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ok.. so i have a pretty good guy friend and like a few months ago.. we started to like each other and stuff you know.. all that. and then he like wanted to wait cuz he was still getting over his ex and stuff and so i waited on him for a while and i got tired of it so it didnt work out.. and i still like him.. i cant help it.. but his friends all tell me that they think he does and stuff but now hes going out with this girl thats a year younger than us and shes like really ditsy and stuff and he just barely met her and asked her out.. and it was never like that for us.. like he just liked her so easily so yeah i was pretty upset about it but i didnt wanna show it cuz he thinks i dont like him anymore but i just wish we could actually go out and stuff.. what should i do? should i tell him that i like him again or.. what? help! (( ill rate )) <33 thanks...
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Tell him. Like 'california' said, He most likely still likes you. If he liked you, and this girl happens to be a ditzy little girl (Who seems to be the opposite of you if you describe her that way), why would he ACTUALLY like her? He must have some taste along the lines of what you're like. So maybe he's just lonely because you "moved on", and he wanted someone new. I'd tell him fast.
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OK, he's proably using her to make you jelous..(i no it sounds weird) Have you done anything to him to make him jelous? If you have, then that's the problem. If you havn't done anything, then i think that you should talk to him about it. First, don't jump away and tell him you still like him..be like..
I was just wondering why you randomly asked out a girl that you barely know, and you told me that u need a while to get over your ex. Did i do anything to make u feel this way, or do you even still like me.
After he says his answer, then you tell him you like him. THen say for a negitive answer:
Oh, i'm sorry it didn't work out. (Then walk away)
For a positive answer:
I'm glad it worked out, and i hope that we can hang out more often.(like invite him to your house for h/w or to the movies or to wherever)
I hope i helped!
<3 Allison
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Sadly, he's probably using this girl as a replacement so he feels better about you moving on. Like us, guys have feelings that affect their lovelife. The only way to really fix things is to be honest with him. Tell him that you like him. I know it may be hard but as of right now, him not knowing you have feelings for him is just making him repel even more. Good luck hun! ♥ If you need anymore advice, feel free to drop one in my inbox.
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I think you should tell him how you feel. I don't think you should say I like you "again". I think you just need to say that you never really stopped liking him you were just tired of waiting for him to get over the ex. Be honest about it. :)
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Don't worry I know what your feeling. I just recently went through a similar situation. The best thing to do is to let him know what your feeling. He could just be going out with this girl to try to make you jealous or to try to get over you. Think about it.
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I'm all foR you telling him how you feel. I think if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. I bet that if YOU tell HIM how YOU feel fiRst, it's shoRe to cRack the ice. Then you'Re most likely to heaR his tRue feelings. But confRonting him is the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE what he's feeling; you can *ASSUME* and *WISH* he does allllll you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. :)
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You need to tell him how you feel and pray for the best that is all I can say. Hope I helped!
~*Brianna*~
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