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But I love meeting new people, so feel free to email me anytime if you want personal advice or anything at all=)
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Me and my bf have been going out for a while now and his ex is trying to talk to him and acting like my friend then I have people telling she talks mess about me and wants to fight me.Well I'm not such an abusive person but I don't really know how to handle this.She keeps on trying to wear some really skanky clothes to impress him.He told me the way he feels about me already but I don't really know how to get this girl off his back. Please help!

She is something else!
You could try to tell him to tell her that he's not interested in her anymore. It seems the only way she'll leave you both alone is if she hears it from him. Tell him to ignore her and she might go away after a while.

But she still might spread rumors about you two because she's jealous, so be prepared.
Hope this helps!
*Diamyn*

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HeY! i'm 16... (17 in 2 months) and i just started going out with a guy whos 20 years old... the thing is.. he thinks i'm turning 18... and i'm scared to tell him... because i dont want to loose him! what should i do?

well, i won't lecture you about the age or anything.
but tell this guy the truth before he finds out another way. make sure you include your sorrys and all that=P
if he's a keeper, then he'll let this one slide.
i've been in that situation, and even though i was scared, i told him, and he was okay with it.

Don't worry! Hope I helped.
*Diamyn*

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Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..

Chris or Steven??

well!
you are very confused, huh? =P
Since things haven't been working out with steven, and you both have tried about 6 times, I think it's time to find someone with much less drama.

There are countless reasons why I think you should go out with Chris. Your friends are trying to help, but their opinions can't substitue for your heart and brain=P

I vote for the "new guy"!
Hope I helped some:D
*Diamyn*

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sheesh I knew they really werent fighting because it didnt make sense then today it made it sound like they actually where...and I wasn't even trying to think it...and then she said it was a joke between the 2 of them..and that I was punk'D and so was our other friend n that they really werent fighting...I didn't get it at all, I was playing along..now I want to choke her for it all lol..I told her if she wanted to do that she would need to think of something better.

:D Yes indeed, they did get you good...lol
But I'm sorry I didn't put my away message on. I'll be there for a little while, so if you wanna talk, now's the time.
But anyway, be grateful it wasn't real. I know I am..lol.
*Diamyn*

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well i asked her if it was ok if i was still friends with him and it went..

me (6:16:29 PM): hey
her(6:16:35 PM): hi..
me (6:16:39 PM): whats new..
her(6:16:45 PM): i still hate being a girl man
me (6:22:12 PM): me2
me (6:22:22 PM): i have a question..
her(6:22:28 PM): ?
me (6:22:51 PM): well ill respect it if u say no but i want to know if its ok with u 1st before i do anything
her(6:23:14 PM): uhh sure..if i dont answer..in the next min..it means i ran for the bathroom to thow up
me(6:23:23 PM): ok..
me(6:23:26 PM): but is it ok if im still friends with lamp?
me (6:23:29 PM): or no
her(6:23:38 PM): Yeah, it don't bother me
me (6:23:43 PM): ok





so i guess im ok with being friends with him? right

hmmm... i would say yea, but you can never tell on a computer. when ever you see her, ask her face to face, and make sure you study her expression after you ask her and when she answers you. Her expression and her voice will tell if she means it or not. But I think she doesn't mind. Just make sure because this IS a very delicate situation. Good luck:D
*Diamyn*

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...o n btw some girls were nagging her about being friends with me n she wrote this whole big blog on how no one can tell her who she is to be and who she isnt to be friends with n if they dont like that then they arent truely friends with her...which i agree...so i dont think she will mind? but ill asked her thx again

Well she definitely sounds like a good friend, i don't think she'll mind either, but like we both agreed, asking her will answer one of your questions.
You're very much welcome:D
*Diamyn*

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hey ok here is the thing i know its a lil confusin but plz try and help..last night 2 of my closest friends one as my best friend and one whom i know and im a lil close with who i saw twice, they both r in 8th then me so there still in the jr. high so i dont know what goes on between them since im in the high school now. well my friend comes on and tells me that my friend slapped him across the face and called him a jack@$$...but then again i dont blame her bc i would have done the same thing most likely...the thing is that i still want to be friends with him but i dont know if i want to, i dont want my BFF to get mad..though we have gotten into a fight over the summer me. vs. her n my X-BFF and anyways we became friends again and all n my X-BFF was ok with that...now i dont know if i could do this because i miss him and i do want to see him again..i just dk where i could go to hang out with him n still be friends bc im not allowed to go to the movies with guys nor can i go to their houses or have them over till im 16...we have gone to the mall twice but she was with us so i dont think the mall would be such a gr8 idea...he said well see how things work out between us and well work from there on where we can see each other or we would just have to wait till next school year to see each other again..which i dont know bc she'll also be in the school with us and i really know what to do...
i know she liked him and i liked him too @ the time but he was in a grade younger so i know i wouldnt be able to see him much till next year...so i just backed off think i may like him...i dk i how that would effect her..i asked them both if they would ever be friends again..she said she didnt know n he said he doubts it...im feel like im stuck in the middle of this and i dont want to take sides..since i was right there on-line in the chat when the whole fight broke out.

btw he is in a grade younger...yet he is 2 months older so he is now 15

Well, that was kinda confusing, so I'm sorry if I misunderstood any of the info.
But you're in a really sticky situation, so I'll try to help:)I think you shouldn't kill your friendship between you and him. You really like this guy, so you could try to be friends again.
But you should ask your friend if she wouldn't mind you being friends with him.

She doesn't control your life and who you wanna be friends with; but if she doesn't like the idea and you really don't wanna lose her friendship, then she may have some control then.
So, all you can do for now is ask her. Then weigh out the two people. Which could you imagine you being friends with for a long time?
If she's a good friend, then she shouldn't try to stop you from being friends with anyone, whether she likes them or not. You don't have to feel like you're stuck. I really hope things work out, and I helped you! Need anything else? Feel free to come back:D
*Diamyn*

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we are doing a brosure for class on a planet and my planet is mercury and i put "Come and swim the nice beaches of Mercury. It gets very hot so
come and get a nice tan and make sure to bring sunblock too! Make sure to pack for very hot weather. You can go scuba diving, swimming,
surfing, build sand castles, meet a bunch of new people, or just play a simple and fun game of volleyball and hang out with your friends. At
night you can have a fire and roastmarshmellows and relax the night away! This will be a trip you will be sure to never forget! Garenteed.You
can stay at The Beach Front Hotel or The Merc Motel. .. how does that sound to you? I have to have 4 more sentences could someone help me?

that's really good....but I really can't help you with this subject. I don't really know much about mercury. :(I'm very sorry, but I hope that you do get help. Once again, I'm sorry:(
*Diamyn*

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There is this guy who i've known for about 2 years now. He's really nice. I talk to him every once in a while on the internet and last year we had assigned seats at lunch next to each other every day for 4 months. We, this year, are in 4 classes together. He is the kind of guy who likes to make people laugh, but he's not a class clown. He's always real nice to me and he and i talk sometimes.. and whenever he cracks a joke or something he looks directly at me to see if i'm smiling or not. I thought at the beginning of the year that he liked me and i liked him a little so i asked him to the dance and he never gave me an answer. Does he like me and what should I do about it? 13/F/7th grade

:)I really do think he likes you, because he does talk to you. I believe you should try telling him that he didn't give you an answer last time, and ask him again. If he still doesn't give an answer, then ask him why. Hope it works out!:)

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i'm 16/f. is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me? i like this guy but hes 2 years younger than me, i'm a junior...hes a freshman. Thanks guys!

It's totally fine, honey, because as long as you both have feeling for each other, it doesnt matter what grade you're in. You're most welcome:P

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how do you view ratings people gave you for your answers?


THANX

easy. go to your own column(located on the left side of screen), and click "view feedback"
you will be able to click on the numbers to see which person and question it came from, and if they left a message, you will see that too.

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i'm a freshman in high school.. 14 years old, and i'm dating a sophomore. all these girls my b/f hangs out with don't like me. today, these two girls - anna and liz were talking to my ex boyfriend, corbin about me and ryne. anna asked corbin if me and my b/f had sex.. (its not true).. liz said no, corbin said no, and anna didn't believe them. anna hates me w/ a passion by the way.. but yeah.. she's going to go around telling evryone a stupid rumor, and my b/f already bitched her out and went to the dean and told him. but what can i do to make this rumor go away or stop? or how can i stop them from ruining my reputation? i have a good rep right now and i don't want it ruined.. plz help! i'll rate all 5's for an effort.

sorry to say it, but there really isn't a foolproof way to stop the rumors or make them go away. the most you can do is deny it and hold your head up high. if you keep denying it, and you don't make any remarks that would make people think it's true, then most should think it's not true after a while. but it shouldn't even take long.

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This is gunna be really long, im sorry. but thanks in advance to anyone that helps! ok, so last night i was hanging out with my boyfriend of almost a month, and we were drinking but neither of us were even feeling a buzz. well one of his friends touched my stomach, and my boyfriend is extremely protective of me and got really pissed. he was trying to calm down and was shaking, he kept telling me he was gunna kill him, so i told him not to worry about it that his friend has no chance with me and i said 'your all i need'. right after i said this he got the sweetest lok on his face and said the 3 words i would of never thought would come from his mouth- "I love you". this caught me by complete surprise, i didn't say anything back, i just kissed him, well throughout the coarse of the night he told me he loved me 8 times. each time i said nothing. We've only been going out for almost a month (will be a month this friday) but have been really close and flirtly for 3 months. i finally gave in and said i love you too one of the times he said it. I do care for him soo much, just for me its so hard to believe in the word and meaning of 'love'. But yet i said it to him, and i think that was a mistake on my part. but i couldn't just not say something. But i want to talk to him about it and tell him i dont want him to say those words until he is sure of what hes saying and when he means it. but how am i supposed to talk to him about it?

well, girl, it sounds like you've got a good one.
just ask him do you love me?, then ask him why does he love you.
tell him you want him to make sure he feels that way before he says it.
tell him thats the reason why you haven't said it- because you wanted to make sure.
trust me, whenever you have to force yourself to say those 3 words-you aren't ready to say them and you shouldn't. you'll know when you wanna say them.
Best of wishes 4 ur relationship! Hope I helped!

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is 12 too young to wear thongs?

well the real purpose of thongs is say, you have these pants or short and they would really show the panty lines, thats what thongs are for. so the clothes would look better. but if that's not the reason you wanna wear them, well, I don't think you're too young; if people find out, they might get the wrong message about you.
wearing them is totally your decision.

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I work at a restaurant and there are some really nice guys there that are about 20-25 years old. a lot of them have been kinda flirtin with me and i told my mom! my mom said that i'm not dating them! should i obey or not? i'm 17 and I'm a female and she said i should only date 17, 18, or 19 no men over 20!

men over 20 usually try to take advantage of girls your age(I guess) So i think you should listen to mother dear. Or, she'll tell you one day, "I told you so."

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ive going through alot of changes and i have new friends.. so yea but one firend, sarah, introduces me to alot of people in High school.. whateveer and i meet new people. I sometimes get the feeling that they dont liek me. and every guy ive ever liked likes her and gives her the attention, all of it. Id say shes loud and can be mean but i love her..advice?

If she's loud and mean, then they only want her for one thing, most probably. they don't see your potential as a good girlfriend because they're being blinded- if you know what i mean.
don't worry. youll soon find out who your best friends are.(or maybe boyfriend too)

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Does anyone know of some good ways to make money? Im 14 and I can't babysit because there aren't any kids in my neighborhood. I can't seem to find any ways to make some money.

can you do hair? do you know how to braid?
do you have a computer so you can burn cds?
or maybe get some different color ribbon and a regular scrunchie, get two different colors, cut the ribbon into small pieces and tie it to the scrunchie until you fill it. It might take time, but girls will love them if you get the right colors. I did it once and I had to stop because of the demand. Good luck! Hope i helped!

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is it wrong to like ur boyfriends best friend?

I've done that a few times, thinking that my bf's best friend is the one, but it always turned out not to be so. Yes it would be wrong, especially if someone winds up being hurt(namely your boyfriend.) Plus, what if that was you?

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