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Q: 20/F This Fall, I'll be going to a local University to work towards a Bachelor's Degree. I am going to live in a 4-person dorm and we each get our own rooms. I do not know the people I'll be living with. They will be chosen at random. Can you guys please provide me with your experience of living with roommates? Also, did you guys take the time to "get to know each other" or did it just kind of happen? This is my first time living away from home, so any input will help. Thanks!
Well, I can tell you that your living situation will be better than mine was! I shared an 8x8 room with another girl. We were total strangers when we moved in together. We had filled out information sheets so that we could be paired by habits (tidy, messy, night owl, early bird, etc.)

I found that by the end of the week we were really good friends. The university will run a ton of group activities for both your faculty and your dorm building, so there's no problem getting to know people. Even if you're not great friends with your roomies, there's still a whole building of people who you'll be close to within a few months.


Thank you! You're so positive :)
Now, I'm excited!

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