah blah. I accidentally left my shirt didn’t talk to him for a few months because he wouldn’t answer my texts Snapchat whatever. I was drunk one night and messaged him saying hey do you still have my shirt? And this mofo said no it’s been 7 months I threw it away like first it’s been 3 months . Wtf!!!!! I don’t wear cheap clothes threw my shirt away???? I texted him flipping out saying how much I have feelings for him and he actually hurt me and treats me like nothing. Like I would have given you money to mail m6 shirt back... He wrote back that he was sorry he was selfish he had no idea I felt this way. “I know your a great girl I didn’t know you felt like that and I’m sorry for hurting you it wasn’t intentional” a few weeks later.. my friend and I went to this bar right across from his apartment I texted him saying that we were at a bar and if he wanted to meet up. He was like I thought you hated me bc I basically ripped him apart when I last texted him. I told him but I wouldn’t mind seeing you. He invited us over his apartment i think he was already drunk I’m not sure.. we drank and smoked and he kept complimenting me in front of my friend and made eye contact. My friend even kept calling him out being like Steph he doesn’t stop talking about you. We ended up going upstairs my friend and I decided that if we kept drinking more we both wouldn’t say no to a 3 sum... we were in his room and he put the song on “yours” by Russell Dickerson and said that he put this song on for me. Kept saying all these things that he’s into me. The three of us were hooking up and then before we could even have sex this kid Falls asleep!!!! I think he was so drunk and stoned he was hard then went soft and fell asleep. He slept with his arm around me all night and then in the morning kissed me.. that was my night. I went home in the morning texted him at like 4:00 being like I had fun with you last night. HE DIDNT ANDWER then I texted him back at 10 pm and I said I hope you did too. HE STILL HASNT AND DIDNT ANSWER. How is that fair???? (link)
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Dear Miss Back and Forth,
It seems this guy has that simple little fear of Commitment especially with the fact that he turns to you on his own time. Why would you ever want to make yourself feel 2nd to anyone when you should be first to the one you are meant to be with. If he is the type who doesn't answer than he's not a man. It's more of you dating a scared child. Real men tell you how they feel even if it's not the answer you want to hear. Why continue down a path that leads you to the same dead end? Maybe it's time to take a new road and find your happiness somewhere that doesn't constantly lead to the same place.
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Hi Im Jay and Im 15 and my boyfriend who's 17 is forcing me to send him nudes. I told him about 5 times that im not comfortable with putting myself out there like that but he says he doesn't care and that i should do it for him and if i don't I'll regret it big time. I hate how he gets mad at me if I don't do something he wants, and I'm scared of not doing it cuz he'll get mad and hurt me. I just really don't want to send him nudes and idk what to do he won't take no for an answer. I need advice please help. (link)
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Dear Simple Selfie,
If someone is wanting to compromise your morals and values by trying to manipulate you to doing something disrespectful and self-loathing of yourself than that person should not be in your life at all. Why not find someone who will respect you and your morals as well as make you feel like a person and not a cheap floozy? Don't ever put yourself in a position to where you would get hurt and sending him any pics of yourself in the nude gives him power to hurt you. Think better about yourself and don't ever put yourself in that position.
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I have invited another woman to have sex with my husband while I watch. She and I have meet and I like her, she is just the type I wanted for this experience.
She and my husband have not meet and won't until the night of the event. She is coming to our home where we will enjoy drinks and conversation first.
I'm looking for ideas on how to make the transition between conversation and sexy time smooth and less awkward. She and I have talked about bondage and restraint being part of the evening.
Ideas? Suggestions?
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Dear Mrs. Adventure,
You going into a realm that others don't dare to go to/ But if you are going to take that journey than if anything understand that this will have to be an experience that you ALL enjoy. Think of things that would get you and your husband in the mood and have that set up but also speak the woman that you are choosing and find out her likes and wants and utilize it in the picture. While others would never do that if you are going to them set things up that regularly get you two in the mood along with her wants and make it an adventure for all of you. How you do so will only determine the passion you bring to it.
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hey i an from Limpopo.im in a new relationship.me n my bf we a naw datin for 1month n 3days.i love my bf so much n i try to make him happy but dat doesnt hide de fact dat my bf is still inlove wth his ex who has died.wen he need me i go n be wth him.on saturday it was his bdae n i made a suprise party for him n i invited his friends n ada gals.he was very happy n i was happy to see him happy.but dat dae at nyt he said i shuld not leave i shuld sleep ova n i did so.he started talking abt his ex who died n his ex was buried on saturday on his bdae.he told me dat he is over her n he dnt luv her anymore but his actions was telling me another story.he evn cried for his ex infront of me n didnt wt tu du or wat to say.my heart was heavy wen he was kissing me he suddenly stopped n he said he cant.yesterdae he removed de status on watsap he wrote abt me n write dat he love his ex n he change a profile pic n put his ex.i cried alone n my hurt was heavy realising dat im truly,madly n deeply inlove wth him.what do i have to do? (link)
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Dear Ms Invisible,
Apparently you are in a relationship that you are not even being seen in. The problem here is that your BF seems to be living in his past and can't move on because he never really dealt with the loss. Sometimes we are brought to people's lives to help them see that. If you want to stay in the relationship then help him move forward but if this continues then you need to move on because you cannot be constantly competing against a ghost. It's not fair to you and especially to the future you want to build. Honoring her is one thing but by living as if she were still there is disrespecting you and he cannot move forward with you and you cannot live your life like that. It is up to you about what you want to did here so figure out if he's worth it but also realize that you are as well.
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21/f
so i have been dating this guy for about a month. i just left back to san fransisco for the summer and he will be in chicago so we wont see eachother for 3 months. we spoke about what to do over the summer vaguely and i thought i was clear in saying we should end things but then i said we could still keep in touch which i think he took as that we are still dating. he calls and texts me and lot and acts very boyfriendy and i geniunly enjoy talking to him but do not want to be "together" all summer and dont really want to pick things back up next year. He likes me a lot though and thinks things are going very well so im not sure how to say i didnt meant that we should stay together without hurting his feelings. just need suggestions on explanations for the breakup, what should i say? do i say its about the distance? should i say im not into it and hurt his feelings? should i make up something about that we want different things or im not ready for a relationship? please help any advice on how to end things without hurting him but also an excuse that he cant argue with and convince me not to end things. (link)
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Dear Breakup,
It's easier to use excuses or come up with ways to make it about you on why a relationship might not work. In the end honesty is the only key. If you just want to be friends make it known, because losing yourself with a lie is just as bad as losing yourself as a person. Just be honest and tell him how you feel. If he's an understanding person than he will be okay with it. If not, then he would never be someone you would want to be with anyway because he's not understanding.
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Should I stay with my boyfriend? I'm 13 and he's 16 but he lives all the way in London. I know some of his friends and that's how I met him. We started back talking a few days ago. I found out that he signed up for the army and he has three years of training. He did it so he wouldn't have to be with me anymore but he wont break up with me and he says that he wants to be with me.
I'm so confused and I need to know if I should break up with him. (link)
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Dear Teenage Love Story,
You have yet begun to scratch the surface of your life. If a guy is joining the army to get away from you and doesn't have the decency to just break up with you then why would you want to be with him? The key to a strong relationship is communication and if one of you doesn't do that than it's not worth it. You are too young to focus your energy on someone that doesn't even communicate with you. You have your whole life ahead of you and will later on meet the right person. Don't focus on the what's not happening now but stay strong and look forward to what will be so you don't miss out on the future.
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I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me. (link)
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Dear Jumping the Gun,
Knowing that you are ready to have sex is even more scary than not being ready. First you should not feel obligated and that any guy who dumps you because of it was never a guy that you should be with at all. These will be special and intimate moments but not something you should be thinking about now because you have your whole life ahead of you and when down the road the right person does come along you will be ready and that a guy should treat you right. Don't let people tell you that you have to do these things to be happy or even be cool. Don't worry about getting serious at this early age because it's important that you grow up to see what type of guys they are going to be and if they would ever be worth being with you. These are important times in your life to look to the future but anyone that tells you have to be intimate to be with them is not anyone you should ever be with. Don't let them or anyone else pressure you because it's too early for you to bring that into your life. Work on you being happy first with you because if you can't, you will never be happy with anyone and keep making the wrong mistakes. Make the right choice and choose you before you lose yourself in anyone else.
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I met a guy online. We have been messaging each other for about 4 months. He wants to meet but I'm a little hesitant about it. Mostly due to safety reasons and his behavior. He always wants to rush things. On the dating site we met on, he gave me his number right away and guilt me into calling him by threatening not to speak with me again. I didn't call him until I felt ready, which was two weeks ago. Yesterday, I caught a bug was sleeping in bed for a day and a half. I checked my phone after I woke up and saw that he left me a bunch of text messages. I even missed his call. He really wants to met by next month. (link)
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Dear Online Dating,
First of all if any person tries to guilt you to do anything then that's a red flag. Second dating should not be hard but if it is especially with someone pressuring you then that's a clue that you don't need to talk to someone who is making it hard. Understanding people will never make you feel less of a person. if you do not feel comfortable in meeting then make it known. If they get upset and threaten to not communicate the it's a blessing in disguise because you don't need a person who is not understanding. Be true to yourself and know who you are and what you want because the right person you meet whether it's online or in person will be understanding!
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I'm in a close group of friends, and we've all known each other about 18 months, all roughly 20 years old. I've started to really really like one of my closest friends (lets refer to him as the guy- I'm a girl)- building up for the last 6 months or so, during which time we've definitely got closer. He's religious, so I don't know how he'd feel about a relationship, but oh well.
Problem is, one of my close friends (friend A) started to like him around the same time and was very vocal about it. All of our other friends know, she talks about it a lot (except in front of him) and has even kissed him briefly the other night (while drunk). He'd have to be blind not to know she likes him, but he could be trying not to lead her on, since she's most enthusiastic while drunk and has been known to sleep with strangers in that state. Another friend guessed I liked him almost before I knew but I laughed her guess away because I was surprised and kind of embarrassed at the time. I didn't realise how strongly I felt. Now everyone's encouraging friend A and it feels like its too late to talk to anyone.
I also really don't want to make friend A miserable, because she'd been in some bad relationships before. The guy is just hard to read, and I desperately want to keep the same friendship with them both, I just don't know if I'd manage it if they were together.
I don't know what to do. Should I talk to someone, or just hope/ assume I'll get over him? I should add that I'm living with them both, and will be probably for another year or two. (link)
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Dear Third Party,
The truth is unless this person is actually showing any interest in wanting to take the next step with you it shouldn't deter you from looking for something great in your life. If he is the "one" then you should let him know how you feel. If "A' is a real friend then she will accept it and so will your other friends. True friends will never let anyone come between them but also be happy for that person if they find a connection with someone. Make sure this person is right for you other wise it will blind you to not see if there is something bigger and better out there for you. If he chooses "A' then be happy for her and know that someone better is out there. Nether of you should be #2 to anyone when there are people out there ready to make you #1! So be sure and be happy and if it's right the great, but if it's not that's great too because then you will know and will eventually find the right one!
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I went on a coffee date with a guy yesterday, and it went really well...we talked the whole time and he seemed really interested. At the end of the date, I said I'm glad we met up and we should do it again. He said absolutely and asked why my schedule is like. I said that I'm in a certain city (where he works) during the week, and around during the weekends. I said "I'm pretty open for now"...and after that there was no word or confirmation. Just a bye and that was it. So I'm wondering if i sounded too available or over eager and turned him off? I mean, I thought I was being honest... But now I'm thinking he might not reach out for a second date bc of that. Any thoughts? Especially by men... (link)
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Dear Coffee Girl,
Sometimes people question themselves when it comes to dating. But if you know what you want in your life then don't be afraid of that. Too many people get scared and they settle. If this person doesn't reach out and give you a 2nd date then they were never meant to be the one. Appreciate yourself and know that someone out there will eventually turn one of these coffee dates into a night out and a relationship where you get coffee together as a real couple. The future is so bright no matter who you end up with but only you will know who that will be.
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21/f, 28/m
I've been dating this guy for the past 8-9 months. He has lied to me three times and each time he has broken my trust. Each time, we were trying to rebuild trust and trying to make things work. He has convinced me to stay because he called them "bad choices" or "bad mistakes." Those lies and mistakes that he has made, has done damage that also made me question his loyalty. But he did not completely go off and cheat on me. The worst thing he did was tell his ex-girlfriend that he missed her.
Since then, he's been telling me that he has moved on and he no longer thinks about her. He's been reassuring me, telling me that he likes me, he sends me kissy faces, he told me that he's been trying to become more available for me, that he desperately wanted to rebuild trust with me, and to become closer to me. He told me yesterday that he wanted to be my "home," because I told him that I no longer have that someone that was like my "home." He even looked up an article that would somewhat help to open us both up and become vulnerable. He thought it would be worth a try.
I'm not sure if it's because he broke my trust so many times in such a short time, I can't see what he's doing. But my sister told me that she could tell that he was trying. Even though he tries to be there for me and tells me everything, I still feel insecure and think that he's constantly cheating when he's not next to me. I don't want to feel this way and I don't want to think that he's cheating. He tells me what he does that day (because we've always done that), but for some reason, I think he's lying.
Is this going to take time for me to acknowledge/believe that he's not lying? Is it going to take time for me to regain trust for him? Do you have any advice on what I should do or any suggestions that would help? Thanks. (link)
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Dear Trust Factor,
Yes mistakes can be made and things can be said that can be forgiven. But when those things start making you feel insecure about yourself then you have to start looking at your life and seeing what you want but also making sure no one ever makes you feel that way again. And staying with someone who tells their ex that they miss them is beyond me because you are not even in the equation. Never settle for second best with someone when there is a person out there who's #1 you will be. If someone starts lying about little things then what makes you think they won't get any bigger and why would you ever be with someone who has to justify things by lying? And if you have to question whether or not they are then you are either not secure with yourself or secure with that person so then you have to step back and look at that and ask yourself... IS THIS WHAT I WANT FOR MY LIFE?
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My ex and I were in a long distance relationship for around 4 months. Since last 20 days or so he was distant and replied to my messages really late.. Usually after 2-3 days.
So I asked him what was happening... And he said, university was hectic and he said things are getting worse. I even asked him if it's this relationship or something else that was causing the problem. He said it's neither of it. But I realised hes doing this to get out of the relationship
I for some reason did not pursue him. I think my ego came in between and I didn't bother texting him again. He hasn't texted me in over 5 days now. I am moving on and don't feel like texting him. I don't think he even deserves to know that m moving on.I cannot text him first.
And he friends with my best friend and I see him online ( he said he's busy with university). So that's just proof enough that he doesn't want to face the music and tell me that he doesn't want to do this. So my question is Im just wondering why am I so indifferent to this? I mean the urge to text and call him just died so soon.
Is this a bad thing?? (link)
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Dear Confusion and Uncertainty,
Sometimes insecurities have a way of bringing things to our minds that make us think of things in the wrong way. But if you are worried so much on the relationship then just being honest and letting him know how you feel about it will help relieve that. If you feel that it's not working then move on but at least let him know that's what you want. Doing so without his knowledge only diminishes your character. but also in the meantime figure out what major insecurity whether from your present or past is causing you to feel this way and work on it because only then will you ever be able to have a stable relationship with anyone.
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I'm tired of being mean to the person I like. It's always me calling them names and calling them ugly when I. don't. mean. it. It makes me mad because impulse control disorder makes me blurt out some mean things some times without even thinking. I want to be nice, I really do. But I just don't know how...
any suggestions as how to improve myself in being nice? Because I want to better myself, for the sake of the person I like, for our friendship in general, and for my sake. (link)
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Dear Impulse control,
The next time you feel the urge to say something mean to someone who doesn't deserve it, think about if you would say those things to yourself. Treat them like you would treat you. You have to better yourself though before you can show that to people. Figure out what makes you say those things and work on improving yourself. Save it and use it on people who do deserve it like the liars and cheaters of the world. Be a better listener then a talker and maybe it helps so you can say better things instead of blurting out things that will end the friendship.
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I have lied to my boyfriend his car handle fell off so I try to fix it with some super glue he came to my house that evening and asked me if I tried to fix his hand on his car with super glue and I stood in front of him face to face and I said no so he said well I'm going to call my son and see if he done it so you got a hold of his son and his son said no I didn't do it look at the cameras that you have at your house and it will tell who did it. So the next day when he left for work I text him that I did ithe forgive me for that stupid lie but he still broke up with me because I did it face to face if you truly love somebody you shouldn't have to lie to him you should tell them the truth what should I do I asked him for a second chance but he's not listening or even talking to me (link)
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Sometimes we get scared to tell someone something so small because the outcome becomes so big. But if they are not able to forgive you for something so small then they are either hiding something or have their own insecurities. What you have to decide is that if this person is not a forgiving person are they someone ever worth forgiving when they do things wrong. We all make a mistake but this is not one that should determine the outcome of a relationship. Was he dating you or dating his car? Never be a second option especially to an automobile. Appreciate yourself better than that!
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This guy likes me and keeps talking to me and I want to make sure I'm not accidently flirting with him. Can you tell what not to do? Thanks (link)
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First of all if you have no interest in him just be upfront and honest. Sometimes people misinterpret the situation and think that person is reciprocating feelings back. Being upfront and honest will let you know what type of person you are dealing with. Don't ever put yourself in a situation that will ever make you uncomfortable.
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I am posting this for a friend. She started dating this guy around November of last year they had their ups and downs. Disagreements. He's not the most attractive person in the world but he really cared about her. They split up in July because he'd come home from work and play video games all night get up and play video games. Never go to the store with her. She has two kids he never went to the park with her or anything he just stayed home or worked so then she stopped going to his families house because he wouldn't do things with her. It's like they were just annoyed with each other (link)
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When communication doesn't happen between two people there is no room for a relationship. They need to speak to each other and say what they feel and what is annoying about one another that has led them to this scenario. Obviously if they do really care about one another they will be able to do so, otherwise tell her to end it before she ends up taking care of a 3rd child who plays video games and he ends up ignoring her like kids do when all they do is play video games. Talk, listen and then decide!
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