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My name is Amber, im 13 yrs old, soon to be 14 in September. Im the captain of the cheerleading squad and basketball team. I enjoy writing,helping people out, playing sports, singing dancing, and hanging out with friends. Im very popular you can say. I love my Mother alot, my dad is iffy on that one! haha. I love to shop! I`m deffently boy crazy and money crazy...I usually get called the gangsta cheerleader...I grew up from the Ghetto sooo haha..Well If you want to kno anything else IM me on AIM..APrncss922

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for shaving below whats a good suggestion of shaving cream to avoid burns and red bumps?

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My boyfried & I were good friends before we developed feelings for eachother. Our relationship started slow, like he'd just put his arm around me in movies & we'd talk. Then things are getting closer & by only the third or fourth date, we make out most of the movie. I love showinnng my affection for him & he's a really sweet guy I just don't want things to get touchy-feely & nothing else. How can I make sure we don't base our relationship on lust?

Be open with him all the time, constantly tell him how you feel.Be affectionette,but dont do it to extend where all he wants is affection.


Hope I HelpeD!

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Okay, I know I'm an advice columnist, but I really need help. My best friend Rachael, dated my other best friend Evan. And that was fine. Evan broke up with her numerous times. Then they always got back together. Rachael got sick of it and broke it off for good. Then while Rachael was at camp me and Evan started going out. I only did it because I knew Rachael didn't like him still. Rachael is the um.. JEALOUS type. VERY jealous type. But still, she didn't care we were going out. She was TOTALLY okay with it. Then last night she told Evan she still liked him, and was thinking about him. With Rachael, it's REALLY obvious when she lies, so when she said she didn't like Evan, I KNEW she was telling the truth. I think she's lying about still liking Evan. But I don't know. I think she did it cuz Evan liked her still.. until he started going out with me, and Rachael thinks he still likes her. And Evan is moving 45 minutes away from here. My question is.. should I stay with him? Or not? I REALLY like him.. And his brother would drive him here every week to see us. But his mom might not let him. What should I doooo? Sorry this is so long.

you should still stay with him. If you really love him then you will stay with him. And you guys will still see each other...

hope i helped

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ok so i really really really like this guy. and he knows that i like him but he doesnt seem to care. hes always tellin me how much he likes other people and he has no idea how i feel but thinks that i dont kno how he feels.should i give up and move on or not let go and see what happens
please help me!!!!

The same thing has happened to me. He knows you like him and all...And after it does get old doesnt it? You try soo hard and then they ignore you like you are a brick wall. Hunnyie you should just move on. IT's not worth wasting your time on. If he cant see you of how you feel he doesnt like you like that...


hope i helped!

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I want to get this girls attention, but i dont want it to seem like i am really trying to flirt, whats the best way for her to notice me and see me for a good thing, i really like this girl and i want to know how i should get her attention. So how do i get her attention in a good way?

Don`t try to get her attention...Girls like it when guys go up to them and act nice and tell them that they like their hair or their outfit or something or just...try to stand out more...but not in a bad way

hope i helped!

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Well my boyfriend that I am in very much love with has left for a year and half. Though he's coming home I've been really sad and crying ever nite and not getting alot of sleep, because I miss him so much. Does anyone have any advice on how to pass the time or ease the pain of him not being here right now? I rate good!

Well, maybe you should go out and do things by your self or maybe with neighbors or friends! Don't think about him think about other things that you like


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okay so theres this boy we'll call him john... well me and john went out before and we got along well... me and him have a big history of us being together and being in love with eachother many times... well latley hes been talking to me about our past relationships and hes all sayin like "i miss you and i still think about us all the time" and he was sounding kind of sweet but i didnt wanna fall for him again so i didnt pay much attention to what he was saying.. well now i find out that he has a girlfriend... and shes liek one of my mayjor enemies... a girl that i really dont get along with and he knows that.. is he tryin to make me jelous? or does he really mean what he says?

Well, he really prolly meant what he said. And now hes trying to make your jealous because you ignored him. ANd hes prolly really hurt. Maybe you should talk to him about it if your feeling bad about it and see what really is up


hope i helped!

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ok theres this guy in myschool .. we both always had a thing for each other the whole year .. well the last day of school was the other day nd on the last day he kissed me on the forhead nd told me he loved me nd he was gunna miss me sfm ( were going to diff schools next year ) nd he constantly tells me he loves me nd that im his world .. and yeah i like him but hes a dick to some of my friends should i still like him?

You should still like him, yes. But tell him that if he doesnt straight up and be nice to your friends that there is no game there its just pain if you kno wat i mean!

hope i helped!

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I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help!

NO! Thats sooo your friends opinion! its ur desicion of liking him or not. Dont let your friend controll you, its a free country and you cant help who you like.

hope i helped

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This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions.

Well my friend suggested Sleepless in Seattle....

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I was dating this guy for a couple of months, and everything was perfect. He was the first guy I could actually say I loved and cared about, and he loved me too. I was a freshman and he was a senior when we started dating. What's the problem you're wondering ... well he turned 18 and graduated at the end of May. His father is the real problem though. His father got a new job in another state, and moved a couple days after his 18th birthday and graduation.[he got to stay in his father's old house] This guy I was dating also stopped calling me [we talked every night!] the day his dad moved. His dad told him several times when we dating that he should be careful and it eventually got to where he told him to stop dating me because he thought we were having sex and doing things. We were never even close to having sex! Well its been almost a 1 1/2 months since we've talked. He never called to tell me he was breaking up with me, but I did find out that he told someone that his dad made him break up with me. I tryed contacting him several times for several weeks, but he never answered his phone or called me back. I need advice on what to do. Should I try to forget him and move on or what? It's driving me crazy not knowing anything. What do I do?

Thanks 15-Female

If he truely loved you then he would of never stopped talking to you reguardless of what his daddy said!!

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hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox

this has happened to me...i stayed with him a while longer but then i couldnt take it because my friends would always go out wiht their boyfriends and i was soo jealous..soo i had to break up with him...even tho i had strong feelings for him...soo now we are just really good friends! soo...

hope i helped!


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ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2?

wait! hold on!! boys are NOT supposed to hit girls! you call the cops and trust me they will get his ass in lock up...you hold you head up hunny..you have to tell an adult about this..this is sum serious shit..because i would kno this... my dad is a cop...but neways i hope i helped!!

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My X-botfriend dumped me about a few months after he asked me out. I had liked him for a whole two years, and was really excited when he did. After he dumped me I was devistated, and we decided to stay friends. I saw him at a get together with all of our friends and some of the new ones. I don't know if it is just him, but he acted like we were still together. He huged me alot, and lied on my stumache, tickled me, and chased me. My friends acted afended, and kind of stand-offish when we acted like that. My friend says that he told her that he doesn't like me anymore, but to me, he acted like he still does. So here is my quwstion: How do I find out if he still likes me or not, so that I can move on in life?
P.S.
(I already tried asking, and my friends tried asking also!)
Can you help me?

Well maybe you should ask him...and tell him to be serious about the situation...tell him that you want a straight up answer with a straight face and no hesitations...and see wat happens if he says no then you move on, if his reply is yes then you mines as well give it another shot....and if its a "i dont know" then you move on because you dont have time in life for that kind of stuff... you need a possitive answer on these kinds of things!!

hope i helped

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ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
THANKS SO MUCH!!!!

well...go out and look for one...flirt a lil bit...and then again be serious about it, make sure they dont have girlfriends though, because that would be really bad, but just give it up and put some make up on,and some nice clothes...then go out and have fun with yourself, just dont do anything you would regret!

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hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do?

well...you just gotta talk to him, alone. tell him how you feel, he mite freak out but thats normal...you dont have many ppl liking your fmaily members hhaha well just try tht and see how it goes


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I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks

Well let me tell you...im 13, and i was just dating a 17 year old, and he got sent to jail, the 18 yr old is way too old for you, unless you dont want him to be sent to jail then dont fancy him and fancy the other one...but if he doesnt like you maybe you need to find sumone else


hope i helped!!

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I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first?

Well, Things might me weird for you at first. But, just go out with him and have fun, See you have to act the same as you guys did before. It's just now that you go out with him. And you say I love you and that kinda things. And you actually might kiss!

Have fun!

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