It's easy to find a great guy: whenever a random dude approaches you and asks you to have sex with him, run in the opposite direction.

Having sex is not a way to get peoples' respect or adoration. When you define yourself by something like how many guys want to sleep with you, you're disrespecting yourself. You have a million other qualities that are far more important than your genitals.

Don't listen to your sister. Seriously. I'm an older sister myself, and I can't imagine ever telling my sister to sleep with random guys because she's good at sex.

thank you :) and my sister is telling me this beecause she wanted it

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My name is Amanda and I'm 26 years old. I'm currently studying electrical engineering. Armed with a fairly odd sense of humour and a sunny outlook on life, I'll take on just about anything. I'm also cussedly stubborn, which has its ups and downs. Things get tough sometimes, and I've never been one to run from it.

In my last 8 years with Advicenators, I've gone from honours student to failing out of university (and getting back on top again!), from single to married, from tenant to homeowner.

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