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he still crosses my mind
when i was in middle school i was in love with this guy who said he didnt feel the same way although secretly he did he it was a small school i knew everyone and he was popular me not so much because of who my friends were but i loved him for four years and maybe more i just finished 12th grade and i still think about him sometimes and i havent seen him or talked to him since 8th grade i dont know how to get him outta of my head im with an amazing guy for 2 years now and i feel guilty when i think about him then guy i loved was mean to me but i dont know how to forget and let go any ideas
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First, you are too young to be tied down. Break up with your current boyfriend and go off to college. If you don't have that exploratory phase of your life where you date a lot of different men and just check out life you will regret it forever.
As for the other guy, you have projected on to him everything you want in a guy even though the day to day reality may be quite different. A lot of people do this with celebrities or with their partners in internet relationships. You need to stop this because it is not only inherently an insult to your current guy, but it is keeping you mentally back in junior high.
Just relax and enjoy what you have. Don't get greedy and don't overthink things.
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yes he crosses your mind so what? things happen and by the time he will have to be out of your mind like you said your with an amazing guy a lot better then him... 4 years went by and there was no talking really between you too.. so now you have this new guy that for sure cares and loves you and I think you shouldnot even be asking this question , focus on him more and less on other guys .. its hard but if you really do love him and like him you should really be able to put this guy aside.. only time can heal it.. unfortunatley but it will and it will.. you just need to stop thinking about it like you are when you write this...just let him go force him into the back of your mind and he will soon dissappear delete him off anything you have too.. non connections and it will soon eb gone
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Four years is a very long time to still be thinking about someone, You still think about this guy from time to time but I would start thinking in the aspects of he could be going to college, He could have a girlfriend and hell for all you know he could have a child or be engaged after all a lot of time has passed by. You have been with your boyfriend for 2 years, That is a long time to be with someone while thinking of a guy you used to know a few years back. If this guy is amazing and treats you right then you should be focused on him and happy to be in the relationship with him. One says you cannot truly love someone if you are still hung up on someone else. I would try to move on, Like I said it has been several years and you both are older and have moved on with your lives. Don't let an old crush ruin your happiness with who you are with now. The more you think about it, The more you will begin to dwell on it and the more it could start to effect your current relationship. Stop putting yourself on hold and be happy in your life.
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the best thing to do is to put your past behind you and move on with your life. that other guy must have move on long ago... i think you should just learn to love who is in your life nown and forget about him.
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