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I'm Johanna. I'll Come and Go. What can I say? I try.One thing I LOVE to do is to analyze dreams. Just tell me about a dream you had, and I'll help you understand what it means. :)
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Okay, so I'm a 14 year old female. There's this guy in one of my classes, and he's a junior. Since the beginning of the year, he has always paid "special attention" to me, like teasing me and stuff. I even recall a while back in October-ish, I was walking in the hallway afterschool, l and he was with his friend, and he stopped to talk to me.
Now, he's always like looking at me in class, especially when I talk to any guys. But I don't know if I'm just imagining the signs or if he teases me just to look cool in front of his friends. Or maybe he's just a friendly guy.
Oh, let me add some more details about us, I guess. I gave him a present over christmas break (it was just a card lol) and he seemed to really like it, he had this big smile on his face. And he's always telling me how nice I look. Also, I'm the girl he talks most to in class (this isn't much though, because there arent a lot of other girls in the class and all the girls are freshmen) I expect HIM to tell ME if he likes me or not, because he's a junior, and if I say no to him (which I wouldnt), it shouldnt be a big blow to his ego. But he keeps on dropping hints that he likes me as something..more. That's where I'm getting confused. Luckily there's a winter formal coming up on the 9th that he can ask me to AND valentine's day 5 days later. Think I should ask him to the dance? (sorry, that turned out much longer than I planned it to).
oh and there was also this time in December, when we had free time in class and him and his friends were talking about THE basketball game of the season, and suddenly the guy turned to me and asked me if I was going. I told him I wasn't, and he asked, "why not?" Of course, me being STUPID and MISSING the hint, I said "i'm kinda busy," when I really wasn't (i was completely and totally free!!), because I was embarassed at being singled out like that. If i were smart i would've said "no, because I can't get a ride". and he mightve invited me to come. sorry it's so long T_T
It's alright. It was defnitely worth reading.
Well, this guy definitely has SOME feelings for you. Now I'm not saying that he's absolutely in LOVE with you, but he definitely likes you to some extent.
Older guys are known to like younger girls. They flirt with them, and eventually, the girl asks the guy, "Do you like me?" But I just want to make sure that you know this guy well, and you know about his past. (Example: If he has hooked up with alot of girls.) Just because sometimes older guys have sexual-based intentions, but I'm sure that is not the case with him.
Paying attention to you is definitely a sign that he has feelings for you. (Especially if he smiles or laughs alot around you!) He probably wants you to flirt right back with him. But if you really want to turn this into a relationship, you have to play it cool. Try acting mysterious, and secretive toward him. You can even try acting a little "hard-to-get." By doing this, it lets him know that you are strong and your emotions are not to be fooled around with.
Before rushing into things, casually ask him, on the phone, computer or in person, something like, "Why do you flirt with me so much?" This will break the ice. It provides an opportunity for him to confess his feelings about you. But it's also not obvious that you like him, when you ask that. If he says that he likes you, thats great! Tell him you like him too. If he says.."I don't know..." simply reply, "Well I hope you'll know soon...." Adds a little mystery to it!
Wait out on the dance thing. He'll probably ask you to it, but if it doesn't seem like he's going to ask you, try saying, "Hey, me and my friends are going to the dance. You wanna come with us?" That way, it doesn't sound obvious.
Don't worry too much about it. Just be yourself and I'm sure this guy will soon be eating out of the palm of your hand. XD
(Rating: 5) YOU ARE A GENIUS! Thankyou! I'm definately gonna try out that "why do you flirt with me so much?" question. And I never thought of the possibility that he could be a player. Thanks a lot!