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I always feel that im not pretty, and im fat. when i knw that i am average weight for my age. what can i do to stop feeling self-consinsious about my self??
Self-confidence is really attractive to guys. Not all guys are shallow. The good ones aren't. Your personality is important too. However, if you do not feel good about your outward appearance, change it. Go on a healthy diet and get regular exercise. Get a makeover: new haircut, new wardrobe, put on makeup. Don't go overboard, though. You have to love yourself first.