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Q: Hi i'm 13 years old and my mom said that I can not use a tampon until I break my hymen or have sex but she said if i have sex she will kick me out of the house and my mom said that i could kill my self if i use a tampon how do you kill yourself with a tampon and do you have to break your hymen to use a tampon cause most of my friends use them.

Your mother is just extremely unreasonable and/or Religious.

Q: ok.. so i have a pretty good guy friend and like a few months ago.. we started to like each other and stuff you know.. all that. and then he like wanted to wait cuz he was still getting over his ex and stuff and so i waited on him for a while and i got tired of it so it didnt work out.. and i still like him.. i cant help it.. but his friends all tell me that they think he does and stuff but now hes going out with this girl thats a year younger than us and shes like really ditsy and stuff and he just barely met her and asked her out.. and it was never like that for us.. like he just liked her so easily so yeah i was pretty upset about it but i didnt wanna show it cuz he thinks i dont like him anymore but i just wish we could actually go out and stuff.. what should i do? should i tell him that i like him again or.. what? help! (( ill rate ))

Tell him. Like 'california' said, He most likely still likes you. If he liked you, and this girl happens to be a ditzy little girl (Who seems to be the opposite of you if you describe her that way), why would he ACTUALLY like her? He must have some taste along the lines of what you're like. So maybe he's just lonely because you "moved on", and he wanted someone new. I'd tell him fast.

Q: okay so there is this guy, yes very cliche and everyone asks these types of questions..but anyways. I dated this guy for about 7 months. A couple months ago we broke up and ive kind of been attracted to his best friend. Ive liked his best friend for a while, even while we were dating. The problem is he doesnt want to hurt his friends feelings by dating me he tells me im hot and flirts with me a lot and i just dont know what to do. Could someone help me pleasee. ILL RATE YOU HIGHH!

confused.

Let your ex's best friend know this:

"I know you're worried that __(ex's name here)__ will be mad at us, but you have to know, that you can't help what you feel, and he has to know that too. its unfair to us both.. and really unfair to _(ex's name)_ to keep all of this from him"

Q: What exactly does it mean when a guy gives a girl his jacket? Does it have any significance because you see it alot in movies & stuff. Is it "guy code" for anything?

Depends. Does he like you? Were you cold? Did you ask for it? Are you friends? Does he flirt with you? Are you more then friends?

Ask yourself that first.

Q: i'm having trouble getting my parents used to the fact that me and my boyfriend have a 3 years difference in age. he's 16 and i'm 13. my mom likes him but my dad gets a little to protective about it and they won't let me drive around anywhere with him. he's a really sweet guy and i trust him with my life but my parents don't see my side to this. what could i do to get them to trust me and him together in a car and get them used to the age difference?

Oh gosh, wow. I'm 14, and the boy I like is 17. (He likes me back).. We're secretly going to the movies together, actually, with some friends. My parent's don't know about him, yet.. but when I do tell them, just explain [if your boyfriend is within these same circumstances] it like this, "Look, he doesn't smoke, or drink. He's still a virgin, and we have a lot in common; Saying you don't like him, is just like saying that you don't like me. Its only 3 years, a typical circumstance for a Freshman and Junior when they're in school together."
Maybe then, you can have him throw in some stuff like, If your mom is a Jesus-Lover, he can quote the bible, and If she doesn't like Bush, he can talk about that. Just have them Agree :]

Q: Okay I sweat really bad under my arms.ALL the time. And I've tried every deoderant there is! Nothing helps.And it doesn't smell it's just sweat. Help?

I want to answer that correctly, badly. But here's what I got. I myself sweat under my arms, and whenever I put on deoderant, I just keep sweating and the smell of my deoderant becomes violent, and you can just all out smell my deoderant. I myself might as well be a stick. Maybe a gynocologist (yeah, didn't spell that right) could help you out.