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I don't know what We are.
I'm a ninth grader and I am not used to getting like you know the kind of attention you receive from guys. Now that I've got in high school, that has changed a lot and I've sort of gotten used to it but I don't expect it to last very long since they are guys. But there's this one particular guy right. I mean, who ever would think that he would associate himself with me. But he did. I met him last year when I rode his bus and we just talked, you know. But this year, my bus driver has been absent a lot and we've had to ride his bus. I've been sitting with him on the seats in the morning and he'll tickle me or hold me at times that's longer than necessary. Thing is- is that I don't want everyone to know about me and him because I'm not sure that he may be comfortable with people starting the possibility of a false rumor. I feel that way too. Plus, I'm fresh in high school. I don't want my reputation ruined. He holds me, touches me in an appropriate manner, tickles me, and we hold hands, we even talk on the phone. And this morning, he said he wants to kiss me. I don't know how, and I just don't know how. I mean, I just don't know if I should b/c I don't know how and we aren't even boyfriend and girlfriend. We're just friends, I think. Oh I don't know. Oh, and we've already established that I'm not gullible and that I only do what is appropriate because I'm not down with the freaky stuff. Oh and I'm a virgin too. I need help people . Just tell me anything that'll help.Oh and he said that he's going to kiss me this afternoon and I don't know what to do.
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Why do you care what others think?? Maybe, you should tell him that you want to be friends for now and your not ready. If you like him, than do what you can. You dont need any experience to kiss, a kiss is a kiss....Oh, also you have to remember that making a relationship will break your friendship forever..
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crazy thing im in almost the exact same spot. im havin a hard time with it to. i dono if you like him...but obv you dont want him to kiss you...right? so just say (if u want to be..) "listen. your moving to fast for me. i just wanna be friends for now. okay?" try that and c how it works out
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Kissing isn't that big of a deal, it has nothing to do with your virginity. You could kiss every guy at your school and still be a virgin. What this situation comes down to is, do you want him to be your boyfriend? If so, then kiss him. Start a relationship. If not, then tell him you don't want to be kissed by him. That's all there is to it.
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stay a virgin, dont be another whore in america. do what is right. by the way im a sophmore and i hate freshmeat, just kidding!
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well, kissing just comes naturally, and i think its good that he is telling you so you will expect it. just when it happens dont even think about it, just a little tip is to write the ABC's with your tongue.
(if its that kind of kiss anyways)
I think you should talk to him, it sounds to me that he likes you, a lot.
So i think you need to clarify things with him, see what you two are, and see if you should become boyfriend and girlfriend, and there shouldnt be a reason to hide the relationship if its to happen.
and its highschool, people might start rumors, people might not, but highschool is so full of drama anyways (im a jr. in hs) and as long as you know it isnt true, and as long as your friends know, you should be happy, and just ignore it or laugh it off, and if it bothers you find out who started it and talk to them about it.
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