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very confused!
okay so there is this guy, yes very cliche and everyone asks these types of questions..but anyways. I dated this guy for about 7 months. A couple months ago we broke up and ive kind of been attracted to his best friend. Ive liked his best friend for a while, even while we were dating. The problem is he doesnt want to hurt his friends feelings by dating me he tells me im hot and flirts with me a lot and i just dont know what to do. Could someone help me pleasee. ILL RATE YOU HIGHH!
confused.
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If he wants to go out with you he is going to have to talk about it with the ex boyfriend. If the ex has no feelings for you left then I don't see how he would have a problem with you dating his friend. If he likes you well enough then that really shouldn't matter anyway. :)
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Let your ex's best friend know this:
"I know you're worried that __(ex's name here)__ will be mad at us, but you have to know, that you can't help what you feel, and he has to know that too. its unfair to us both.. and really unfair to _(ex's name)_ to keep all of this from him"
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well thebestthing you can do is talk to him and share your feelings with him. if he knows your serious he may change his mind and take the chance. in these situations someone is always going to get hurt but you cant help your feelings. you could even suggest gettin the three of you together and telling your ex how you feel. if it was me id be thankful that you had been straight with me and not gone behind my back. you never know he may be fine with you or if not its not like he can hold it against you that you went behind his back so he cant blame his mate for that. it always hard saying what to do in these situations but i think that this is a good option.
hope it all works out for you!
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Well i'll direct you the same way i do with all cliche questions.
Go back a couple pages and read the 5 other questions just like this one.
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Dear Confused,
If he likes you he likes you it's not your fault!If you want to date him you should. There best friends it's not like your dating his best friend while your still together. Go for him! But more advice don't tell the guy you like that you've liked him even when you were dating the other guy to, Cause that will travel fast and get you screwed and confused.
Sincerly,
Sydney
(I hope my advice helps)
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I think that you should tell the guy you broke up with that you are attracted to his best-friend. Since he doesn't like you, ask him to talk to his best friend and tell him that it's ok to see you. Thank your ex for talking to him. THen go talk to your ex's best friend and discuss the matter. It should end well, but if it doesn't, e-mail me or just think of a way to tell me.
Hope i helped!
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