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Do I like him, should I tell him?
Ok, so there is this guy that I had a crush on but then I lost interest. He is moving to Canada in two days, I think I like him but I'm not sure. I thought he liked me back but now I don't think he does anymore. I think about him all the time and I imagine him telling me he likes me and that he'll miss me, but my heart doesn't skip a beat when I see him like it used to. Do I like him, should I tell him? Fast answers would be appreciated as he is leaving in a day.
13/f
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Ah, the fickle heart of a teenager.
Listen, he's moving away. Don't complicate things for him. Tell him it was nice knowing him and good luck and leave it at that.
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Dont tell him you like him because it seems like other said before you dont like him anymore.. you lost interest and your heart doesnt skipa beat when you see him like you use to .. you moved on but your scared of letting him go and just let him do his thing , there will be other better guys out there for you.. give it time trust me it will be fine and a lot better...
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Sometimes we don't realize we like someone until you know you'll never see them again. Should you tell him? Probably not. Assuming you live in the United States what is it really going to solve to tell you that you like him? He is going to Canada either way...
I think you should just part as friends like the user said below me, Telling someone you like them before they are due to move far away is kind of heart breaking. You would want him to move without any guilt wouldn't you? Well maybe it's just like that old saying....."Somethings are better kept to ourselves"
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What it sounds like to me is you don't like him anymore but since he is moving away your tricking yourself by thinking you like him when really you just know that if he moves away your never get to be with him if you ever change your mind and trust me we have all been through it so what you should do is tell him your miss him and part as friends and if he never knew how you felt before let him know so later down the road you wont have any regrets
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