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well im 16 and willing to answer any problem you have. all my friends come to me for advice and i thought why not offer my services to everyone! if my advice is good please rate so i know if im helping and if not i can improve my advice! anytime!
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these two guys (one is my X who i never liked) think that i am a slut now because of a note that they misunderstood or something. i really dont care about theyre opinions but now theyre telling the whole school im a slut and thats theyre away message! what can i do?
guys like to immature, especially if you've dated them or hurt them. the best thing you can do is not let it bother you and show that your more mature and bigger than them! they'll soon get tired if its not bothering you!!
hope i helped!!
well my boyfriend tells me im beautiful. its cute/sweet i know. but what should i say after? like can i say thanks? or something cute and unexpected. gimme ideas thnx //♥
just smile and look into his eyes. kiss him softly and say it mean so much to you that he thinks that and say that it wouldnt matter if anyone else said it! you only care that he thinks that and kiss him again!
hope i helped!
Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?
well thats what i like to think! theres someone out there thats perfect for you. you just need to find them thats all. but dont spend too much time searching for them b/c it will happen eventually!half the fun is trying to find them and finding out what you like in a person and what you dont!
hope i helped!
well my boyfriend is really nice. I just met him and hes really interesting and we really click. Except he seems a little too nice. Hes always telling me that he loves me and that im hot and pretty ALL the time! Then he asked me if I ever made out with anyone. I said no and he said, "oh who do u plan on making out with for the first time?" But still he really loves me and he is so nice.
Do you think hes using me?
i dont think he is! i just think he is genuinly interested and you shouldnt be worried unless he gets too clingy with all the i love u stuff! i think he was just want to know if you had because maybe he wanted it to be him.
hope i helped!
the guy i really like just got asked out by this girl. i'm not sure if he said yes or no or wheather or not hes going to say yes or no. but im just trying to be suportive to him no matter what but really its killing me inside and i hope to god he says no. i have no clue what to do im so confuesd.
well the best thing you can do is come clean with him and tell him how you feel. you never know that might help him make up his mind about what he's going to do. you'll never know if you dont tell him and if he does say yes to this girl then you will regret not sayin something becuase you never know he might be waiting to see if he gets any better offers, you might just be the offer hes been waiting for?!?!
hope i helped!!
okay how gross is this...
on dates with my bf while talking casually about what we've done before meeting each other (usually involving a rush to get out of bed) ect I always list down that I managed to brush my teeth and have a drink before leaving the house... him on the other hand spends his mornings on the computer or watching TV... he doesn't even BOTHER to brush his teeth or anything :S and he tells me this! can you be more of a turn off... ewwww... and once he got really mad at me for not wanting to kiss him but can you blame me!! how do I subtely get the message across to him that that is the biggest turn off like, ever :|
plus, I dunno, is this like a hint he can't be bothered? he's always dragging on about how he doesn't care about his appearance ect.. but after 3 months he's never even complimented how I look and I always try my best, blah...
Please help + opinions on this
xxx
hes got a typical lad attitude. well theres two extremes, 1. they dont care about their appearance, or, 2. the are really vain and are checkin themselves out all the time. guys see things differently to girls, things that they see as nothing and dont bother them are big deals to girls and as u said can be a turn off. i dont think this means he isnt interested but if you just tell him how you feel then im sure he will understand and start making more of an effort!
Hope i helped!
Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.
yuor b/f just has insecurities about himself, thats why he doesnt trust you. he sees your guy friends as a threat. he think that, because he's insecure about himself, that naturally you will feel the same and find other guys that are betterthan him. but you need to sit down with him and explain to him that they are just friendsand thats all because he wont change. he willalways think that you are cheating on him. and if there is no trust then it will never work because you will always feel that you are betraying him when you go out with your guy mates because u know he doesnt want you to, but this shouldnt happen. he has to know tht you will have guy friends and he shouldnt try and come between you and them. but just make sure he know he came trust you and that you trust him.
hope i helped!
my boyfrind cheated on me and wants me back should i take him back and worrie all my life to see if hes ganna cheat on me again or breack up i love him
my friends say its not the first time did itto me
is he really worth it? i mean i know u may love him but do you think he really loves you? if he did then there is no way he would have put you through that and cheated on you. if he has done it once then its likely he will do it again unless he realises that its wrong. and the only way to do that is by loosing you. if he wants you back and seesthat beacuse of what hes done he cant have you then he will realise not to do it agn. then in a while when he looks to have learnt his lesson (and i mean leave it a couple of months or sumthing) then it might be safer to try again then.
hope i helped!
ok i like this guy and i want to tell him but i would get nevous and red in the face if i told him. so i want to do in a way that i dont have to tell him.plz help.
you could always call him? then if you go red no one will know. or tell him on the computer that way no onewill know either. but if you do think you can do it face to face then go for it because thats always the best way! its sumhow makes it seem more genuine!
hope i helped!
about what age do boys and girls start french kissing?
there isn't a specific age. its basically whenever you feel comfortable with it! depends on the circumstances but if you feel that you want to then go for it! lol!
*13-f* I've only had 3 b/f's in my life...better than most girls. But the problem is allot of guys ask me out and I turn them down.If I turn down to many guys, later on in life will no one want to date me b/c they will think I'm just gunna turn them down too?
i dont think they will i mean if they like you then they like you. its up to them what they do about it. i mean all guys are scared of rejection. and you a girl, your allowed to be picky! its your right! lol! i dont think that it will cause a problem. dont worry about it darling. i a guy genuinly likes you then it wont matter how many guys youve turned down it just shows that you have standards and dont just og out with anyone. they will respect you for it!
hope i helped!
Anytime!
I've decided flat out that I'm going to surprise my guy friend with a kiss, to show my feelings for him. However, I'm not sure how to go about doing this. It would be my first.
well its good thats your going to do it that way. it will be really sweet. just try and catch him when hes on his own, suggest going out or something, maybe to the cinema. then when your on your own just take hold of his hand and just lean in and give him a little kiss. just a little one on the lipsand kind of let it linger and see how he reacts. if he starts kissing you back then thats all sorted and if when you pull away he leans in and kisses you then that all sorted too. but dont worry if he doesnt straight away, because he may be a little shocked. and if he doesnt then its was only a little kiss and so wont have ruined your friendship.
hope it goes well!
okay so there is this guy, yes very cliche and everyone asks these types of questions..but anyways. I dated this guy for about 7 months. A couple months ago we broke up and ive kind of been attracted to his best friend. Ive liked his best friend for a while, even while we were dating. The problem is he doesnt want to hurt his friends feelings by dating me he tells me im hot and flirts with me a lot and i just dont know what to do. Could someone help me pleasee. ILL RATE YOU HIGHH!
confused.
well thebestthing you can do is talk to him and share your feelings with him. if he knows your serious he may change his mind and take the chance. in these situations someone is always going to get hurt but you cant help your feelings. you could even suggest gettin the three of you together and telling your ex how you feel. if it was me id be thankful that you had been straight with me and not gone behind my back. you never know he may be fine with you or if not its not like he can hold it against you that you went behind his back so he cant blame his mate for that. it always hard saying what to do in these situations but i think that this is a good option.
hope it all works out for you!
Ok, so you're familiar with the concept, there's this guy i really like and well we talk sometimes but mostly he teases me and I'm pretty sure they're just jokes, he can be pretty sweet too. Recently, I found out we both have the same birthday, which is this summer, and we're both going to the same water slides, so we'll probably see eachother there. I also have his address and phone number. I'm too shy to tell him that I like him during the school year, but I think writing would work. If so, what should I write? I don't want it to be too corny. And should I write to him or will he be creeped out because he didnt give me his address? Is it a bad idea to call him and say happy birthday? Just so he knows I'm thinking of him?
yuo should definately ring him to say happy birthday! it will flatter his ego soooooooooo much to know that you were thinking about him. and i dint think that writingto him would be a bad i deas as such because everybody likes to get mail. it make you fell special! lol! well anyway just expolain that you wanted to tell him something so you thought you'd write to him and so then that explain why you have his address. dont think about ehat your hoing to write too much or you'll go round in circles and wont get anywhere. if you plan it too much it wont sound genuine and will sound corny. just write whatevers in your head. do it as though you were talking to him but dont say something too full on like i love you or anything but just explain how you feel.
hope i helped!
I'm switching schools next year so I won't be going back. I want to admit to my guy friend that I have feelings for him. I like him alot but I know he likes another girl & she knows that. If I tell him how I feel, do you think things will be weird this summer if he rejects, since I planned on hanging out with him as friends anyways?
well it may be weird at first but if you have a strong enough friendship then it wont come between you. ive just left my school recently and one of my guy friends told me he had feelings for me and had done for years. well it was a bit of a shock at first but i love him to bits as a friend and hes a great guy so i wouldnt let something like that get in the way of our friendship.
hope it turns out for you the way it did for me.
hope i helped!
Hey,
well my mom has been reading this book "the rules" and my friend told me the rules of dating and she told me about it and i was like "that cant be right!" so now i'm totally flipping out cause i sorta do the opposite, and no guy has asked me to the prom this year and everyone has to go with someone, and i dont want to be with someone that picks their nose.. you know? so i need some flirting, relationship, ect. advice. Even though i'm really good at giving advice to other people, i cant for myself which is sorta weird.. well please help. I'll rate high!
oh and also if anyone needs advice, i'm here. Thanx!
*Jill*
well you hve to focus yourself on someone you like. then you have to just take a chance with him. say hi when ever you see him and smile. make it look like your days suddleny got better since he was there. no over the top though because thats just scary. then back off a little so you dont see him for a little while. he will soon realise that he liked you company and that he misses you smiling at him. ive seen it done before and it works a charm. the guy finds himself looking for you and he doesnt really know why until he sees you.
hope i helped!
How do u break up with someone and I hope that u can help!
Thanx
i hope i can help 2! lol!
well its always tricky breaking up with someone i mean you dont want to hurt them but you dont want to get hurt yourself. you just have to be straight with them i guess. you need to sit down and have a face to face chat because its just not right by phone or txt or whatever! it just hurts! if you truthful with them and just explain how you feel, that you dont think the relationship is goin anywhere or that your hearts not in it anymore or whatever your feelings are, then they cant ask for more than that. just make sure your sensetive to their feeling because you dont want any repercushions from it!
so just go carefully and he honast with them and yourself of course!
good luck!
AHH where do i began? This guy named tony, i like, allot, used to like me, allot then another girl got in the way. they started going out although i stayed strong and still love him. well they broke up and he still kinda has feelings for her. the 1st time we hung out all we did was talk and thats is. is there any advice one what i can do to get tony's love for me back again?
i really need it more then anything right now
-Rachel
you cant make someone love you but you can try and help it along a little. just be there for him, as a friend, but make sure that thats not all he sees you as. then just do your usual flirting and let him know you still interested. but make sure itsnot too early for him b/c he my need a little time in getting over her and might think your being a little insensative and thats the only reason why your hanging out. but you have to let him know how you feel b/c if not its going to do your head in. you just might be wat each other needs!
hope i helped!
I met this guy on a Friday and got his number on Saturday. We talked nonstop on Sunday, Monday and Tuesday and he asked me out on Wednesday. Well, we went out for six days before I asked him if he thought we rushed into things and of course he said yes and I asked him if he would like to take a break so we could actually get to know each other and he said no, but I pushed it and now we are on a "break" and I feel really bad like I've hurt him. He hasn't talked to me at all. I feel really bad, but I know that I rushed into it. Did I do the right thing by taking the break? And do you think he's mad at me? I would put more details about him for the past two days, but he hasn't said anything to me so I can't.
14/f, um...the guy is 15/m
Thanks so much!
well obviously you werent comfortable with the speed things were goin it so yes i think you did the right thing. but try talking to him. explain that your still interested and were just worried about the fact that you rush and were scared it might effect the state of your relationship. if hes a reasonable person then im sure he will understand. good luck!
ok here's the thing,
ok i'm going out with this one girl & she is madly in love with me. see i love her too but.... i also love this other girl that i've went out with. but she broke up with me. so wat do i do?
SOMEONE HELP A POOR DUDE OUT PLZ!
-thanks
You cnt love two people! if you think you do then is not love! u just like them! you've just gotta go with your heart because at the end of the day that all anybody can do. nobody know the answer to what they should do. just trust your instinct. if you think that you are better off staying with oyu girlfriend then stay but if you think you like the other girl more then go for it. just try not to hurt anyone in the process. bu remember it didnt work out between you once before so just becareful!
hope this helps!