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my freind, my friend, me! confusing
i will try to be quick. me and my best friend(who is like a sister). i have some freinds from another school and she meet them and "fell in love" with one of those boys and annoyed the heck out of him. me and my friend got in a really big fight and i told the boy that she is not always so nice ect. now he wont talk to her and i keep trying to talk to him but he either wont listen or never answers his phone ect. my friend also thinks that since this booy will only talk to me that he must like me. I screwed it up because he used to like her and i need help because i want to talk to him and tell him WHAT I SAID WAS MOSTLY OUT OF ANGER AND THAT HIM AND MY FRIEND SHOULD AT LEAST TRY TO BE FRIENDS but he wont listen. how should i aproch him and tell him. i also have like 4 questions for him. how can i get him to talk to me about this girl? Thank you in advance and i hope you can help me as soon as you can!
thanx,
Maris54321
P.S. if you have experiance with this, if you could explain what you did to deal with this that would be helpful.
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i was never in a sitatuion like this. but if i was, i think i would write a note to him. since he wont pick up his phone and talking in person might led to him walking right away. so writing a note to him would probably be your best bet. dont give it him yourself though, maybe have one of his friends do it and then dont tell him who its from. explain to him what happened with you and your best friend and what you said was just out of anger. tell him how great of a person she is and how you think he should give her a chance. on the other hand, to get things fixed with you and your best friend, i think you should honestly tell her what happened. that anger took control of your words but you are fixing it because you realized what you did. since shes your best friend she probably will understand. if the boy doesnt want a relationship or to be botherd by her then let him be and your friend can find another boy that will treat her like she needs to be treated. hope i helped.
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This guy doesn't really seem to be interested in her or anything about her. If he doesn't want to talk about her, you shouldn't keep bothering him about it. You know that you messed it and it might be too late to take it back. I personally can't relate to your situation but I've had friends who had. Ask him to hang out and just to talk and it doesn't necceseraly have to be about her. Ask him those question. Text him.. anything just to get his attention. But like I said, if he doesn't want to hear about it, don't make him. It might ruin [ your ] friendship with him and I don't think you should risk it. You can't always fix what you messed up and you have to understand that.
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