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Q: what are some good movies (playing right now) to watch on dates? i haven't seen much previews, someone tell about a movie?

It depends on the type of movie you are in the mood for like Monster in law(comedy) with J.Lo,alot like love( romantic comedy) with ashton Kutcher and Amanda Peet,house of wax(horror) with chad Michael Murray and Paris Hilton.
just check out moviefone.com for some movies that are in theatres now. ♥ Peachgirly

Q: theres this kid that keeps following me like everywhere and its freaking me out...what should i do?

confront him telling him to leave you alone. if he doesn't then you can tell someone or report him to the authorities. also if you had a friend with you would he still follow you? you can have your friend also tell him to leave him alone. good luck! xoxo peachgirly

Q: ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy

itz not weird at all and age doesn't matter. Cause itz only a year a part. what counts is that you like him. also don't care what other people think if people are making comments about this at school. xoxo Peachgirly

Q: Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why?

No itz not gross at all and theres nothing wrong with that because itz only one grade different. xoxo peachgirly

Q: im in student gov and we have to plan the spring dance. does anyone have any ideas for a theme? plz no under the sea or hawiian. thnx!

a night in rome,a night in the nile,Las Vegas themed, Spring fling, tropical nights,fantasy themed. and try this site. http://www.andersonsevents.com/index.cfm/PageID/657

Q: Ok I am new so just bare with me here... There is a boy at my school that I like but doesn't like me back. He wants to keep our friendship but he doesn't know it hurts me so much. And just today he asked out my friend. Please help me. Oh I am 13 and so is he.

i think that you should just move on. he obviously isn't the one for you. but don't worry there are plenty of other guys that you will meet later on. everyone goes through heartbreak so stay strong. xoxo peachgirly

Q: hey there,
theres this guy at school I really really like.
Before our xmas vacation,we had this party at school. Out of no-where, he just said "hey S".
A week later, he asks me about the yearbook comitee.
After the vic, we had PE together, he called my name and when I turned, he waved with a big smile on his face. I was so surprised, after that I developed a crush on him. But all he does is say "hi" and told me one funny thing my guyfriend did(they're in the same class). I really dont know, does he have a crush on me? Every time I decide to give up on him, someone says he glanced at my direction or was staring at me.
I really need your advice, should I wait or should I give up on him?

I think that you should wait and see what happens next. he may like you or maybe he is just being nice and friendly. i had the same situation and it turned out that the guy likes me as just a friend. Guys can be confusing at times. but don't give up cuz he may have a crush on you. good luck!

Q: Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..

Chris or Steven??

I think that you should go out with Chris cuz who knows he could be the one for you and you haven't went out with him yet. and if you go out with Steven again you may get your heart broken again and just break up again. also don't go with what your friends think i mean itz your decision. and think this over compare steven and chris on what you like and don't like about both of them and you will get your answer. xoxo Peachgirly

Q: ok im 13 and i wanna no should i care what people think? theres a guy i really like and he asked me out but he's like a 7! i need answers!

You shouldn't care what other people think. if you really like him and he likes you you should just go for it. if ppl start making comments just ignore them.

Q: there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me?

I think that he just doesn't want his friends and other people to know and maybe hes just embarassed. and you don't need to be the Paris Hilton type to get the guy and he may like you because you are normal and he find you attractive. He shouldn't care on what other people would think because if he really liked you then he wouldn't care on what other people think and hes being stupid.You should dump him if he keeps doing this and itz upsetting you. Good luck!

Q: A few days ago i wrote about likin this kid austin i took the advice everyone gave me so thanks!:) but he said no, ok neways this kid john likes me and i have known him since kindergartin but he not that cute and kinda heavy. but hes a really nice guy. problem is HE REALLY LIKES ME but i feel no way about him like that, anyways i can tell him nicely that i dont like him, and dont say its not you its me. and plz no rude comments

You should say sorry, your a nice guy and all but i don't like you in that way and maybe we could be just friends. I hope everything goes well for you.

Q: OK, I am so pissed off right now, I had a crush on these guys and they dared me to wear my short pink lavender skirt to school and wear a thong under it, and bend over while throwing away a piece of paper, so I did it, and when I bent over I let out a huge toot and now they keeping making fun of me! I am embaressed, but now they pobably don't like me, huh?

help please.

my opinion is that you should of tried to laugh at yourself and don't care. i mean we are all human and we all make mistakes. anywayz those guys are immature jerks so don't worry what goes around comes around...

Q: Okay i like this girl in my school....I dont think she likes me.But she dont know I like her like that too....We met this year but we are really close.....What should i do!

You should tell her that you like her cuz i mean you two are close right? the worst that can happen is that she'll say no, i don't like you in that way. remember this, it's like a 50/50 chance like when flipping a coin she'll either say she likes you or she doesn't like you. so you need to take the chance and maybe she does like you and you don't know it. if she saids she doesn't like you then maybe she isn't the one for you. who knows maybe you two will remain friends and she'll eventually start to like you after thinking about it. Good luck!

Q: What do you do when you someone tells you the guy you like will never ike you should you give up?

Signed
Should I give up?

never give up until ya try and get an answer from the guy u like and don't ever listen to someone that saids that the guy will never like you and thAT you should give up just cuz they say so. Good Luck!

Q: i'm 16/f. is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me? i like this guy but hes 2 years younger than me, i'm a junior...hes a freshman. Thanks guys!

yea, itz ok to date a guy younger than u

Q: i dont usually wear make up but when i do it's always messed up! how can i put it on better and what should i use?

I suggest that u go to the makeup counters at the mall like Nordstrom,robinsons may or maybe victorias secret beauty and then the people there will suggest wat u should wear and will help out. good luck!

Q: Im already having problems with my life right now but this just makes it worst!
Everyone has a girl in their school who is pretty, smart, friendly, flirty, somewhat popular.
My problem that I need advice on is how do I become that girl?
This girl, her names megan, shes short, blonde hair, pretty, smart, friendly, sorta popular, has an annoying voice sometimes, really flirty, talks about sex` bi (likes chicks n guys) a stoner but you cant tell.
She can become friends with anyone and they love her, she can start a conversation with anyone adn they talk back
Im not jealous of her bc she told me Im pretty too but I just cant be like her, I wanna find a way to be like her and I need real advice -not just talk more or flirt more- but real advice
So if anyone can help me out Id love that so please help me out Im stuck with this girl till Im outta school so I really need this advice
Please and Thank you

Just be yourself and don't care wat everyone else thinks. itz bad to try to be someone ure not. at the same time i just wanna point out that no one is perfect. also remember this always love and accept ureself for who u are....

Q: is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!

theres nothing wrong with crushing on a guy who's darker skinned or black

Q: 14/m there is this girl who i kinda like. the problem is that she is out of my league. she is in all honors classes and im only in honors math and we're not in the same class. there is also this other guy that likes her (a friend of mine) and he has a better chance at going out with her than me cuz they are closer than she is with me. how can i get close to girls, so i'll have a better chance with them than other guys?

Start talking to her and try to be friends wit her. Good Luck!!! :)

Q: erm...ok, I'm 13/f/ca, and next year I'm going to be a freshman in Highschool, I'm wanting for hopfully some...encouraging words. I"ve heard this kid saying I'll trashcan me cuz then he'll be a seinor. Do Seniors really make your Freshman year a living hell? how bad is it really? I need the truth really, cuz some people say you're never trashcaned in highschool, and others say Seniors are made to make Freshmans lives year a living hell.

pleaaaaaase help!!

signed,
Paranoid

my opinion is that U REALLY NEED TO STAY CALM AND JUST DON'T PANIC. Good luck.

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"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someones hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, smile till your face hurts, dont be afraid to take chances or fall in love...& most of all live in the moment cause when you look back someday knowing you have no regrets it's gonna be what makes you smile."