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When i was in 3rd grade i was ALMOST rapped, then in 6th grade, i was. The guy who rapped me was only 4 years older then me and he keeps calling me..hes 17 now and i dont know what to do. im scard but if i tell anyone i dont think they would believe me or theyd think i was joking..what do i do?! (link)
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Being raped is no joke. People should believe you, before you tell friends, tell someone like your parents, or your school counselor, and answer whatever they ask, they can get you help and keep this guy away from you, and prevent this from happening to others.
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I may be pregnant but I dont know for sure.
I am moody all the time but I hide it.
My last period was eregular.
The pill is my protection but u can still get pregnant with the pill.
We have been together over one year.
He thinks I may try to get pregnant without telling him.
Should I worry him wiht me so he can support me?
Should I wait untill my next period to find out for sure?
What do you think? (link)
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Being moody and an irregular period doesnt exactly mean you are pregnant. Yes in some cases women can get pregnant on the pill, but thats rare, and usually because they dont take it like they should (much like what younggrandma said.
Take a test.
If it is positive tell your boyfriend, and your parents, and call a Doctor.
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i am a junior in high school & i just got a job this past november, which i have had for about 21/2 months (it's at a candy store). i really enjoy it & since i am a junior i will be there until i graduate highschool. i am pretty sure (99.99%) i told the owners that i would be home in the summer to work & i am pretty sure that since i am a junior they expect me to be there. however i just heard about this amazing arts program (it's sleep away) at a college for people my age. it is pretty demanding, but i would LOVE to go for theatre. however, it's 5 weeks long...the end of june to the end of july. i don't know if i should even bother auditioning for it, because i think i am expected to work. i know i could just tell them at work that i am going away for 5 weeks & they can't do anything to stop me, but then they may not want me back after july. i want to keep my job for next year too, so i don't know what to do! what would you do in this situation? thanks! (link)
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ASAP, bring up the situation with your boss/supervisor/whomever is in charge. With such a long time notice, they should be pretty easy with you, and if you work well, they wont want to lose a good worker, and telling them you would love to keep your job for the next year too, im sure they can arrange something for you.
So i suggest you talk to them about it as soon as possible, and work hard and well.
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My power is out and Im SO bored!
I NEED something to do.
the way im doing this is on my lap top but I cant plug it in because there isnt power and it only has a little power left! So I cant use it for much longer.
Theres NO lights, fridge, TV, or anything.
Its also cloudy so its dark and theres not a lot of light to see.
Im home alone.
Please give me some ideas of what to do!!
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well, light some candles..or get some flashlights.(if you have some that is) read using light from the candles or flashlights.(again if you have them.
you can draw, you can listen to music if you have a portible walkman or cd player or something.
you could sleep to pass some time by. sucks when the power goes out, thats all i can really think of.
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I`m a straight A student. Last week I grabbed the wrong composition notebook so I wasn`t able to turn in my weekly D.O.G Work. My teacher refused to take it when I turned it in late for half credit. I told her today I admit I made a mistake and asked if there was anything I could do. ( my grade was a 96 but since I didn`t turn it down it went to a 71%) She yelled at me, Told me she wouldn`t grade any crap that I would do to get extra credit, laughed in my face, and completly insulted me ( and made me cry ; I don`t cry easily ) in front of the whole class. Now getting a C wouldn`t upset me, however if I don`t get 98 or above on ALL my papers/projects/tests from now on that grade could easily fall to an F and I would be kicked off of the cheerleading squad and lose my Captain position. What do I do ? I Have no hope of getting any sorta extra credit ; progress reports come out on this coming Monday and my coach always does grade checks.
PLEASE HELP ME. (link)
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you need to report your teacher, have one of your parents/guardians call school and have them talk to the principle.
there is no reason for a teacher to react this way, at all.
hope things get better-*
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ok yall i need some help.ok the thing is that i like this guy but he is in the 6th grade and im in the 8th.he is as tall as me not imature so--- sweet cute and possibly likes me to.i think he does cause he always flirts with me but no one else.i dont no if i should or not. i think he is 12 or 11 and im 13.which isnt that bad .but the thing is if we do become bf and gf i dont want ppl thinkin i was just desprate or any thing like that.cause im not i just dont have alot of self confidence with askin guys.so idk wat i should do.plz help i rate high. (link)
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imo, i dont think age matters at all, as long as the feeling is there. get a friend to talk to him to see if hes single and likes you, like..wants to be your bf. if yes, chances are he wont turn you down if you ask him, and if he does he is one messed up kid. =P
or you could ask him if he wanted to hang out sometime and get to know him a little better, and after getting to know him better, just say "hey (name), i think i like you..and i think i want to be more than friends" or something along that line
♥-good luck
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I'm a ninth grader and I am not used to getting like you know the kind of attention you receive from guys. Now that I've got in high school, that has changed a lot and I've sort of gotten used to it but I don't expect it to last very long since they are guys. But there's this one particular guy right. I mean, who ever would think that he would associate himself with me. But he did. I met him last year when I rode his bus and we just talked, you know. But this year, my bus driver has been absent a lot and we've had to ride his bus. I've been sitting with him on the seats in the morning and he'll tickle me or hold me at times that's longer than necessary. Thing is- is that I don't want everyone to know about me and him because I'm not sure that he may be comfortable with people starting the possibility of a false rumor. I feel that way too. Plus, I'm fresh in high school. I don't want my reputation ruined. He holds me, touches me in an appropriate manner, tickles me, and we hold hands, we even talk on the phone. And this morning, he said he wants to kiss me. I don't know how, and I just don't know how. I mean, I just don't know if I should b/c I don't know how and we aren't even boyfriend and girlfriend. We're just friends, I think. Oh I don't know. Oh, and we've already established that I'm not gullible and that I only do what is appropriate because I'm not down with the freaky stuff. Oh and I'm a virgin too. I need help people . Just tell me anything that'll help.Oh and he said that he's going to kiss me this afternoon and I don't know what to do. (link)
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well, kissing just comes naturally, and i think its good that he is telling you so you will expect it. just when it happens dont even think about it, just a little tip is to write the ABC's with your tongue.
(if its that kind of kiss anyways)
I think you should talk to him, it sounds to me that he likes you, a lot.
So i think you need to clarify things with him, see what you two are, and see if you should become boyfriend and girlfriend, and there shouldnt be a reason to hide the relationship if its to happen.
and its highschool, people might start rumors, people might not, but highschool is so full of drama anyways (im a jr. in hs) and as long as you know it isnt true, and as long as your friends know, you should be happy, and just ignore it or laugh it off, and if it bothers you find out who started it and talk to them about it.
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I am in high school and I am a male. I am also gay. There is this guy i really want to meet because somehow I love him. It may sound farfetched but I am making blisters with his initials in my skin and I can't stop thinking about him. This other guy asked me out to the movies but because HE was down a few seats on a bleacher below me, I couldn't say yes cuz it felt like betraying him (which I know is insane but I really like him) I've taken like 5 pages of notes on him and I'm planning on getting into a sport he obsesses over but when I finally gathered the courage to talk to him, it ended before it got started. If I were just to be friends with him would be fine, just to be around him really would be great but I can't even speak to him. I get nervous every time i get near him and its impossible to speak. If it were more natural i could do it but just I think he's going to look at me as a freak if i go up to him randomly and just start talking. I just don't know what to do. (link)
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Hi =]
Getting into something he is into is a good idea. but you dont know if he is gay or not too, and if you do a sport, get a locker close-ish to his, so you can start small talk, its easier that way than to be across the room and come over and say hi and leave. just, when you see him, take a deep breath, relax, and just say "hi" and continue on with your business.
Try talking about the sport he "obsesses" over too. Its nice talking to people with common interests. =]
As this continues...you should start becoming more comfortable around him, so it will be easier to talk to him.
He wont think your a freak if your just being friendly, and if your teammates, its a good idea to be nice to one-another.
Just take it slowly and calmly at first.
probably isnt the best advice, but good luck!!! ♥
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Alright, so I work in this fast food place, and it's pretty horrible there. It's a shady company to say the least. Anyways, I've been working there as long as the manager, and that's longer than anyone else becasue they're always hiring new people since everyone's always quitting.
Anyways, I gave my two weeks notice on Sunday, and on Sunday night the assistant manager told the manager that he had had enough because something else had happened. So I had to go in yesterday because my boss wanted to talk to me, in other words, she begged me to reconsider.
Everyone loves the assistant manager, just because he's nice and fair, so I know two guys who are going to quit because he quit. So basically, this place is screwed. Now I feel really pressured to 'reconsider' even though I really don't want to work there anymore. It's just a bad place to be, but I feel bad for my manager. What should I do? (link)
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if you dont like it there, you shouldnt work there.
if you are going to feel bad, wait for a few more people to get hired, then quit. but if you really dont like it there, quit. and hopefully your manager will realize the place is crappy and make a few good changes.
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