I am posting this for a friend. She started dating this guy around November of last year they had their ups and downs. Disagreements. He's not the most attractive person in the world but he really cared about her. They split up in July because he'd come home from work and play video games all night get up and play video games. Never go to the store with her. She has two kids he never went to the park with her or anything he just stayed home or worked so then she stopped going to his families house because he wouldn't do things with her. It's like they were just annoyed with each other
If you are asking if they should of split up then, yes I do. If he wasn't interested in her or doing anything with her and just spent all his time playing video games then that's not much of a relationship. Spending lots and lots of time sat playing video games is no way to live. If you are asking if they should get back together then generally I always advise against going back to a relationship that didn't work the first time around.
It's difficult to say much more about this as you didn't ask any questions and it's not you who was in the relationship. Perhaps post more info so myself and others van give further and better advice?
Manulo answered Tuesday October 21 2014, 2:26 pm: When communication doesn't happen between two people there is no room for a relationship. They need to speak to each other and say what they feel and what is annoying about one another that has led them to this scenario. Obviously if they do really care about one another they will be able to do so, otherwise tell her to end it before she ends up taking care of a 3rd child who plays video games and he ends up ignoring her like kids do when all they do is play video games. Talk, listen and then decide! [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
missundersmock answered Tuesday October 21 2014, 3:17 am: okayyy so whats the question here? all youve told us is the situation your friend is in (which in itself DOES sound a little unhealthy) but im not understanding what your trying to ask about specifically... [ missundersmock's advice column | Ask missundersmock A Question ]
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