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I dont know how too..


Question Posted Friday February 16 2007, 10:12 am

i dont know how to just have fun!! i cant think of anything,im just like a doll,or a shell. I don't have anything to do at sleepovers,that is if i have any ! I mean,i have friends,but they're only school friends,and i dont think they find me interesting. I wish i could just scream and not be afraid to yell and have fun,but i can't! i feel like there is nothing i can do about this,and i fell like im just a lost hopeless person with no reason,i just feel...mediocore[sp?] and boring.i seriously dont have a life. and i really want one. So i guess my question is;how do i make a name for myself,how can i make friends who care about me and want to hang out? Its just so weird for me... :(. Anyways to those who actually answer,thanks.

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runawayxlove answered Friday February 16 2007, 1:19 pm:
hey, well i get when you say "in school" friends. i have a few of those. there okay to have but having in school/out of school friends is way more important. join clubs in school and stay social. that way you will eventually build out of school friendships. you could also work on your in school friends too. try inviting them to hangout outside of school. show them a good time. maybe go to blockbuster pick out some scary movies and have a mini party!

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vivalajam0x answered Friday February 16 2007, 11:44 am:
Hey,

Awww I'm sorry!
If you're "friends" don't find you interesting, then they're not even worth calling your friends.
You can find NEW friends by doing sports, clubs, etc.
You're just a shy person. It's not anything to be ashamed about.

Just scream if you feel the urge. I mean, you only live life once, right? :]

As for ideas to do at sleepovers..play DDR, (everyone loves that), Twister, play manhunt (hide & seek in groups) ... etc. Have your friends suggest something.

Before your friends come over, though, have an energy drink so you're nice & hyper :)

Keep your chin high!!!
Good luck

-Jam

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