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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!
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Me and this boy was goin together for about three months. But we had broke up alot of times before, but always got back together. But then i guess i said the wrong thing to him and he just got really mad and broke up with me. We had broke up so many times before that i didn't really take it to serious. But he did, he made it seem like it was really over. I took the break up really hard and cried all the time. (we just broke up december 16) I have been hearing from people that he has been tryna get with another girl. shocker. I talked about it with him and he said that everybody was lying. so whatever. he still call me everyday and we talk all the time. last nite he told me that he loved me... I could not say it back for some reason. i can't allow myself to feel that way with him because he might hurt me again. He says he is over me but i think thats all a front. Because if he was over me like he say he is then why do he call me? I think about him all the time. And im still very much in love with him.. should i try this again and take a chance? or should i just let the past be the past and moce on? hellpp! im so confused.
I think you should move on.
If you continue to see him in the relationship format, you'll always have to watch how you act and what you say - it's not really that healthy of a relationship. You two have hurt each other, I'm sure, and he's still hurting you. You say you're just getting over heartbreak, so maybe your heart needs a little more time to heal before you dive right into another relationship - especially with him.
He says he's over you, so whether or not it's just a front, I say move on. Maybe you should be single for a while, that way you can figure out who and what it is that you really want.
(Rating: 5) Thank you. Yeah, I think I am going to move on.. I cant continue to let him hurt me.. I deserve way better then this. Thank you