I am going to a different city in my state like I do every Saturday and I met this hot kid there who was real nice and he's 2 yrs older than me and he asked me out last saturday and I said yes so I am scared b/c I knew he liked me and he knew I liked him ever since like april 2004 and my bros friends who are his friends 2 said he is planning on kissing me and I am scared what if I dont wanna kiss him or freak out or what if I dont know how to french kiss and make out cuz I dont really.....well then if any of that happens what should I do? I wanna be nice and make him no I like him a bunches! plz help, thx a bunches! Ill rate ya!
mxer4JESUS514 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:10 am: Well hun you said that he was a nice a guy so just go with the flow and if he trys to kiss you and you aren'tready then just like talk to him and be like I don't think i am ready for that just yet and he should be cool with it! Hope I hepled let me know how everything goes!
Love ya always!
*~+Kayla+*~ [ mxer4JESUS514's advice column | Ask mxer4JESUS514 A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:56 am: ok go to www.virtualkiss.com
KateStar1011 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:44 am: At the beginning, you said he was a nice guy. If he is a nice guy, then he'd understand that you do not want to kiss, nor make out. You have to tell him straight up, and if he isn't so nice about it, then he isn't such a nice boyfriend. Tell him you do still like him, and you like him a lot, it's just that you don't want to this early in the relationship. Hopefully he'll understand. I hope I helped! Have a wonderful day, and a wondeful Saturday w/ him! <3 [ KateStar1011's advice column | Ask KateStar1011 A Question ]
Blondie04 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:29 am: All I have to say is just relax. If you really love this guy and he really love you, you can talk with him. Tell him you aren't ready yet. Just take your time. If it is meant to be and he truly loves you, he will wait. If he won't, he'll probably leave. I had a boyfriend one time where he just rushed into things and our relationship lasted no time at all because I wasn't comfortable with what he was wanting to do. The next thing I knew, he was trying to get me into bed with him. Hope I have helped a little!! [ Blondie04's advice column | Ask Blondie04 A Question ]
MaNdASzHElP247 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 4:33 am: lol ok dont panic. if you dont wanna kiss him then kinda move away and just let him know your not ready. If he cares he will understand. Also everyone kinda knows how to make out(that is french kissing lol) but its a matter on how good you are or not. Dont worry tho. If you do wanna kiss him then go with the flow of things. If you dont wanna kiss him let him know you still like him by putting your arm around him kinda or hold his hand..little things like that will let him know. -aMANdA <3* (hOPE i HELPEd) [ MaNdASzHElP247's advice column | Ask MaNdASzHElP247 A Question ]
x0xpyrobabix0x answered Saturday August 14 2004, 3:10 am: ok, everybody gets nervous. I know I used to...but all you need to do, is just see what happens. Just keep calm, and watch his movements. Don't worry about not knowing how to kiss, or french kiss or anything. You'll know what to do when it happens. Just go with the flow, once it happens you won't be as nervous anymore. And he isn't gonna think anything bad about it if he likes you. He is going to like it no matter what you do. The only thing you don't want to do, is freak out and make a fool of yourself. Jus play it simple and calm. GOOD LUCK!! Let us know what happens.
kevin1986 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 3:02 am: You have the usual bullshit fears that any normal person has on a date. If you like him and you don't wanna kiss him,then give him no indication you want that.(no flirting,no looking deep in his eyes,none of that shit). Don't freak out if you do wanna kiss him,just do it. If he likes you,he's not gunna care if you suck or not. Hell,practice on your arm if you have to. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
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