Website:
my myspaceE-mail:
queenx3bee@hotmail.comGender:
FemaleLocation:
PennsylvaniaOccupation:
studentAge:
16AIM:
bRi4nn4 xxMSN:
queenx3bee@hotmail.comMember Since:
March 12, 2005Answers:
59Last Update:
February 17, 2007Visitors:
6666Favorite Columnists
solidadvice4teens
queenhearts
dottie4
Teza
LOL_x0x
SWEETXLOVE
bitterxsweet
jealousyxo
xcheerbabex108
xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx
vivalajam0x
more...
Main Categories:
Love Life
Work/School Relationships
Friendship
View All
about
Hiii everyone (= im Brianna but people mostly call me bee & im the sweet 16. i was born 9 - 9 - 90. i have two younger brothers which makes me the only girl and the oldest. im in 10th grade at HAHS. i plan to either be a pediatrican or an accountant. i have a problem trusting boys. just boys in general. i think because of my past relationship, it made me realize how easy it is to believe a lie. but dont get me wrong, i will give a boy a chance, i just learnd not to believe everything someone says unless its proven to me. i dont really have a best friend actually i consider my mom my best friend. i tell her everything and i cant picture myself hiding something from her. i plan to get married eventually but no kids. im a unique person and i could be trusted with anything. i like to help people out and make them realize things from a different view. so thats what brings me to this site. if you have any questions or need help with a situation, im here (=
advice
Hey. Well, I don't mean to seem stuck up or concieted(sp) but everyone has always told me I'm wicked mature for my age. And when I go out or something with my friends, they often do things I know are wrong, but I really want to do anyways (not like smoking and stuff, just drinking on a very rare occasion.) And like, I really wanna have a fun time with them, like when we all have our boyfriends with us [on the rare occasion I have a boyfriend] and they're all like attached and stuff. I don't know if that information really helped, but I'm wondering if there's a way I can make myself loosen up and get a little bit less uptight. Help! Thank you :)
My best advice would probably be to stop thinking about it so much. i think when you see your friends doing certain things, you always think about " what if this happened " or " what are they gonna think, " so when you see them doing something that you would like to do, go for it. try it & if you feel that you dont like it or its not for you, you have a mouth and just say something or just stop. for the drinking part though, drink alittle a day at a time so that you can get used to it, and really see if you like it or not. also, see how your friends act after their done doing things like this and realize if thats how you wanna act after you do it too. i hope i helped.
i will try to be quick. me and my best friend(who is like a sister). i have some freinds from another school and she meet them and "fell in love" with one of those boys and annoyed the heck out of him. me and my friend got in a really big fight and i told the boy that she is not always so nice ect. now he wont talk to her and i keep trying to talk to him but he either wont listen or never answers his phone ect. my friend also thinks that since this booy will only talk to me that he must like me. I screwed it up because he used to like her and i need help because i want to talk to him and tell him WHAT I SAID WAS MOSTLY OUT OF ANGER AND THAT HIM AND MY FRIEND SHOULD AT LEAST TRY TO BE FRIENDS but he wont listen. how should i aproch him and tell him. i also have like 4 questions for him. how can i get him to talk to me about this girl? Thank you in advance and i hope you can help me as soon as you can!
thanx,
Maris54321
P.S. if you have experiance with this, if you could explain what you did to deal with this that would be helpful.
i was never in a sitatuion like this. but if i was, i think i would write a note to him. since he wont pick up his phone and talking in person might led to him walking right away. so writing a note to him would probably be your best bet. dont give it him yourself though, maybe have one of his friends do it and then dont tell him who its from. explain to him what happened with you and your best friend and what you said was just out of anger. tell him how great of a person she is and how you think he should give her a chance. on the other hand, to get things fixed with you and your best friend, i think you should honestly tell her what happened. that anger took control of your words but you are fixing it because you realized what you did. since shes your best friend she probably will understand. if the boy doesnt want a relationship or to be botherd by her then let him be and your friend can find another boy that will treat her like she needs to be treated. hope i helped.
OK so ummm yeha i really like this guy Matt but i dont think he likes me but most my friends do anyway i met this new kid yesterday i he's really cute and we talked for a few minutes and well i kinds like him now too and i found out he's bi i have absolutely no problem with it and i think i could actualy ask him out but like i cant talk to matt cause i freeze everytime i try so yeah should i go for it with this new guy or stick with matt???
my opinion is to stick with the new boy. if you have a feeling that matt doesnt like you then that could stop you from asking him out because if you already doubt yourself with matt then you`ll doubt yourself from being with him. im sure if matt REALLY does like you then he will be the one to come to you. & he will ask you to be with him if he likes you the same way. for now see how things go with the new kid. things could actually work out. especially if you already have some feelings for him in the beginning. best of luck (=
I was in class today and this girl on campus i kind of know was looking in my direction and it seemed liked she was looking directly at me so i looked back at he rnot a dirty look but a half smile look and she begin moving her lips but i didn't know who she was talking to or what she said but whatever she was sayiing it looked like it was being said with an attitude so later i asked her was she trying to tell me soemthing not in a attitude kind of way but like i was asking a general question. Was i wrong and should i feel embarassed?
you shouldnt feel embarresed at all. actually i give you credit for doing that! i know if it was me i would be so shy to go up to him and ask him if he was talking to me. my point is that just think if you didnt, you would be wondering for god only knows how long, if she was really talking to you or what she was saying. i mean who knows, it could always turn out for the best and if it doesnt, at least you know the truth, right ? no harm in that! (=
In about a week I have this huge presintation i have to do in music class. IT has to be 10 minutes long, including an oral presintation and a song to go along with it. The teacher puts so much pressure on you because she is really strict. I don't know what to do, I am so afraid of stage fright I can't even deal with it. Please help me, if you think of anything I can do to get over this, including pills or sumthin....but not like serious drugs! Please don't say you have to take deep breaths and imagin no one is there, because it doesn't work and you kno it too! please help me..
luv..
in need of major help
wOw am i so much like you. i know exactly what your going through. i wanna tell you what happened to me when i got so worked up and when i kept telling my self i couldnt do it. i had to do a presentation on a president in front of my whole class. i mean of course i was nervous, i couldnt even bare witth it. i kept telling myself omg im so nervous, im gunna fail, and basically just telling myself that i couldnt do it. well when i got up there to it, i had a panic attack. my eyes went blurry i couldnt see anything, i got dizzy, and i fainted. i mean i was ok and everything. but my point is dont tell your self you cant do it. you have to have self confidence. keep telling your self im gunna do great or i can do this. even if you would like practice in front of a small group pf people, like family or friends. or even in front of mirror. good luck with your presintation and i wish you all the luck
(14/f) Everyone thinks I make all my boyfriends up because they don't go to our school.. I don't understand why they'd talk such crap about me behind my back or why one of my 'friends' doesn't even believe me.. it makes me feel like they think I'm not pretty or nice enough to get one and so I have to make one up! Someone please help me.. what should I say?
im sure alotta people go through this problem. in each and every school your always going to have your gossipers and what not. my best advice to you is just dont worry bout what they say. all that matters is that you know your not lieing, you know you have someone right for you. i used to be just like you, i mean i would worry about what people thought of me, and what people would say about me. let them think what they wanna think, you just stay true to your self and dont stoop to their level. as for your friends, id say the heck with them. if their not going to have trust in you and believe you, they're not your friends to begin with. so to sum this up, stay true to yourself and all that matters is you know that your not lieing, and thats all that matters. good luck with whatever you and i hope i helped.
There's this girl at my school who's a total bitch and talks about everyone. She always says nasty things about people who aren't just like her and thinks she's so much better than everyone. Just the other day she was making fun of a guy that's in a wheelchair & in the hospital because he's having problems with his lungs. She said "wow what a retard... Why are we wasting our time talking about him?" like it was some big joke. People told her that was REALLY mean but she burst out laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world.
She also found out that me & my friend said something about her.. Now she yells shit at us in the halls & even drew on a picture of us in a classroom. I'm so sick of her acting so childish. We'll both tell her to grow up & get a life but she just keeps on doing it & dragging other people into it. It's getting so irritating and really getting to me.
What am I supposed to do? I can't just ignore it anymore.
soo many people go through this, weather its in junior high or high school. im in junior high and theres just soo many fakes and so many that think their the shiit. my advice to you is just get even. yea payback is a biitCh but i believe you and your friends can do it. if you and all your friends get together and like just when she says something, be like you have no life what so ever goin around hating on other people is gunna get you no where in life. im sure if you stand up to her, she'll realize that shes starting to losse alot of her friends. good luck and always remember if someone can see your fear, they'll walk all over you. hope i helped
ok i have a problem i wrote this embarssing email to my friend and i told him stuff lik i lik him and really ambarissin stuff lik that and i wanted to kiss him i fell lik he doesnt lik and he read and he didnt care but he sent it to his step brother and his step brother sent it to everybody in my class and i said some stuff bout a couple of them and i didnt want them to no how much i acctually liked him and i dotn no wat to do i really wanna cry im so upset plzz help
heyy hunn!
you shouldnt be upset for expressing your feelings. i mean, you feel that way so what? theres not on person in that classroom that doesnt feel that about their crush right? dont be upset because of the way you feel. theres nothing you can do to stop your feelings. As far as the boy goes, what a jerk? ha am i right? hehe. you have nothing to worry bout cusz the hardest part is over! now all you gotta do is find a new crush cuz that boy is soo gOnee! hehe i hoped i helped and i wish you luck =))