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I DON'T WANNA SEE HIM!! I hate him but he loves me! What do I do?
I'm 19 and i met this guy a year ago. from the very start i was'nt attracted to him but he forced things out. i gave in because I'd just broken up and wanted to show that 'thing' that i was doing well. I have never loved him and always wish if got a nice guy,i would slip out.I hate him yet he loves me dearly. what should i do?
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Look, your life is your own. Nobody can live it for you. So you had better make it precious because you only get one shot at it. If you are unhappy in the relationship, break up with him and find somebody you think would be a better fit.
Don't let your life be sabotaged by guilt trips or hustles laid on you by others. They can't live your life. Rather, they are more interested in what you can do for them. Decide what you want and then go for it and it isn't necessary to feel guilty about it.
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If he is becoming super obsessive, give him a few warnings to leave you alone. If he doesn't leave you alone the police should take that case. Usually they will give him warnings to leave you alone and if he disobeys he can be arrested for stalking. Don't consider his feelings right now because you have enough and now it's getting to out of control and you should worry about yourself rather than him. Good Luck.
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like the other person said if its the attraction and if he treats you right , have and be greatful but its your choice and your decision and its what YOU want.. if you dont have feelings for him you cant force feelings just get out of it soon as possible its been a year.. you have to do it now and tell him or he will be REALLY hurt later on...
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well not to be mean or anything but it doesnt sound like your a very nice person because if he loves you and treats you right then you got lucky these days it shouldnt be about attraction because the good looking guys are always going to break your heart in the end whether you wanna hear the truth or not sometimes the best of guys are the ones you rather pass up another thing you shouldnt hate him if he is willing to love you cuz your ex wasnt if you dont want to be with him tell him but be gentle cuz you should know about getting your heart broke and its not lovely next time dont use someone as a backup if you dont want this to happen
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If you aren't attracted to him then calmly in a nice way tell him.
You could say " I think you may be getting the wrong impression but I am not attracted you too you in that way."
Just let the guy know but try to drop him lightly, Don't kill his ego.
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