Q: Hey in 16 yr old female about to turn 17 in a few months.. I'm with this guy who I love with all my heart and he just turned 22 about a month ago we are basically 5 years apart I don't find it weird at all and neither does he.. he does not pressure me to do anything sexually that is not y he is with me.. do u think I'm to young bc some ppl say I am

Q: Ok so, I'm a fifteen year old High school Student, I've been having some really conflicting issues, and I realized that I always look at questions around here for fun, so when I had an issue, why not come here. Well Like I said I'm a male high school student, and I don't really know what I am. I'm going to 10th grade, throughout my 9th grade school year I had a friend (we'll call him Clyde lol) that asked be to do sexual stuff, and an experimenting sense, so two times we exchanged oral sex, once in a bathroom, and once in the woods next to our school. Now there was another Guy I know that aksed me the same thing (call him Greg) and he just wouldnt leave me alone, askeing for naked pictures, asking to have sex, he was pathetic and extremely annoying, so Yesterday I told him it's never going to happen and to just leave me alone. Now my third friend is an open Bi-Sexual we will call him (Aaron) I met him when he was dating one of my female friends, we would text and talk all the time, we became really close friends, one day I heard "Aaron's" girlfriend saying how she didnt like to kiss him and all, so me being the idiot that I am, I told him, and he said thanks, I guess over the next 48 hours they talked and she denied this, he accused me of lying, and we didnt talke for two months. In a plot to take revenge I tried to break them up, he confronted me in a texting conversation, everything was laid on the table and we moved on to become friends again. He confessed to liking me, I considered my self as straight at the time (I hadnt had oral sex with Clyde yet) was shocked, so I waved it off and claimed i was still figuring out who I am. Meanwhile I met a girl one year younger than me, we started talking and flirting, it was just a very flirtatious friendship. this was November, when Aaron started asking me if I wanted to have Sex with him Oral. We joked about it all the time but I knew he was serious. I kept saying maybe. My relationship with the girl..(Lily i guess) was moving along, but at Christmas it ended, it started again this past June and ended again, we're now STRICT friends. So not much happened except once in February that was the first time Clyde and I had Oral and then once again in May, Now yesterday...August, I brutally ended my friendship with Greg, after his annoying requests of naked pictures and sex. Lately I've been texting Aaron a lot, and I really want to be friend with him, like good friends, and we were playing the question game and he asked me if Id ever have sex with a guy, I said I was curious, especially about anal sex. He said I should let him top me, and I could top him back, hes already had EVERY version of sex with both girls and guys hes only a year older (16) but he's a really cool guy. Also yesterday Clyde texted me and said he'd gotten his license he's in my grade but has an early birthday so he's 16. He asked if I wanted to experiment like last year, only this time we could drive to my house, and do it. So far I haven't had a relationship feelings about guys, only sexual, what do you guys think of this? Oh and before 9th grade when most of this happened I was in a long term 3 year relationship with a Girl (Alice)
What do you guys think of my situation? All advice is welcome and I'd really appreciate it ! Thanks in advance ! :)

Q: Okay i know this is going to sound bad but it happens. Ok i liked this dude but he didst know about it or me really so we decided to hang out wit some close friends and we had sex! I wanted to but after i didn't hear from him so i kind of started to feel bad. I continue to hang with his friends and i started liking one of them and this time he likes me back but im afraid to talk to him like that because i don't want to seem like a hoe. I don't know if the friend knows but i also don't know what to do and this guy is really cool. Ugh i messed up bad

Q: I'm 19 and i met this guy a year ago. from the very start i was'nt attracted to him but he forced things out. i gave in because I'd just broken up and wanted to show that 'thing' that i was doing well. I have never loved him and always wish if got a nice guy,i would slip out.I hate him yet he loves me dearly. what should i do?

Q: ok im a sophomore this year and i dated this jerk in 7th grade and he was awful to me and dumped me repeatedly and cheated on me so much and i dumped him the last time and totally refuse to talk to him. i seriously hate him like everytime hes around or i hear about him i got instantly heated and angry. its been like 4 years and im still not over him even though i make it seem like i am. what can i do?

Q: There is a guy who accidentally texted me as a wrong number. I told him it was wrong, but he continued texting me on multiple occasions, knowing I was someone he didn't know. We had some nice conversations and flirted a bit. He lives about three hours away from me and is 16. He wants to come visit me, but he can't drive. I'm 17 and can drive, but not that far - my parents wouldn't let me. I wouldn't want to either because I don't really know him. One day he got very intense with the flirting and asked if he were to ask me out what I would say. I told him maybe, clearly stressing that we don't each other and would have to get to know each other in order for me to date him. He then asked that if we dated if we would make out a lot. This kind of creeped me out. He also asked if we were now dating, I told him no because we have never met. I haven't texted him since that time and have just ignored his texts, but I feel bad. I don't know what to do and my friends tell me just to continue ignoring him, but I don't want to hurt him. Help! He also asked for a picture, but i refused to send one saying my phone was broken. He wanted to friend me on Facebook but I never told him my last name and he never asked for it.

Q: My girlfriend and me whenever we hang out she always just reaches her hands down my pants and she says she wants to give me a handjob...weve been dating for 7 months and i dont think that she will notice that im small since its her first handjob...i really want one but im afraid she will think im too small....what should i do?

Q: Just as a survey, how would you guys rate/handle a situation with:
A girl and guy (18 years both almost 19)
Guy doesnt pay for girl, girl always drives guy around because the guy doesnt have a car. They both say they love each other, talk about marriage, and kids. Guy doesnt have a job yet but aspires to have one; girl is going away to college, guy is going to a community college and they both plan to stay together.
What if you were the boy or girl, would you guys say this is a good realtionship?

Q: So I have been dating this guy for two months, the first boyfriend I have had in a while because I stopped dating after a serious relationship. But I really like this guy, he's amazing, but he has a temper and easily offended and is very sensitive. We joke around and call each other names and it's always fun. Well I went camping last weekend without him and when I got home the first thing I did was go so him, his friend was there and I didn't know so I slept in his bed for an hour or two then went home, this was the last time we saw each other. Well my phone has been broken lately so I haven't been able to really talk to him. I talk to him maybe twenty minutes a day through verizonwireless online texting. Usually when I get off work, we both work so we only hang out certain days, he worked til 7 wednesday but I expected we'd hang otu because it was our 2 month anniversary, he asked me to go the movies with him and I said yes, I told him to look up playing times and he said he was too lazy because he just got off work. And I said you're a lazy little grumpy boy after work aren't you? (: and he said he didn't want to hang out since obviously he's being a lazy grump and then just stopped talking to me. So we didn't go on our date, then my friend B went over to his house the next night because they're best friends, they got super drunk and it made me mad that he would hang out with his friend but no me on our two month, even when he worked even longer that day. I texted him and told him and upset me and he didn't reply. the next day I texted him off my friends phone at work and told him we need to fix things or it isn't going to work and I want it to work. He said no what's your problem? And I said I just want us to treat each other nicer and try not to take things so hard because we always end up fighting, and he said well you act so rude sometimes I feel like I am back with my ex. and I got super upset and told him that I don't want to be compared to her any more and I try my best and i don't want to be thought of as her. and my friend b told me that my boyfriend wasn't sure if he should stay with me I told him I wasn't sure either. But I really want to fix it, I really adore this boy and he lights up my life. What should I say or do to fix it? please help :/

Q: i am a 13 year old girl. i started talking to the most popular guy in school in the beginning of february...only to find that in a couple weeks, i was in love with him. in the middle of feb., i went to miami, we became bestfriends telling eachother everything and helping eachother out.(with a little flirting) it was one of the best weeks of my life. on the last day of my vacation, i decided to tell him how i felt. (just that i liked him) and he told me he wasnt sure how he felt about me yet. we continued to be bestfriends and soon after he told me he felt the same way. my school went on a big sleepaway fieldtrip and everything was going great. then one night one of his friends came up to me and warned me and about 'what he was doing' which was he just wanted to get in my pants...awks. i was so upset and ignored him all the next day. that night he wouldnt stop texting me after hours to try to explain and i wouldnt answer. finally he sent a long message explaining how much he liked me for me, and he would never say that. he even sent some of the lyrics to just the way you are. my love was back on. we starting hanging out and becoming even better friends. everyone knew we liked eachother. one day downtown he asked me out. of course i had to say yes because i've never felt this way about any other guy. we went out for 3 weeks and it was the best 3 weeks of my entire life. we kissed lots of times and he told me all the things i wanted to hear. even 'i love you' came up a few times. then came 'that day' behind the shed...i'm guessing things didn't go as he'd liked because 3 days later he broke up with me and didnt tell me why. guess his friend was right and looking out for me all along. any advice on what i did? (this is months after the fact, i just want to know) sorry its so long. but i've been heartbroken for months.

Q: I really like this guy, and i wanna start flirting.... How do i not make it obvious that i'm flirting? Please help

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Q: ive had a huge crush on this guy all year. (i'm 13) his friends all told me to go out with him, and that he liked me a lot. in person we are such good friends, and i can be myself around him. during school we'd hug and be cute to eachother but its summer now and we've barely talked. i feel like if he liked me, he doesnt anymore. i miss him. i text him sometimes and he only answers when i ask him something. is that weird? when i just say hey he wont answer. i'm so confused. someone please tell me whats going on.

Q: my boyfriend wants me to touch his cock bt m afraid what to do?

Q: My boyfriend always ignores me. He complained I was clingy and we argued for about three days over it. And then made up. But still, I felt weird when we hung out, scared almost. I was scared to say or do certain things in case I came off as clingy. We went through the day just fine. And afterwards he didn't even call or text and every time I give him space he doesn't bother to answer.

I mean first the relationship was perfect. And then it just went downhill... He said we'll fix it but he isn't doing his part and whenever I text or call to talk about it, he ignores me. My mom said to ignore him even if he ends up contacting me, but I just wanna get it over with. Should I break up with him or go with my mom's plan?

Q: How do I deal with a break up, I dont know if hes forgotten me I dont want to forget him because our break u wasn't abotu soemthing bad but I always text him and he responds as if he doesn't want to talk to me and i really dont know what to do . And I am also loosing two of my closest friends one of them is named Jenny she didn't like my boyfriend and they had gotten in an arguement and put me in the middle. Now she thinks I am talking smack about her and saying she was the reason why we had broken up but that is a stupid rumor . My other friend is named Alfredo he is upset withe me because he says I have betraded him I did I do admit I did and he has every right to be upset but I just want him back .

Q: ok um this guy (just turned 16) and he really likes me(im 15 going on 16) and i dont really like him but i wanna be friends, but to him its either date me or noting else. the reason why i dont is cus we already dated and there was to much drama and the day after we broke up i asked him whats up? and he said fucking me!!! also he pretends to be my one of my friends just so he can talk to me (the friend was a guy who likes me too and hess my ex best friend)..so my question is do you got any ideas on how i can deal with this hes my friends cousin

Q: i am a 15 year old female wondering if you could get pregnate from jacking off your boyfriend then fingering yourself?

Q: well i broke up with this guy for another guy that i had liked for 2 yrs and now i feel like i messed it up the one guys name is caleb and i really really like him but i think he hates me now i was textn him the other day and tld him how i felt about the sittuation n he was like well ive been through it and itll get better trust me and i dont think it will i think i just lost the guy im inlove with can someone please help me asap ..
~alysaaaa

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