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Don't know what to do
Hi. Alright so there is this guy and i like him so much and he liked me until... well... i gave my really good friend his screen name and she flirted with him and acted all fake when she talked to him and now he likes her. They havn't even met! I am so mad but i dont wanna talk to her about it because she'll be like "what r u talking about?", and act like im crazy. She doesn't even know I like him. I don't wanna ruin our friendship but at the same time im so mad... and confused... im afraid if i tell her then she'll tell him and he'll think im an idiot. Alright this probably sounds like another silly teen love problem... but it really hurts. And I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about it. Please help.
Thanks
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First of all, if your really good friend did not know that you liked him then you should probably tell her now before the situation gets worse. After you tell her you like him, make SURE she knows NOT to tell him. If she tells him, like you said she might do... "if i tell her then she'll tell him and he'll think im an idiot"...then this girl is not a good friend to you and you need to stop that friendship immediately. You really do not want a friend that will try to snatch guys away from you at the drop of a dime. What kind of friend is that anyways? As for this guy, remember there are so many more out there! If you really like him just keep talking to him and if he ends up not liking you back in the same way then at least you could have him as a friend and that would be better than nothing. Goodluck
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tell her you like him!
if you don't she'll never know so she won't stop.
tell him you still like him too =D
you might be surprised with his answer back to you!
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Tell her you like him - he's fair game to her until you do - and that you don't want her to tell him.
If she tells him, /and/ he thinks you're an idiot, then he's not worth your time, and you should deal with her telling him with her. If she tells him and that prompts him to put some moves on you, then you're better than when you started.
If she doesn't tell him at all and acts like a jerk to you, then she's not worth your time. If she doesn't tell him and is cool with it and backs off, you're better than where you are now.
But I think you should be the one to tell him.
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Well first of all, she doesn't even know you like him! That's the big problem there. Maybe if she had known you liked him before you gave her his screen name, she probably wouldn't have tried to flirt with him. So the solution would be to tell her you've liked the guy before you gave her his screen name, and it's really been hurting you that after you gave her his screen name she's been flirting with him.
If she doesn't even seem to care, then you don't need her. Because good friends CARE about your feelings. You can't fix a problem if you don't realize what the problem is. If she can't realize the problem, it can't be fixed.
But either way, don't worry about that guy. It's just a crush. I know, crushes at the time feel like something big, but afterwards you'll realize how stupid you were for getting hurt over nothing :P Plenty of fish in the sea! But who would want to date a fish..? Oh you know what I meant :P
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