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anyone please this is not that long and i really need help. Sometimes my parents can be complete IDIOTS. im not allowed to go skiing because My dad SAYS that im going to get hurt. I cant do an article for school on RAPE because my mom doesnt like it and now i have to stay up to research another one AND memorize it. (btw im 13/f) These stupid choices of my parents are making me depressed and i even cut myslef because of it. I cant have a boyfriend untill im 17, i cant wear a tampon yet, MY MOM DOESNT ACCEPT THAT IM GROWING UP. IVE TREID TALKING TO HER ABOUT THIS BUT SHE WILL NOT LISTEN. Seriously, My dads decision about skiing. I mean COME ON. IM GONNA GET HURT WTF. i know my parents care about me but they need to let go! They will NOT listen to me when i tell them all this. I cry all the time and i dont know what to do. Sometimes my life is perfect and sometimes i want to die. What i really want to ask you guys is what can i do now? Ive talked to them, that doesnt work. I know a note wont work and they WOUDL NOT go to a counseller or anything. I honestly feel that if i sucide myslef, they might learn something. (Also, im indian if that helps). Is anyone can help me PLEASE do so.
well at least your mom is going to let you have a boyfriend when your 17. Most indian parents dont let their daughters have boyfriends period. I went through the same thing. You have to give them some time. Show them that you are responsible, and they will let go. Your only 13... things will seem really hard right now... but trust me it get's better. :)
Edit= Well i'm pakistani muslim... so technically i was never allowed to have a bf. When i was 13 my mom used to tell me that i could choose who i marry when i am mature enought to make my own decisions... (which meant when i was like 20 or something) However i met a really nice guy when i was 16, and i am still with him! She ended up accepting him, she really likes him. I did have BF's prior to him which she DID NOT approve of. She was very angry towards me at that point in my life.
(Rating: 5) Thanks, by the way how old were you when you were allowed a boyfriend?