|
Am I like, a loser?
Hey. Well, I don't mean to seem stuck up or concieted(sp) but everyone has always told me I'm wicked mature for my age. And when I go out or something with my friends, they often do things I know are wrong, but I really want to do anyways (not like smoking and stuff, just drinking on a very rare occasion.) And like, I really wanna have a fun time with them, like when we all have our boyfriends with us [on the rare occasion I have a boyfriend] and they're all like attached and stuff. I don't know if that information really helped, but I'm wondering if there's a way I can make myself loosen up and get a little bit less uptight. Help! Thank you :)
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
One thing you could do is follow your friends lead. Do what she does, but try to make it your own, (so that it doesn't seem like your copying her).
Make a joke every now and then. Make everybody in a good mood. You want to be a character but not a MAIN character. In other words, don't hog up the conversation or anything. Just be there, but don't be in their faces.
-AJ
]
My best advice would probably be to stop thinking about it so much. i think when you see your friends doing certain things, you always think about " what if this happened " or " what are they gonna think, " so when you see them doing something that you would like to do, go for it. try it & if you feel that you dont like it or its not for you, you have a mouth and just say something or just stop. for the drinking part though, drink alittle a day at a time so that you can get used to it, and really see if you like it or not. also, see how your friends act after their done doing things like this and realize if thats how you wanna act after you do it too. i hope i helped.
<3brianna
]
More Questions: |