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how do you kno if a guy is just after being physical with you?? please help cause i need to find this out about this guy who keeps talking to me and stuff. thanks :)

It's usually hard to tell until you're actually in the relationship. Then again, I've had guy friends who have basically wanted a booty call whenever they were in the mood for something.

If it's obvious, you'll know.
If not - it'll be difficult to tell until you're in a position where something may occur.

Just know that if you're ever uncomfortable in a situation, you have the right to tell him no and to back off, etc.
If he gets upset (even a little bit) about you saying no, then he doesn't care about your feelings, only his desires.
That's how you know a guy isn't worth it and that it could only get worse from there.

Honestly, though, until you start dating or hanging around each other more in person - you won't really know unless he basically tells you.

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(Rating: 5) thanks!! :)

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