It all depends on you.

Are you attracted to other women? Are you attracted to this woman in particular? Is your marriage strong? Have there been good ground rules set up as to what you're comfortable with and what you aren't? Are either of you the jealous type? Is this a one time thing, or is he going to expect it again later?

You have to ask yourself and him these questions. It can be an amazing thing to share your partner, but only if it's right for both of you and your relationship.

If you aren't into women, I would say to just call it quits right there. It wouldn't be a sexy experience for you. It would be awkward and uncomfortable, and just no fun at all. If you're not into this woman, ditto.

i did all the things you said and i thought it would be fien but now he lives with her and has left me and our kids behind.

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