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I'm Johanna. I'll Come and Go. What can I say? I try.

One thing I LOVE to do is to analyze dreams. Just tell me about a dream you had, and I'll help you understand what it means. :)

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alright well theres this one guy and hes always saying stuff like well: i was singing shake that by eminem(one of my favs)and i got to the part where it goes "go ahead shake ure butt!" and he goes you can shake ure butt for me and then i just laughed and hes like "i love lap dances" and then i was like "oh really?" and then hes like "hmm but you would probably want something in return" and i was like "what do you have on ure mind?" and hes like "ohh youll see" then he winked: is he being serious? joking around?
im really confused!

He's just being your average guy. Most guys joke around like that to girls, just because between the ages of 13 and 17, boy's hormones are raging, and well, let's face it. Most guys' minds are in the gutters. AKA thinking about sex several times every day. He probably does NOT really like you or want to be your boyfriend, or anything like that. From what he said, it sounds like he's only looking to get a piece of action if you know what I mean. I don't think he's really expecting a lap dance from you, he was just joking. However, if you WERE to give him a lap dance, I don't think he'd mind one bit...But don't do that. This guy obviously doesn't want a serious relationship, so it's not a good idea. If it was me, I would have smacked him, haha, but if you can put up with his sexual comments, then that's fine.

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(Rating: 5) haha thanks :)
its just were really good friends& we have gone out before& he has done alot more "stuff" with girls then i have with guys_ but thanks!
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