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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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I'm 13,female and into goths.How can I get this gou to like/notice me if we only go to school and ride the bus together(not alot of time to mingle).I'm really shyand don't know the first thing about guys and flirting or dating.Need help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!=/

go up to him and let him know you like his clothes or something. he will notice you and get to know you if you just talk to him. simple ( :

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Okay,well im trying to find the best place to get my bellybutton pierced. I live in the Fairfax/Manssas,VA area If any of you live around here and know a good place could you please tell me! Also if the place has a website could you give it to me i want to look at the body jewerly and figure out about how much it will cost before i go. Thanks!!

fusion @ springfield mall, not sure if thats still open. There comes a time...thats near fairfax highschool.

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okay. so, i ended up getting a gentle no from a guy on my invite to an upcoming way formal dance. what he said was that he really wants to go, but he just cant afford it. what am i sopsed to do about that? since i asked him should i pay for his ticket? so, i guess u could say he likes me...right? so what do i think of that?

please please please help me!!!!!!!!!!!

It may hurt his feelings or ego if you offer to pay since guys are the ones who are suppose to, but you could offer to lend him some money for now if you really want him to go.

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She is not very social. She is not very "cool." She wants to be my friend but I don't like her very much. She is weird. She got off the bus crying the other day because people call her a lezbo and a homosexual. I asked her why she was crying and she said she didn't know what thoughs words mean. I am 1 year younger than her. She is a geek...HELP ME! How do I a) get her away from he and/or b) make her cooler shall I say.

well first of all let her know what those words mean. Either you guys are very young or she has been living under a rock to not know what they mean. Anyways, you can get away from her by telling her you don't feel comfterable around her or you can make her cooler by letting her hang out with you & lettin her in own new "cool" stuff.

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Hey I go to football games every Friday at our school, so I went yesterday. Whenever I'm there, I'm wild and crazy and I make tons of friends and I'm not afraid to do anything. But at school, I never act like that. I'm shy at school and I'm never that outgoing, and I'm afraid that if I see my friends from the football games at school that I won't be what they thought I was. What do I do? =[

its ok if you just act like that @ football games cause your excited for your team and all...so i dont think anyone will think anything of it...besides, no one is crazy & outgoing all the time...thats just annoying

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I just started Junior High, (Catholic school) and I know everyone. But the thing is, I can't stand all the homework they give us. Today was my second day, and they gave us homework in at least half of our subjects. It took me 3 hrs just to do it! And between cheerleading for 2 hrs after school, and the homework. i just can't take it! And I try to stay focused, because my main goal is the honor roll this year-but in most of my classes, i have to sit next or across from all the girls I HATE. They are such bitches. What should I do? Any tips? If anyone wants to screw around with their answer, it will be an automatic 1.

well theres no way you can really make your teachers cut down on the hw they give you, so its your job to make time for everything. If your grades suffer, you should drop out of cheerleading for a while...and to get hw done faster, try doing it with a friend each day after school/practice...she can do half and you do half...and copy each other.

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I am starting high school this year. My mom told me she was in FHA club when she was in school. What other kinds of clubs are there? Does anybody belong to one that would be fun for me to try? I am a girl.

I was in leo club, mesa, msa, writers club, key club, deca, goal , minority club...there are sooo many options...you'll prob hear about them in the announcements each week

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My boyfriend's birthday is September 14th, and I dont know we're so alike and things like that but I still am so lost on what to get him for his birthday.

It's his 16th so I dont want to just be like "OH HERE" and hand him something stupid. Plus, Im gonna try saving up but i just hope im not limited on money and all that stuff. But yeah.. any ideas? HE LOVES MUSIC. Stuff like slipknot, system of a down, korn.. and all that. You never see him without his mp3 =)

ill definitely rate high for great helpers.

get him a tshirt of a band he likes..or a dvd of their music videos. guys always love cologne...i love VERY SEXY FOR MEN from victoria secret..it smells real nice. oh and guys always appreciate the south park dvd

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Ok, I've been going to private school for 9 years, and for the first time I will be going to public. I'm really freaked out. Is public school really as bad as everyone says? I mean do people like actually get beaten up and raped? and how do I protect myself? How do I know who to hang out with? Please help me.

public school is fun, you'll meet tons of new ppl and make lots of tight friends....you wont be beaten up or raped unless maybe you live like in a ghetto school...but if you live in a good county, nothing to worry about.

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there is a girl. she doesnt know how i feel about her, i think. she's been helping me boost my self confidence. i want to show her i appreciate it. i just dont know what to do.
help.

just tell her...I really appreciate how you've been helping me through a tough time...or next time you see her...try bringing her roses but u dont have to make it too romantic...girls love chocolate...

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I have a friend that lives quite a way away from me in a different state. We really enjoyed being together at a summer camp, and I really want to stay in touch with her, and "snail mail" goes so slowly. I don't want my parents to find out that I'm constantly sending letters, because she'll think I'm crazy and that I like her and stuff and she'll tell everyone that I know and mess up my life... I know I'm a guy, but how can I just let this be a friendship without people thinkin' I'm serious because I'm not? Thanx in advance!

why dont you guys talk online and email eachother? email is so fast and friendly lol
talk to her over the phone, if you dont want your mom to know, you can buy a long distance card from a store and call her with that. lol but i think it'd be cool if you told your mom...that it was a FRIEND

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okay so i went out with this guy for only two weeks...he asked me out ONLINE two days before school ended. he is hela popular and stuff and im not that popular and people said that we were kinda random, but we had soo much in common...and he was really hott. so after two weeks, he tells me that he's moving to a different state, and my bitchy friend told me he was lying so he didn't have to go out with me again, but then he really did move. now, its like 6 months later, i hela miss him and i dunno why....and he visited like last week but he didnt even want to hang out with me, and everyone was al "o ya he's in town i saw him today' but i had no idea..should i just get over him

Yea your friend probably said that because she was just jealous that you had him or something. First decide if you would even still want to be with him - long distance relationships seem to be hard from the stories ive heard - call him up and see whats on his mind, if he's interested in you...and if he doesnt already have a girl , then you could tell him you like him n stuff, and if he doesnt feel the same way, just move on.

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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!

lol no its not bad. sometimes its frowned upon by some ignorant people but otherwise i dont think its bad.

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What should I ask first?

a)screen name
b)cell number

Shes kinda, quiet. How do I get her to open up a bit? We both play guitar... I dont know if that owuld hlpe at all.

I think screenname because then you can get to know her better online....and den u can ask her for her number...by then you'll already know if shes into u or not ...good luk

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ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...im suppose to go to the movies see him later today w/ one of our best friends..who goes to my school..who used lived down the street from him...so can u help me? -thx in advance *i rate*

Well rather than telling him.."just be yourself"...try tellin him.."Girls love it when guys are themselves around them" ... that might get him to listen! lol....and tell him that girls dont like guys who "try" or "act" different than who they really are...it really is unattractive you know? every girl wants to be with a guy who is laid back and nice naturally... aite girl good luck

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does anyone know how to fade freckles?
.:~*I rate 5's*~:.

You could get that power foundation stuff(available anywhere but the best kind if from hechts or aveda), go to them and tell them, I need foundation to hide my freckles and they'll def be happy to help you out.

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there is this boy in my class and he is like the most popular in the grade/skool....i like him alot cuz hes a gentleman,nice and funny. i am the tallest one in my grade and im like a couple of inches taller than him. i want to go out wiht him...but i dunno kno how its gonna work. He like trys to make me laugh andstuff but im shy when i like someone and i am around them. I think to mayself mayb i have a chance with him then i c all the other popular girls hanging around with me. How can i get him to ask me out and like me w/ my height?(plz give me ur TRUE & BEST opinion)(i hate when u say "he has to accpet u the way u are")(ps..i am not the most popular person but i am wellknown and nice to evryone therefore im not unpopluar but im not really really popluar)
THanKz...sry its long

Well, if you want him to like you, you gotta stop being really shy...im not telling you to get all over him BUT you got to atleast talk to him. Think of it this way..if you dont talk now...some other girl will. Hmm about the height thing, well talk to him first of all...and if you guys do go out, go someplace where he'll notice ur personality more rather than your height...like the movies or just to a romantic restuarant...where your sitting down most the time. if he's interested, the height wont be a big problem...good luk

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