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How Should I react when a think a girl has a crush on my BF?
I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a crush on my BF and she is trying to impress him. Should I do something about it? It is bothering me a lot. I didn't ask my bf about the girl yet. Should I ask him? How can I ask him? or should I just ignore it?
BTW we don't share our couple picture online or post anything about our relationship online. As me and my BF both are very private person. Our close friends and family members know about our relationship. But we don't showoff online.
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Dear Ms. Long Distance,
First give yourself credit that you were able to do a long distant relationship this amount of time. Especially if you don’t see each other that many times. Now with that being said the important thing is you have to communicate with your boyfriend on how you feel about this. Keeping this bottled up and not communicating will hurt your relationship more. The other thing you have to think about is where your relationship is going and where you want to be in the next 5 years. Do you want to see each other more or contemplate one of you moving so you can truly be together. These are the important discussions you have to start having. Honesty and being open in a relationship will only help it grow more. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. It’s important. Only then will you know how you have to proceed. Good luck and don’t be afraid to be who you are and be honest on what you are feeling.
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