the guy i really like just got asked out by this girl. i'm not sure if he said yes or no or wheather or not hes going to say yes or no. but im just trying to be suportive to him no matter what but really its killing me inside and i hope to god he says no. i have no clue what to do im so confuesd.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? rikatree2375 answered Friday July 29 2005, 12:59 am: Well confused, start by finding out!!! You can't do much of anything if u simply don't know!!! Say he said yes. It's awesome you want to be supportive because that should show the guy what you're really like!!! And if they go out, it might not last for long. You could always try really talking to him about how you feel. I know just about everybody is gonna tell you that. But wishing about things doesn't make it reality. You have to do something about it to make it work!!! Don't give up if he said yes. And maybe he said no. If he did, then still talk to him. But if i were you, i wouldn't wait for too much longer. Maybe he's just waiting for you to say something. Guys can feel unsure a lot of the time. Sometimes they just need a "helping hand" or a push lol...Open up to the guy. He deserves to know what you're feeling!!!
IveGotPinkJazzShoes answered Thursday July 28 2005, 11:43 am: well the best thing you can do is come clean with him and tell him how you feel. you never know that might help him make up his mind about what he's going to do. you'll never know if you dont tell him and if he does say yes to this girl then you will regret not sayin something becuase you never know he might be waiting to see if he gets any better offers, you might just be the offer hes been waiting for?!?!
hope i helped!! [ IveGotPinkJazzShoes's advice column | Ask IveGotPinkJazzShoes A Question ]
LSRGrayson answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:35 am: Hey! I have to tell you, Ive been in your shoes, but reversed roles before. Me as the guy liking the girl, of course. But it seems to me that you have the greatest weapon of all, no, not Excalibur, but the element of surprise. Before you think "surprise attack," let me clarify by saying surprise as in this guy must have no clue you like him. I have been preaching this for who knows how long, but many teenaged males are STUPID when it comes to women. I am getting better, cause I am almost 19, plus I learned alot about chivialry, etc., stuff that is dying out of men of our generation. To go off on a Jeff Foxworthy tangent here, ladies, you are smarter than men. Why are you smarter? Because you think about stuff. You are smarter than the creature who tries to catch his underwear by flipping it off his foot, you are smarter than that! (Still feels good when you catch it on the first try!) If you are not wearing a big NEON sign that says "Hey, dummy! I like you!," teenaged males may not catch the message. If you are going to get a teenage male to get the point, you are going to have to sit him down and spell it out for him. Tell him you like him, and why. The worst case scenario happens everyday to millions of people around the world-you will like him, but he wont like you in the same way. Best case scenario, you two will go out, but if you are still teens, dont bet on a happily ever after. Few teenage relationships make it that far. But telling him is the best way to go. Just be honest, don't worry about the rest. Good luck, and don't be afraid to drop me an email if you need more help.
Best Wishes, Jordan-jordan.j.hunter@okstate.edu [ LSRGrayson's advice column | Ask LSRGrayson A Question ]
manoftroubles1989 answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:14 am: well i think you should let him know how you feel then let him decide who he wants to be with and whoever he picks he should be happy with and if he deosnt pick you that means obviously he likes her more so he's not worth spending your time on move on to someone else [ manoftroubles1989's advice column | Ask manoftroubles1989 A Question ]
x0o-bluuee-x3 answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:10 am: You know, if he says yes to the girl, then i think you should just move on, cuz he's got a girl but if he says no, then go for it and ask him out, so no other girl can take him
Ask him if he likes that chick. So it will make you less curious what the answer is going to be.
Vballcrazy9105 answered Thursday July 28 2005, 12:27 am: hey there,
Tell him how you feel! it is only right!!! i am sorry but to tell the truth !!!! if you dont tell him & he does feel the same way then. it is your fault & your lose.. Do you really wanna risk that!!! plz tell him
MartiniKisses23 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 11:49 pm: OMGOSH! that has happened to me to. I told the guy I like to go out with this one girl, and they did. I was soo sad, but I was supportive for him. I mean I was happy for him that he was with a girl he liked, but I kinda wished it was me, eventhough I knew we never could have "anything." But ANYWAY...I think that it is great that you are supporting him. Maybe if they go out, they wont date for a long time, god only knows that they might only date for like 2 weeks? Not to sound bitchy, but I dont think that you should get your hopes up too high because something else might happen. I just think that you should keep on supporting whatever makes him happy. The right guy will come around, everyone just has to wait for him. I hope I helped ♥Andie [ MartiniKisses23's advice column | Ask MartiniKisses23 A Question ]
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