Hey! Our names are Alex and Adriana. We are both 18 years old and live in Texas. We are best friends and are currently living together. Each one of us has been through a lot and have overcome many obstacles in our lives. We hope we can help you get through any problem(s) you might have or give you some suggestions on how to solve your problem(s). Just remember the best thing you can do in any situation is follow your heart
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Ok so, my crush asked me out last night so of course I said yes. I'm new to the whole dating experience, im only 14. I like him a lot, but whenever the thought of going to the movies or something comes up, I automatically make up an excuse to not go. I don't know why. I'm very co-dependant and I would be too scared to go anywhere unless it was a double date or something. He says hes okay with that but I dont know whats wrong with me. I think my main fear is making out. Yea yea laugh, but I guess im just scared to do it. I dont know whats wrong with me and why im so scared to go anywhere with him. I'll rate you high. Thx a bunch (link)
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Hey babe! Do not sweat it. We had a friend that was scared to make out with a boy until she was almost a Sophomore in Highschool. It is completely normal. The best way to get over it is to face your fears. Be the one to suggest to him that yall see a movie. That way you are less likely to back out since you were the first to suggest it. If you are very uncomfortable about the whole making out thing then let him know ahead of time. Or just deal with it as it comes. We would also suggest that if you really think the reason you will not go out with him on a date is because you are afraid of making out then pick a public spot to go to. That way the situation will not occur. Go to the mall or skating or anything that is out in public. Do not feel rushed or scared! When the time comes, you will do just fine. Who knows, you might even be better than him! Goodluck with this boy. Remember if you are not ready yet, do not feel like you have to do it just because your friends have or he wants you too. There are plenty of other girls that have not made out yet and there are plenty of other guys that will respect what you want. Goodluck and have fun being young! We definitely miss those days =/
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hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME! by the way you both r really pretty! (link)
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Hey love- We are SO sorry it took us so long to get your question! We could not get the website to work. I hope it is not too late to answer your question. This guy sounds like bad news to us especially if this Melissa girl is in the picture. The first thought that crossed both our minds when you mentioned how he freaked out when you wrote him something sweet in his Xanga was that he did not want OTHER girls to know he was talking to you. Not his friends, but other girls and probably the Melissa girl. If he wanted to be with you, he could. The fact that he is not and continues to put the relationship off proves that he might just be leading you on. If he is, then he is a jerk. We do not care what others say about how guys are more simple than girls, and are not complex...bla bla bla...that is not true. Guys are complex and they play games. He might just be trying to use you and who knows, he could be doing the exact same thing to Melissa. Maybe, you could try to talk to her behind his back and figure out what is going on between them. Did they do fireworks together on the 4th of July? It is already July 6, and since we are late on responding more things could have happened between yall. We would suggest trying your absolute very best to move on. Believe me I know it is hard. However, definitely do what your heart feels is the right thing to do. I had to fight for 5 months to date this guy that I wanted to date SO bad. At the time, he was probably using me, but there was underlying feelings he had for me. He would never let me get over him because he would keep coming back into my life like that boy is doing to you by saying "I miss you" "I want a relationship later"....bla bla bla...you know how it goes. He finally dated me, and we have been together for 2 years. Some things are worth fighting for. Even if there is another girl. Only fight for it though if you feel it is right. If he is talking to other girls and you find that out, then definitely do not let him hurt you like that. The longer you continue letting him lead you on, the more it will hurt. Adriana also knows what I am talking about. She was talking to a guy and got too involved too quick and is still stuck on him but slowly getting over it. We both think you should probably first do some investigating (find out if you are the only one he is talking to). Sit and think about if it is even worth the emotional struggle. Talk to him face to face. Stand up for yourself and how you feel. He should not be allowed to get his way all the time. Do not forget though, there is always hope. Write us back if you have any more questions or to update us on the situation. Goodluck with whatever you decide to do about this guy. Sorry again, that it took us so long to get your question.
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Okay I met an older guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out with friends. We exchanged numbers and he tried calling once... but now that I am changing phones and don't currently have one we don't talk as often. There are a few things he hasn't been telling me.. like court dates and why he still has his old number from a different state..and wants me to bring new friends. Should I plan to meet him or forget about him? (link)
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Both Adriana and I agree that you should forget about this guy. You can find someone better that is honest and will not leave out important information about themselves or try to hide things from you. I do not know what "wants me to bring new friends" means, but I am assuming he wants you to bring other girls around. That is never a good thing. That is like him saying "Hey, hook me up with one of your friends." Rude. I would definitely say forget and move on. From what you said, this guy sounds like bad news. It also seems like you kind of already think that from what you wrote. Follow your instincts. Do not worry, there is way better out there for you! Good-luck. Also, be careful with older guys because they think they can control younger girls.
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How can I show my boyfriend that I REALLY love him, but not by making out? (link)
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You can make him a scrap book with pictures or with things that remind you of him.
You can make him a journal and write down the things yall do together, funny conversations, special events...
You can cook him a dinner
You can pay for the dinner/lunch/or breakfast
You can write him a sweet letter
You can write him a poem
You can tell him
You can give him a massage
You can scratch his head (I love it when my boyfriend scratches my head)
You can call him every night to say goodnight
You can sing him a love song
You can leave him a rose with his favorite candy
Remember the small things are the ones that say "I love you" the most =) Goodluck with your sweetheart
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How do you know if a guy likes you?
Also, what are some cute/ flirty ways to ask a guy out?
help! thanks! i will rate high! (link)
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If a guy likes you he will:
-stare at you when you are not looking, and then when you look, turn away
-include you in conversations
-be playful with you
-turn red if he is embarrassed around you
-talk to his friends about you
-ask your friends about you
-call you
-instant message you as soon as you get online
-ask what movies you've seen lately and if you want to see one
-tries to help you when you are in need of help
Cute Ways to Ask a Guy Out:
-in a sweet letter, left somewhere you know he (and only he) will find it..or just give it to him
Hmm...that is all I can think of right now. If i think of anything else I'll let you know. =) Goodluck
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I really like this guy. I've never had a serious crush on anyone, but with this guy I do. We talk and flirt sometimes, but I think my friend is trying to hook up with him. She even knows I like him. I want to flirt with him on instant messenger, because we barely talk so there is awkward silences. I also want to flirt with him more in person. I don't know who he likes, but I really don't want him to like my friend. What should I do? (link)
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If you do not want him to like your friend then you should take every opportunity you have to flirt online and you might even suggest to him hanging out sometime. When you hang out with him in person, you can avoid awkward silences by talking about anything and everything. Ask him open-ended questions to start conversation and make sure you smile, laugh at his jokes, and look him in the eye while either of you is talking. Let him know you are a fun person to be around and then he will want to hang out with you more. Your friend will not stand a chance! If you are really good friends with this person, you might want to tell her that you like him. She will back off if she is a good friend since you admitted to liking him first. Do not admit to him that you like him until you feel comfortable enough. Good luck!
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iv been going bak and forth between these 2 guys((dating them)) and i luv them both equally and im jst as happy w/ 1 as i am w/ the other..and going bak nd forth like this...its hurting us all..i jst cant do that anymore..im w/ 1 of them now..but i still rele like the other..i dont kno wat 2 do w/ out hurting them..nd myself..wat should i do? (link)
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We know you have three other answers other than this one, but we are going to go ahead and give you some other ideas just incase someone else has not suggested them. We have a friend that was torn badly between two guys and she sat down and made good & bad list. Divide a piece of paper in half and write "Good" in one column and "Bad" in the other column and list all the good and bad things you can think of for one of the guys you like. Then, get another sheet of paper and do the same thing for the other guy. Our friend did this and then she sat by herself for awhile to think about it even more. Finally, she was able to make a decision. Of course someone is going to get hurt, but it is your life and you deserve to be with whoever makes you the happiest. Even if they both make you happy, there has to be one that is just a little bit better than the other one. When our friend decided on which guy she wanted to be with, she stopped talking to the other one. I know that sounds awful, but it is very neccessary because if you continue talking to the one you do not choose then you might end up getting confused, staying confused, cheating, or anything along those lines. If you totally cut off connection with the one you do not choose then you will not be tempted to start liking him again. Also, get your friends input on which guy they think you should be with. No one knows you better than your friends. We hoped we helped. =) goodluck
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I was recently torn between two guys and now i finally realized that i love my ex. Now that im back with him, we never talk and we never see each other. I love him to DEATH but i dont know what to do...Anyone know what to do?! (link)
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We know you have five other answers other than this one, but we are going to go ahead and give you some other ideas just incase someone else has not suggested them. We have a friend that was torn badly between two guys and she sat down and made good & bad list. Divide a piece of paper in half and write "Good" in one column and "Bad" in the other column and list all the good and bad things you can think of for one of the guys you like. Then, get another sheet of paper and do the same thing for the other guy. Our friend did this and she decided to stay in her room and think really hard about it until she came to a decision. Maybe you will come to find out that you should not be with your ex and you can go for the other guy OR you can just completely find someone new. If you do not even talk to him or see him then we are sure you will be happier without a relationship. Just because you are not his "girlfriend" does not mean you cannot still love and care for him and be his friend. There is most likely someone better for you out there that will fit your schedule and that you would be able to talk to and see more. However, if you really love your current boyfriend and do not want to leave him then definitely talk to him about how you feel if you have not already. Then try your best to hang out with him and call him whenever you can so that you can do your part to make the relationship work. Remember though...it takes two to make a relationship work so if he is not trying his best to keep yall together then its time to move on to someone cuter and better! =) goodluck
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OMG!! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now...Well She and him were together for 19months and she lived with him for 7 months.But ya anyways that shouldnt matter. She called him for the beginning 4 months. Then out of the blue she stopped well today she called him and said she had servical cancer...She wants him to feel bad..He just regular talked to her it pissed me off. She wants him to feel bad for her i guess. It makes me soo mad that she calls..I HATE HER!!! She shouldnt call. What should I do?? (link)
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You should probably talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him how you feel. Maybe say that you think she is a liar (If you do actually think that). If he does not respect the way you feel, then you should probably start looking around for a better guy (and believe me there are some out there!) If you find out that she does NOT have servical cancer then maybe answer the phone when she calls him and say "i really do not appreciate you calling my boyfriend. thanks." and hang out or continue talking and telling her how you feel. Whatever you choose to do first try to find out for sure if she has cancer because if she does then she might just need someone to talk to and your boyfriend is the only person she has. Goodluck with whatever happens!
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Hi. Alright so there is this guy and i like him so much and he liked me until... well... i gave my really good friend his screen name and she flirted with him and acted all fake when she talked to him and now he likes her. They havn't even met! I am so mad but i dont wanna talk to her about it because she'll be like "what r u talking about?", and act like im crazy. She doesn't even know I like him. I don't wanna ruin our friendship but at the same time im so mad... and confused... im afraid if i tell her then she'll tell him and he'll think im an idiot. Alright this probably sounds like another silly teen love problem... but it really hurts. And I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about it. Please help.
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First of all, if your really good friend did not know that you liked him then you should probably tell her now before the situation gets worse. After you tell her you like him, make SURE she knows NOT to tell him. If she tells him, like you said she might do... "if i tell her then she'll tell him and he'll think im an idiot"...then this girl is not a good friend to you and you need to stop that friendship immediately. You really do not want a friend that will try to snatch guys away from you at the drop of a dime. What kind of friend is that anyways? As for this guy, remember there are so many more out there! If you really like him just keep talking to him and if he ends up not liking you back in the same way then at least you could have him as a friend and that would be better than nothing. Goodluck
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ok i never realised i liked this boy so much until i talked to him on the phone about a month ago.I hinted to him that i liked him but then tryed to avoid it i said that i did not go to the reunion which he was at because i liked someone there. He went through names and i went quiet on his name.He asked me if it was him and i changed the subject now i am thinking it was the wrong thing 2 do.He asked me 2 call him back but i told him i always call him and can he call me he agreed but never called! He asked me 2 be with him! i was so excited and agreed but then i have heard nothing did he change his mind??? One of my best friends said its because i went out with someone in our secondary school and it was not him and my friend thinks it is because i went out with someone else the thing is i never did anything with that boy i went out with.In fact i wanted to make the boy i like now jealous but i think it never worked.My question is what shall i do now?I can't phone him again because it will look like i really like him if i keep calling him.Thanx xxx (link)
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If you are unwilling to call this boy then you could either find someone else to be your new interest or wait it out. You should gather up the courage and confidence to call him and maybe offer to hang out. Be casual and wait until later (like after yall have hung out and established some kind of friendship) to hint to him that you like him. If he rejects the idea of being more than friends then you should definitely move on. There are plenty of guys out there so do not waste too much time on this one. Just be confident and casual the next time you talk to him. If you decide not to call him, then definitely start looking around for other cuties. I am sure you will find someone else that is worth your time! goodluck
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I am going out with someone that is a year younger than me and no one has really said anything to me about it yet but i have a feeling they will...i cannot stand when people continuously say crap to me about it...is it really wrong that hes a year younger? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with going out with someone only a year younger than you. The only problem you might face is the maturity difference between the two of you. You might begin to realize is a little bit too immature for you but of course that is not their fault. However, this person might be mature for their age and you will have no problem. If you really like this person then do not worry about the age and what people may think. The important thing is that you enjoy their company and have a good time. If it makes you feel any better we knew a girl who was a senior in high school that dated a sophomore boy and they got a long fine for a while. Other girls started doing that after she did. We prefer older boys just because of the whole maturity thing. If you feel your guy is on your level then do not worry about his age and have a good time. Sorry this is so long! Goodluck
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ok so i know you guys get this a lot..but i really need specific details on how to tell if a guy likes you..any help would be appriciated(sp?)
thnx in advance!:) (link)
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Here are some ways to tell if he likes you:
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then he will quickly look the other way.
He may do something physical - like grab you in a playful way, poke you, play with your hair...
He may ask a friend of yours about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
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okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?
ill give every one 5's who trys to help!
**help** (link)
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You should see this guy first before you make any decisions on whether or not you should ask him if he likes you. If you met him online (which I am assuming so I might be wrong) then be VERY careful when you choose a meeting place. If however you are sure he is not a creepy old man off the internet, then suggest hanging out at the mall or a public place. I definitely do not suggest seeing a movie together because you will not have the chance to talk and get to know each others personality in person. You should ask him very casually if he would like to hang out. When you ask him, do not act nervous or unsure. Act as if it is very normal and not a big deal so it will not be uncomfortable. When you hang out with him it should be easier to tell if you likes you as a friend or as more than a friend. Might we also suggest going on a double date or something along those lines. Tell him to bring a friend and so will you and yall can all hang out together. If yall talk on the phone a lot then you probably already know he is not some creep, but still be careful! Guys can be very tricky! Just try out your luck and remember when you ask him to hang out be very casual and if for some reason he rejects it be ready for it and say something like "Aw that's too bad" then change the subject and start considering finding another potential boyfriend. Goodluck!!
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okay, ive been going out with my bf for a little over a week and i really like him and stuff. The problem is, i still am in love with my ex. But the thing is, my ex is beginning his first year of high school in the fall and i will be beginning 8th grade. He also lives really far away and his high school is pretty far away too. My current bf is really nice and everything but i still am in love with my ex. When my ex found out about the bf i have now, he got really jealous. I would dump my bf for him in a second, but i dont know if that would be the smart thing to do. What should i do? Please help me! (link)
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You could break up with your current boyfriend and just have fun dating and being single! It is not bad we promise =) You get to flirt with multiple boys, have girl nights, and learn how to be independent. However if you are asking which guy to choose, then the best choice would most likely be your current boyfriend. Just try your very best to forget the exboyfriend and maybe cut off any kind of connection you might have with him...no more long talks on the phone, chatting on the internet, or hanging out. Then you will get over him (hopefully) and you can start over by trying to be friends. Long distance relationships are very hard to manage and if he chooses to cheat on you, you might never find out because he does not live around people you know that would be good enough friends with you to tell you. That is just something to think about. Definitely do whatever you feel is best though and what your heart tells you. Also there are other guys out there...sweethearts and jerks...so be very thankful that your current boyfriend is a sweetie =). good-luck with whoever you choose!
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how do u know if ur in love? is there a differece between being in love and loving someone? i need to know b/c i think that i love this one guy but im not so sure anymore... could anyone give me some advice on love and dating? thanx... ill rate high!!!! (link)
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There is a difference on loving someone and being IN love with someone. Think about it this way...you love your friends and family and you would be IN love with your future husband. When you are IN love with someone you want to spend all of your time with them and you are sexually attracted to them. There is also a thing known as "puppy love". That is when you THINK you are IN love with someone but really you come to find out that you just loved them because you cared for them a whole lot. You might love that one guy because you care for him a whole lot, like you care for your friends and family. You will one day be IN love with someone and that person will make you SO happy that it will be impossible for you to not know that you are IN love with him. This is hard to explain but we hope we have helped at least a little bit.
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ok there is this guy I like and I need to know what all of yall think....I really like him and I think he likes me to...We are on 2 totally different popularity levels for example I am known as the coaches little sister and he is the hot gorgous football, basketball,and baseball playrer, ......What would ppl think?........(O know I shouldn't care but i want to know).....Tell me the truth what would you think?......He is older than me but it's all good cause i go for the older guys anyway.....He drives and ofcourse I don't .......I'm a little chubby and he is really skinny and has a great stomache....oh and i can't forget the muscles....What should I do? (link)
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Sounds like this guy is very cute! We do not think other people would care if you two liked each other. If yall are really different they might think it is a strange combination at first, but eventually they would get use to the idea. We know many couples that are dating right now that no one would have ever expected to get together in the first place, and they are all really happy with each other. We think you should go for it if you really want to have a relationship with him, and the people that might think it is odd for you two to hook up will get over it over time. Good-luck with your cutie!
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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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We know you really do not want to talk to this boy BUT it would be the best thing to do. No matter what he does you will always just be ASSUMING he likes you. You could talk to him casually and just smile and be natural. Then it will make him feel comfortable around you because it seems to us from what you said he is shy. You have to break that shy barrier or it will not work out. You cannot both be shy!! Start conversation with him (I know it is easier said than done)...maybe be talk about how yall have gone to the same schools or talk about some mutual friends you might have. You just have to be confident! Guys definitely send mixed signals though, trust me I know. If he pays that much attention to you though, then I would not be surprised if he did like you and is just scared of rejection. Next time you catch him looking at you, do your best not to look away. Just smile at him. Make sure he knows you are easy to approach and talk to by being friendly. Usually you can tell if a boy likes you by what his friends say, how he acts shy, when he looks at you, if he offers his help, if he tries to make conversation with you, passes notes with you, smiles at you, needs "help" with classwork. Do not be surprised if he sends mixed signals. He could just be shy. Remember just be friendly and smile and work your way towards talking to him and you'll figure it out soon enough.
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ohk so i really really like this guy alot! he likes me too but he wont go out with me cause he doesnt like my friend cause she is annoying and he cant stand her, i dont blame her cause she has a really bad reputation but that still got me a little pissed cause if he goes out with me its gonna be me not my friend. anyways he had called me to go on a date earlier in the year (spring break) but i wasnnt home that whole week ... he was gonna ask me out then. School is now out and i live near his house and i always play tennis there ... the thing is that i cant stop thinking about him ... i get a wierd feeling everytime i think about him (all the time) i feel ugghhhh like i wanna scream find him just kiss him ! im too chicken to talk to him so how can i keep him off my mind for just a second ! thank you (link)
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You must really really like this guy but remember a girl should never let a guy affect her THAT much. No guy is worth your tears! We have some ideas about how you can keep your mind off of him. First, friends can REALLY be a life-saver. Just hanging out, watching movies, painting your nails, doing facials, reading magazines, gossiping, swimming, ANYTHING you enjoy doing with your friends. Second, keep yourself busy..read, do chores, talk to other guy friends, sleep, shop, any sport you might play like tennis or instrument, work out...anything. If he is still on your mind maybe you should try to become friends with him. Casually talk to him, tell him to call you sometime to hang out. Just be confident and definitely no more crying! Apparently he has some interest in you since he was going to ask you out..maybe he chickened out. Have fun though and do not waste your time crying over a boy! There are so many more out there!! Good luck beautiful!
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heey love (link)
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This is a very big decision that you have to make. I understand that it is confusing and scary because so much can happen from it. Let me tell you something important first. Having sex will make you VERY emotionally attached to him. Most girls that hear this that have NOT had sex yet do not believe it. Both of us have experienced this emotional attachment from having sex with a guy for the first time. It is very hard because you get sooo attached and even start being really jealous, even though you are not normally a jealous person. Another thing to consider is you are pretty young to be having sex. I am not saying you are not mature, but you still might want to give it more time. Maybe wait and see if he keeps his word and visits you whenever he can. Or he calls you everyday...or he writes you or emails or gets online to talk to you. What if you give it up to him and then he slowly stops talking to you because he has a new life? Think how much that will hurt. I know you love this guy, but maybe you should test him. It is not like you will not ever see him again and this is your last chance to give it up to him. Just wait and see if he stays in touch with you and he waits to give it up to you (assuming he has not given it up yet). You have your whole life and if you really love this guy and he really loves you then you do not have anything to worry about because it will happen in the future. A long distance relationship is very hard I must warn you. I have been through that...my freshman year of highschool infact...and it did not last even though we thought we loved each other and he only lived 45 minutes away. Prepare for a difficult time. Remember you always have your friends and maybe you should date other people while he is gone just to make sure he is the one for you! Sorry this is so long =) Our advice to you is test him. See if he stays in touch with you even though you are not going to have sex with him immediately. If he puts in a good effort and you are perfectly sure it is what you want to do..then go for it and make sure it is very special..not rushed..and safe (as in condoms and all that stuff). good luck girlie!
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