ok um this guy (just turned 16) and he really likes me(im 15 going on 16) and i dont really like him but i wanna be friends, but to him its either date me or noting else. the reason why i dont is cus we already dated and there was to much drama and the day after we broke up i asked him whats up? and he said fucking me!!! also he pretends to be my one of my friends just so he can talk to me (the friend was a guy who likes me too and hess my ex best friend)..so my question is do you got any ideas on how i can deal with this hes my friends cousin
Lessthan3ofgod answered Friday July 22 2011, 6:29 pm: So its either date me or nothing?
Don't feel pressured into dating him, i have been pushed into relationships and all it does is end in feeling bad for what happened.
He is not even worth it if he doesn't want to be your friend. Just stop being friends and he will feel bad for what he was doing possibly.
You will feel better if you just move on from the situation because at your age you don't need that kind of drama or pressure. Just walk away from him and the situation and don't even confront it anymore.
dee0121 answered Wednesday July 20 2011, 7:20 pm: I agree with NEVER2BEALONE. you are very young to be caught up in immature drama. Your teenage years will pass you by and it will be wasted on trying to figure out if you should be friends with someone that is telling you its all or nothing. Good Luck :) [ dee0121's advice column | Ask dee0121 A Question ]
Never2bAlone answered Wednesday July 20 2011, 5:13 pm: I would just ignore this guy. This sounds beyond childish. Do you have time for these ridiculous games? NO! He's disrespectful and hasn't a clue how to treat a woman. You don't need to deal with this any longer. Move forward with your life and before you know it you will have forgotten all about (who?) You have so much more in life to experience why waste your time dealing with someone who is clearly stuck in 5th grade? If he values your friendship he will grow up and quickly. If not he will be left behind and not just with you, left behind in life in general because time is here and gone before you know it. So have fun and enjoy life with those mature enough and deserving of your time and friendship. Good luck :) [ Never2bAlone's advice column | Ask Never2bAlone A Question ]
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