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Q: Ok well i am 14 and a girl
My "father" moved in with us 3 years ago when we were living with a family member
From the 1st sec i hated him
When he got to the house he started telling us what to do and being mean
A year after that my "mom" and "dad" bought a house without telling me or my brother which we all decided they would tell us
They bought a crap house where the air conditioning was bad, a big oil pipe in the backyard, and old wooden floor. (THERE WE BETTER HOUSES BUT "HE" WANTED THE WORST ONE))
Next he yells a lot and i am a person that would say "the hell would help you" when i get yelled at
So he would always get mad instead of listening to my mom (she is sweet and i love her will all my heart but i really do think that she is complete retard) about getting a moving van to move he made my older brother do all the work of moving and "he" would call my bro a retsrd and that he could not do anything right while he just stood there
He took 20 round trips with my brother and my mom had to buy the gas
Then we got a bunny and he took my bunny outside (a cage with pipes as walls)
PS i am an animal lover and future vet!
I told "him" not to and that he would run away
we i came back from dinner my bunny was gone
But like always he would do whatever the hell he wanted (all in 1 1/2 years)

List of "him"

-anger problems
-bought old crap to call furniture instead of my cousin new couches that she offered to give us
- Curses all the time (before he came into our lives we would never curse at all but then they started)
- called the puppy we got mine when he punishes her and he chooses everything
-he yells at my mom and she takes it (she is a retard like i said)
- he tease me because in am shorted then normal
-calls my mom names
-keeps on saying that "then i will got back" whenever my mom got mad at him
-he has no job and does nothing around the house

About me

- I hate cleaning i get allergies
-i can't wash dishes because i would get a cold
-i have a lot of homework and projects to help me mom cook
-i love new things so my mom buys some like every 5 months

oh yeah also i had 2 surgeries and the first time we had to stay in a hotel after he stole the remote, changed what i was watching to some movie with cow crap in it and i get sick with that)
Cause of that i slept on the floor a few hours after my surgery

I asked my mom so many times to divorce him cause in all we all hate him even his own siblings

Well there is WHOLE lot more of thing he did that i hate him for

1.what i am asking is am i right for hating him so d**** much
2.should my mom divorce him?
3.would you hate him

THANK YOU FOR READING AND SORRY FOR THE LONG DETAILS
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE JUST EMIL ME :D

also he is my real dad we can my mom, brother, and i came here 8 years ago
3 years ago "he" got his greencard

and i have been trying to cope with him but they alway end up bad the last time this happened:

my brother, dad and i went shopping for fish (during the move i lost "erick" my 4 year old betta fish that i loved with all my heart i kept his tank" "he wanted to use my erick's tank for his new cheap fish (all the fish that went into that tank after erick died. that tanks) the tank ment the world to me because it was the every last time that i was happy for real cause when we got to the new house my other 8 year old dog died by getting hit by a car-he was the only one that went out that morning
ok well he started screaming cause i would not let him use it and i told him from the begining
he yelled at me for 10 mins and when my mom came in he yelled at her to saying how "you don't teach your childern anything" well to make it short he yelled at me to take it out of the living room if i would no use it and i cried for the whole evening (i am very sensetive when people are mean to me especilly about my pets)
my mom had to bring me food first before she went to work because i would not go down stairs

I can guarantee that you're not going to like my answer.

You are way out of line. You are the child in this relationship. He is your father. You have no right to choose where you live (are you paying the bills?). You have no right to decide what the rules of the house are, and you most certainly should not be telling your mother to divorce your father.

Your excuses as to why you can't do chores are ridiculous. I have severe asthma and allergies, and I still manage to clean. You can't get a cold from doing the dishes. Billions of people around the world manage to do their dishes without catching colds.

You want to know what I think? I think you sound like an incredibly self-entitled, whiny, obnoxious brat. Try being nice to your father, and respecting his decisions. Contribute around the house. Stop ordering your father around. Your family pays for your food, your shelter, your pets, your things. Start treating them with the respect they deserve. Act like an adult, and they'll treat you like an adult. Keep acting like this, and you will end up alone. Your parents won't support you forever, and nobody else would live with someone who acts the way you are now.

Rating: 5

you are right I lie to get out of stuff and I never thought of it like that cuz i will be alone one day an d then i am gonna hav to do all this stuff for myself. i am just mad all the time and i take it out on my dad and it makes me feel better when i see him cry and so i want him to cry all the time and i do everthing i can to make him cry but i guess i should stop but i don't knwo how cause it is like a drug when he cries and i love it so much to see it happening. i thought every teen agre wants to make their parent cry cuz that is how they act on TV right? so i guess i have to learn to clean cuz im gonna be on my own but i can still make my dad cry even when i am not living here so i can always feel better EVEN IF PEOPLE MAKE ME CLEAN it will maek me feel bettr when he cries so i guess clening is worth it i dont knwo.

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