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ok here's the thing,
ok i'm going out with this one girl & she is madly in love with me. see i love her too but.... i also love this other girl that i've went out with. but she broke up with me. so wat do i do?
SOMEONE HELP A POOR DUDE OUT PLZ!
-thanks
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You cnt love two people! if you think you do then is not love! u just like them! you've just gotta go with your heart because at the end of the day that all anybody can do. nobody know the answer to what they should do. just trust your instinct. if you think that you are better off staying with oyu girlfriend then stay but if you think you like the other girl more then go for it. just try not to hurt anyone in the process. bu remember it didnt work out between you once before so just becareful!
hope this helps!
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If you think you love 2 people at once then you don't love either enough. - Micaela Logan
I strongly believe in this quote. Don't throw around the word love like a hot potater. lol. It's a special word and only one girl deserves to hear it from you.
So don't say you are madly in love with your girlfriend if you say you still love your ex. Your ex broke up with you for a reason. I'm not sure what the reason is, but whatever it is, she probably isn't willing to go back with you again. Plus, even if she did she might break up with you again. Once things are done, they can be done again. So one piece of advice I would give to you would be to not go back with your ex. She has probably moved on and you should too.
I don't think you're the "poor dude". I think your girlfriend is the "poor dudette"! You need to decide who you really love and only choose one. Don't put it off either, because the longer you wait, the more hurt your girlfriend will be. If you decide your girlfriend is not the one for you, just sit down with her, and gently talk to her about it. It'll hurt her more the longer you wait so just do it. Even if you're not SURE if you love her, you need to break up with her. Because chances are, if you aren't sure you probably don't love her. And I'm sure the last thing you want to do is break your girlfriend's heart even more by leading her on.
If you really think you love your girlfriend and you decide you don't want to break up with her, you need to spend more time with her. Get to know her even better and get your ex COMPLETLY out of your head. That's the least you can do for her. And even then, if you decide you still don't LOVE your girlfriend, it's time to break up with her. Dating is about experiencing new things, trying things out, bonding with someone, and finding what you need and want. You don't have to be confined to one person forever, you are free to date people to find your soul mate.
And like I said, the minute you find out she's not the one you love, you need to break up with her and save her more heart ache.
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well really the only thing to do is think who you like more and well the gurl that you use to go out with loves you back thats always something to look into without destroying your other relationship and if it turns out that she dosent feel the same you always have somebody who loves you and well you love too and if your ex does feel the same you gotta decide who is more important and who you would be happiest with good luck
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Maybe you should Break up with her and get your head straight...You shouldnt do that to a girl...So just take it one day at a time and lay off the girls for a while till you can see clearly! hope I helped!
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If a girl breaks up with you, then she will probably do it again. I know this isn't what you want to hear. You're just going to have to talk to her.
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honey,
i have been in this situation before. take some time out from the thinking: or just go to the girl u like more. i stayed with my boyfriend until i absolutley knew who i lover more. if the girl u are going out now has the special sumthing but the other girl is hott... i would stay with the one your with now.
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"SOMEONE HELP A POOR DUDE OUT PLZ!"
--That was the cutest thing in the woRld!! =D
And peRsonally, I believe that if you "love" two, you don't love eitheR one enough.. peRiod; no possible way aRound that fact. Thinking that, I guess I just find it haRd to believe that you "love" youR cuRRent giRlfRiend as much as you make it seem. I think if you *did then you wouldn't WANT anyone else... because no one else in the woRld would be able to compaRe to heR and the "love" the two of you shaRe. Love is RecipRocal, my fRiend, it's not just one-sided. what's the point in even continuing a Relationship with someone if you aRe unable to give it youR all? Hopefully I've been of SOME help heRe!
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Lots of times ppl are in the same situation. I was. I was so obssed with my boyfriend Josh. he liked me alot too but his sis (my bf ) got in the way. Well after we broke up I spent the night at her house like a moth later. I found outr he still liked me and the girl he dated after me. Well what Im trieng to say is stick with the one you have. Unless you know the other girl stiil feels for you. then you see who you really care for. do somethibg fast befor all 3 of you have broken hearts. I really hope I helped you!!!!
always
Bianca
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