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> Full name: Katlin Nicole Starr Mitchell
> Height: 5'3-5'4
> Eyes: BroWn
> Hair: BRowN w/ Red StreiKeS
> Location: Mauldin, South Carolina
> Sexual Orientation: Straight
> Ethnicity: WhiTe but w/ A Tan*
> Pets: 1 Dog and A Cat! RIP Robbie, Died Aug 1 2004
> Siblings: 1 Brother
> Movie:13 going on 30...The Notebook..A Walk To Remember...Grease...Dirty Dancing
> Book: The NoteBook
> Actress: Sandra Bullock...and Uhh...
> Actor: Shane West...and...uhh
> Singer/Band:Ryan Cabrera...and Sara Evans
> Song: On The Way Down and She Will Be Loved
> Quote: "...Our Love Is Like The Wind, I Can't See It...but I Can Feel It..."
> Food: PastA*
> Sport: VolleyBall, SurfinG...BASKETBALL*
> TV show: Dawsons Creek, Newlyweds*
> Drink: Sprite w/ LemonS
> Number: 10 and 11
> Accessory:PurSe
> Color: Pank and Blue*
> Lipgloss: Watermellon, or whatever my Fiance lovEs! *
> Ice Cream: Cookie Dough*
> Mag: Umm...counTrY Weekly?
> Cartoon Character: DINO!
> Animal: DogS*
> Chocolate or Vanilla? Verrnilla*
> Book or its Movie? Both
> Gold or silver? Silver
> Boxers or Briefs?: It Don'T MattER
> Black or White? Black
> Hug or Kiss? Both at one time!
> Computer or TV? Both
> Morning or Night? Night*OOO*
> White Chocolate or Milk Chocolate?White ChocolaTe!
> Serious or Giggly? Giggly
> Drive or Fly? Fly
> Dog or Cat? Dog
> Inside or Outside? Depends on the weather
> Fantasy or Reality? Reality
> Dance or Sing? SiNG!! LALAL*
> Write or Read? Write
> Social or..Not? Social...verY*
> Draw or Paint? DRaW
> Watch or do? Do...HEHEHE
> Eat or Drink? UmmS???
> Write or Talk? Talk!
> Summer or Winter? WinTer*
> Joel or Justin? Justin
> TV or Movie? Movie
> Cholcolate or Caramel? Chocolate
> Tall or short? On A guy...Tall...
> Pepsi or Coke? Pepsi
> Innie or outtie? InnIe
> Have you dyed your hair? Ya :(
> Have you ever fit your entire body into a relatively small compartment? Yupperss...A Drier! hahaha!
> Hobbies:Shopping...sports..and my Babie
> Interests:Music...and my babie!
> What do you like Most about yourself? My personalitY!
> What do you like least? My Temper*
> Whats in your CD player right now? Sara EvanS..Niagra :(
> Ever left the country? Yes!!!
> Where to? Europe, Mexico, Australia, Canada, Japan...and Jamaica
> Whats the worst feeling? Heart Broken..and guilt.
> Whats the best feeling? Being in LovE* Being HappY!
> Whats your sign baby? Capricorn*
> Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes
> Whats your best friends name? Nathan and BJ
> How long have you been friends? ForeVeR* haha..I Dk!
> Who, really, let the dogs out? HaHa..Me DUH!
> If you're life could be a book, which book would it be? Umms...I have no idea. Harry PotteR? Haha!
> Who stole the cookies from the cookie jar? Hahaha? What kinda Question...
> Is oscar, really, a grouch? He was mean to the kiDs...so was big BIRD!
> Have you ever caught a Leprechaun? Oh Yes..Hehe *WINK* Great times w/ Him as Well!
> Who do you admire? My brother and my fiancE*
> Whats your most embarrasing moment? Not going THERE!
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E-mail: KateStar1011@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Greenville, South Carolina!
Age: 18
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Member Since: July 16, 2004
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i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i think im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both you and your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!! (link)
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Hey darlin*
This is a very cute question. Hehe, Well...For me, I've only french kissed one person and I'm only 19 years old. We do it all the time now, because we're engaged, but each time we try something new, ya know?
When we kiss, we tilt our heads, so you're tounge doesn't go to the top or the bottom really. When you both stick it in there, you just find a place, and get into it. Taking your toungue both in and out. And when you do it, kinda have this tounge rolling thing going with it.
If you really wanna get into it, take your tounge and go on the inside of his lips...he will love that.
I can't tell tell you anything else, because it's an experiance kinda situation. (Like sex) ya know?
Welp, tell me how it goes! :-)
Have a wonderful DaY!
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I'm 14 female. I've never been in a serious relationship. I dated one guy for 3weeks. But that's a long n hairy story. And a girl for 2weeks. I really want a bf or gf, but the one guy i really like doesn't like me(he's the hairy story lol) and the girl i like is taken. Frankly, I'm not the prettiest thing. The only thing i got going for me is big boobs. most my guys friends comment on these daily but i o dont think any of them mean it. i know of one guy who likes me but he's one of my best friends, and i couldnt date him comfortably. i have sorta bad acne and my clothes are very stlyish because of two fat horses who eat our money. how can i make myself more attractive to at least myself. (i run every day at least a mile n do crunches and other ab workouts to loose weight already) (link)
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Hey girl!
I feel bad answering this to be completely honest. I'm sure you're a really nice girl, but I want to help you in the best way I can. I'm going to go ahead and tell you now..I dont mean this as...me being a total "meany" to you. But, the truth is the truth, and I care, and I want to help.
You are 14 years old. I think you have a lot going for you so far. You bisexual, that's fine...but, you put it as if, HEY IM BISEXUAL, give me attention. I think you're striving for attention, and I DO NOT mean this IN A MEAN WAY! I DO NOT...I'm not mean at all.
I think you really need to find yourself, and who you REALLY are. Maybe taking time off away from relationships would be a good thing for you, dear. I think you are pretty, and I've never seen you before. It's finding who you are inside, and seeing youself not only in the inside, but on the outside too...and you have got to do that. When you find who you are on the inside, then you can move to the outside appearance. I think at the age of 14, you are a little rebelious, and that's a good thing, but only to a certain extent.
I want you to do something that I've done for another girl tonight. I want you to look at yourself, and say I'm pretty. But I also want you to look at yourself, and say things out loud, that you like to do. Say things to yourself...talk to yourself. Then ask yourself, am I like this around my friends, or at school?
You're big breast thing, that's fine. Once you get older, which you are very close to becoming more knowledgable to the "high school" world...you'll notice, it's not about a big butt, or huge boobs, it's about your maturity, your actions, and who you are.
You're acne thing, there is a thing called "Cetaphil" you can get at SAMS and Wal-mart...it works REALLY good...let me tell ya, ever since i used it, my monthly blemishes when away.
I Really hope I helped, and I hope you didn't take it the wrong way.
Have a wonderful night, and tell me how that mirror thing goes. If Ya Do It!
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all my friends are really pretty. they are all blonde and skinny and rich. im the opposite. im ugly, not good clothes, overweight. everytime i go somewhere like the movies with my friends the guys all want to make out with them and sit with them when they just ignore me. when my friends suggest they makeout with me they pretend to gag and say ewww. it makes me really sad. help! how can i make myself prettier or find a guy who appreciates me? sometimes it feels like i deserve a boy more than the other girls. im a good person and friendly. (link)
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Hey BEAUTIFUL!!!
I want you to do something for me. I want you to get a peice of paper, and I want you to write down ten things about yourself. Positive things. And about each one, I want you to put an occupation(job) for later in your life. Such as what do you want to be when you grow up. After you do that. I want you to think about what money, clothes, and looks have to do with any of that.
Overweight is beautiful. Boys, they stink! Hehe, I understnad that you want one of those guys that appreciate you...well...I'll go ahead and tell ya, they are hard to find, un fortunatly =-/ It really sucks! But...you'll find him once you get older. Boys turn into to guys, then men...and they start to realize things that are REALLY important in life.
Now...I want you to do one more thing. I want you to look at yourself in the mirror. Then, I want you to get in the shower, get all nice and clean (if you aren't already) and then I want you to get dressed again...only in PJS, no make up and your hair a mess. And I want you to say...Yes, I'm Beautiful! And if it hurt to say it...then say it louder. Say it as loud as you can...just repeting it over and over again. Then, I want you to think...I'm beautiful, and unique, becuase God made me that way!
You're beautiful in my book, and dont let girls or guys let you think differently! Don't let anybody let you down, beause it's only what you think...and you've gotta THINK CONFIDENCE! It gets you TO THE MOON and back IN THE WORLD!
I Lubby YOu!
Have a wonderful night sweetie!!!
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Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I are friends now. And we had a talk about my love life. He wanted to know so I told him. I brought up that one of my crushes is kind of offstandish towards me and he replied "one day he'll wake up and see the morning blossom." Then later he asked which one of my crushes I want to die with. What does all of that mean? (link)
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Hey hunnie...
I think your guess is just as good as ours. Men/boys have a certain way of speaking, some are trashy, and some are super romantic. Sounds like you got a cute little romantic one.
Anyways..I think that he is asking..Which crush to you want to grow old with, marry and die with. That's me best guess sweetie.
TRy asking him, exactly what did he mean by that, and that's probably how you'll get the right answer lol! :)
Have a wonderful day!
XOXO katestar
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Okay.. well i went out with this one guy for a month and maybee a couple weeks... well i broke up with him becaz 5 months later i would be moving..i still like him alot at times but i also feel that i am friends with him, and thats about it. and he's getting ready to ask me out agian and i dont know if i should go out with him becaz im moving and everything. should i? (link)
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HEy hunnie!
With only dating a month...you don't really know how serious the relationship is. So, I would try to date again, seeing how tight the relationship is, and after you move maybe ya'll would stay together. Who knows what could happen!
Just be wild with it, live it all up girly!
Have a great day!
XOOXOO katestar
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Im 14/f and ive never had a boyfriend..is this weird...is it normal?? (link)
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For some people it is normal, for some it is not. I'm 19 now, and I didn't have a boyfriend till i was around 16. It's better when you are single when you are young because you are able to blank out all the boyfriend/girlfriend drama, and have more friends with just having friends!
Have a wonderful day!
XOOXOO Katestar
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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not. (link)
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Hey girly!
Well...that is a really fun situation, as long as you make it out to be that way. Get to really know the guy, go out places with him with a group and find out how he acts around groups and just around you, just to make sure you really like him. Then, you could easily mention liking him in a conversation with just the two of you. You'll know how he feels usually with his reactions. If he acts like the way you'd want him to, girlfriend go for it...ask him out!
Welp, have a great night, and good lucky chica-dee!
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ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx (link)
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I don't think he has a right to be mad, but guys are protective. That's just a trait that comes with guys. You need to talk to him, and tell him that you didn't know it was going to bother him this much. Tell him your sorry, and if you love him as much as you say. You won't do it again. Well..Have a wonderful day babe!
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Well...everybody...
I gots bad news. I know a lot of people on here know who I am..so..they'll know about this...but this is KateStar1011...and Rance and I are no longer engaged. I'm really really depressed..and I think I've learned the simple fact of not being right for eachother, but I'm moving out soon of the apt we owned...and I was just wondering if anybody had any tips for me to just stop crying. I know it's pathetic almost, but...I just can't stop.
Thanks a lot everybody...
Have a wonderful daY!
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i can't stop crying either babie, i honestly don't know what to do, i feel like the most lost person in the world w/out you by my side, you never leave my mind, but it's so hard because you never left my mind before because of me being so in love with you, and well i'm still so in love with you, but it's teh fact that you don't leave my mind because i miss you so much, i love you so much sweetheart and always will, i hope somehow in the future we can get through all of this and get back together because that's the only thing that's going to make my life complete, you by my side
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i like 2 guys...nathan and michael. I think i would have a better chance asking michael out, but i barely see him at school, and i like nathan more. i eat lunch with nathan and whatever other guys we decide to go talk to. we always have so much fun and we're always laughing. i've liked him longer than michael...and every time i think about him i get all tingly inside. i thought about him alot in 3rd period today, and i did it so much that the tingling began to hurt :). but....anyway...should i ask out michael or nathan?
sorry that was so confusing.
if you need more info, let me know and i'll put it up. (link)
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Well...
If you have likes Nathan more, than pick Nathan. If a man can make you smile and laugh. That's the best thing. and he makes you tingly! you could be in love! *wink* Good luck sweetie!
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How do I put eye liner on the top? I don't want it thick, but enough to be noticable. (link)
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Take your time with it. It's hard, trust me..I used to do it, but I only do it when I get dressed up. You have to hold your eye lid down, and gently and lightly go across with it. I hope I helped...Good luck!
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What do you guys look for in a girl as far as looks and personality? (link)
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It depends on the guy sweetheart.
Most guys like a clean cut looking girl. Nice hair, stuff like that. Personality, guys like a girl that is into sports...that is into doing things fun. They also like a real girl. Somebody that doesn't act fake. They like every girl to be themselves. I hope I helped, but remember...every guy is different, no matter what. Have a great day lovely!
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can i have a lover before my university level or in my university level (link)
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Oh course you can. You can have love or a love whenever cupid does his work...and trust me...give him time! :) Good luck my love!
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hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.
Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help! (link)
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Awww...Wow...
I'm a little lost too. :-/ Unfortuantly sweetie, guys and girls are very very hard to understand. One thing you need to remember though is...it was totally right for you to tell her your feelings for her, and about that situation. You should never regret, or have any other thought but good about standing up, and telling your feelings. Honestly, I don't think that she got it that you really like her. I kind of need to know how that conversation went with her and yourself. (If you are willing to share, not pressuring or really asking..)
I think it was really good that you said something to your best friend, but...then he told you he wouldn't make a move...then said, ya.I would start dating her if school starts again? Umms...I'm confused on that one.
Let me tell you something that happened to me when I was about your age...Basically it was the same thing, but the guy was my best/f and he liked my best/f. We all went to the same highschool and remained friends, but once we all got to highschool...we found lots of other different people. High school is such a big difference from a small junior high, to High School. Even though you are just Freshman, you'll all find somebody that really catches your eyes all the way through HS. It's a givin. I know that you really like this girl, but trust me...I bet she won't like your best friend for very long once she starts high school. That's when ever girl goes absolutely BOY CRAZY. Hehe...trust me. I hope I'm helping on this...if you need anything else...please let me know. I'm here to listen and help you through this. Hope to hear from you
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I am going to a different city in my state like I do every Saturday and I met this hot kid there who was real nice and he's 2 yrs older than me and he asked me out last saturday and I said yes so I am scared b/c I knew he liked me and he knew I liked him ever since like april 2004 and my bros friends who are his friends 2 said he is planning on kissing me and I am scared what if I dont wanna kiss him or freak out or what if I dont know how to french kiss and make out cuz I dont really.....well then if any of that happens what should I do? I wanna be nice and make him no I like him a bunches! plz help, thx a bunches! Ill rate ya! (link)
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At the beginning, you said he was a nice guy. If he is a nice guy, then he'd understand that you do not want to kiss, nor make out. You have to tell him straight up, and if he isn't so nice about it, then he isn't such a nice boyfriend. Tell him you do still like him, and you like him a lot, it's just that you don't want to this early in the relationship. Hopefully he'll understand. I hope I helped! Have a wonderful day, and a wondeful Saturday w/ him!
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ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar? (link)
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Yes, bipolar is indeed split personalitys. It can get pretty dangerous too.
Anyways, about your ex. That's not nice at all. It's a great thing that you guys broke up...but did he call you a Hoe when you two were dating, or after. Because...when he said..Baby, I love you. I'll never leave your side...he was dating you wasn't he. When you two break up, the "boy" side of the relationship thinks it's "cool" to call their ex names, and starte rumors. Basically, he's being childish.
If you two were indeed dating, then he was a little bipolar and a jerk..other wise...if he said Hoe when you two broke up then he was just being a jerk, and saying lies, and call you names for no reason...or for his reason "to look good." Which, some advice for him...it doesn't do you much good in the long run to do that.
I hope I helped!! Have a great Day my love!
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hey...
i'm really shy around my boyfriend most of the time ... how do i stop being shy? (link)
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Sometimes people are shy around there boyfriends, because of so many thoughts that go through a guy and girls head when you guys are dating.
You can't really stop being shy, because once you have started, it's hard to stop. All I can tell you...is to relax around him. Find out more things about him that you couldn't find out because you were all up tight. I'm sure you are yourself, but in some ways not, because...you're being shy. You just need to loosen up, and have fun. It'll take time, but...it'll work.
I hope I helped, have a great day!
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ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u
sighned
boy in denile
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AWww...
That's really sad. She sounds like she didn't appricate anything you did for her. I don't think she deserves you at all. I think you need to kind of move on. I know that sounds bad...but you need to find somebody that'll appreciate the things you do for her. It's going to be hard, I know...but trust me sweetie, keep searching. Have a great night!
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Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox (link)
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Haha!
HEY Girl...Dang, sooo soo true. You go through that dang depression, then when you find somebody everybody wants ya. Then, us girls are like, dang! :) I'm just kidding. Congrats on the wonderful man, he sounds luckY!
Ps...You sound really really fun, and I need somebody to talk about the wedding for me. I'm trying to plan, but I never can get started and stay on it...it's sooooo much to plan. Haha...If you don't mind, maybe we could talk about it!
Have a great day!!
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I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do? (link)
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AWww...I'm soo sorry sweetheart.
You seem like such a good guy, and accepting what she is doing, and who she likes is the best thing right now. She tells you these things, because she does infact love you as a best friend, and that proves to you, that she'll tell you anything. That's really sweet of her.
What you need to do, is maybe tell her how you feel about her. Maybe she'll come around, if she finds out how sweet you are, and how much feelings you have for her, she'll notice. Trust me. For all you know, she might like you know! *wink*
Tell her how you feel about every single thing, and that'll make everything better...because it'll be off of your chest, and she'll know you, and your feelings better.
I hope I helped...Have a great night!
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